Videos gone too far?

[19ay]

Ever been watching a tickling video and think that wow this is really intense...maybe they went too far? I understand that its all consensual and that there are safewords and editing and that there are extreme tickle torture videos, but sometimes after watching a video i find myself feeling sorry for the lee. Anyone else ever feel like that? And what is your definition of tickling going too far and how do you keep it from accidentally getting to that point?

 

[19ay]

generic videos on daily motion. for example however, the bleu fetish video featuring cupcakes. and some tickle abuse videos, but yeah i get it tickle ABUSE lol.

 

[C.A.B.]

 

[tkmn1]

No...because 98% or so of the models are clearly faking it.

 

[voided9]

Ehh, sometimes I feel bad for the 'lee when they're clearly not enjoying it, hysterical and in tears, those don't do much for me. So I kind of get what you're saying. Though it is all consensual and some people enjoy it.

 

[KaBand]

I think this whole concept of having forced orgasms, sex, etc is trashy as f*ck!
There's already a few producers doing this shit too and I think its pathetic.
This IS a tickling forum, isn't it?!?!

The nonconsensual stuff is a very slippery slope and it's hard to say who's right or wrong on that one.
I guess it is subjective.

 

[ticklehound]

Ehh, sometimes I feel bad for the 'lee when they're clearly not enjoying it, hysterical and in tears, those don't do much for me.

Yea, kinda what she said... not only does it not do much for me, but it makes me feel really awkward & difficult for me to watch. I understand personal tastes (except for the 100% non-consensual, no-safe-word, tickle-til-she-sheds-liquids crowd).

Good to know the tickle market is wide enough that we're able to pick & choose what we like to watch...

 

[Mane'o]

You have two questions going here OP. one about videos and one that seems to be about real tickling encounters and how one keeps them from going too far.

On the videos, there are those who get off on the more sadistic portrayals of tickling and the video producers make those videos to cater to that crowd. But still staged and consensual.

As to the question about keeping it from going too far, there are a variety of techniques from safe words to timed tickling to really developing over time trust and intimate knowledge of how the lee reacts. Are you worried about losing your self control during a tickle session?

 

[PhilipRJ_UK]

Good to know the tickle market is wide enough that we're able to pick & choose what we like to watch...

I couldn't agree more with this. There must surely be enough videos out there that everyone can find something that they like to watch and are comfortable with! 🙂

 

[Rusty Shackleford]

I have to echo tkmn1's sentiment; call me a snob (ten years ago a ten second clip was enough to be treasured for weeks) but I honestly think more than 75% of tickling videos consist of faked reactions. There's a consensus that if someone is "genuinely ticklish" they'll thrash and buck and squirm and scream, whereas anyone with real life tickling experience will attest to the fact that ticklish reactions are as varied as the participants... some giggle softly, some moan as if they're in pain or moan as if they're being sexually stimulated, some emit guttural noises from their throats, some simply bitch and curse and insult.

From what I've read from producers, many end up scrapping perfectly good videos because their lee's reactions don't appear to pass the "smell test", and as a result we now see a trend of "INSANELY TICKLISH VICTIMS BEGGING FOR MERCY" screaming and thrashing as if they've been immolated.... this is why my favorite "genre" of tickle vids are amateur bedroom videos of real life couples practicing their fetish in the privacy of their homes.

 

[C.A.B.]

**BANGS CANE ON FLOOR and leans forward on his creaky rocking chair**

Back in my day... all you could hope for was a fleeting second or two of mute tickling that just happened as a afterthought by some porn moustachioed dude to a smack-riddled floozie on a shaky, dust-spotted, skippy 8mm film with a shitty warbled over-loud porn funk soundtrack... all at the mercy and discretion of some disinterested whiskey grizzled unshaven film booth vagrant, with a moist guy on your left and a blank-eyed ticking serial killer on your right in a room that smelled of dried beer, popcorn, and urine, miles into the part of town nobody would ever think to find your mugged corpse. ...in the yellow snow.

...AND WE WERE THANKFUL!

 

[ticklehound]

**BANGS CANE ON FLOOR and leans forward on his creaky rocking chair**

Back in my day... all you could hope for was a fleeting second or two of mute tickling that just happened as a afterthought by some porn moustachioed dude to a smack-riddled floozie on a shaky, dust-spotted, skippy 8mm film with a shitty warbled over-loud porn funk soundtrack... all at the mercy and discretion of some disinterested whiskey grizzled unshaven film booth vagrant, with a moist guy on your left and a blank-eyed ticking serial killer on your right in a room that smelled of dried beer, popcorn, and urine, miles into the part of town nobody would ever think to find your mugged corpse. ...in the yellow snow.

...AND WE WERE THANKFUL!

Pure gold, C.A.B...

I should've qualified my post, saying I don't think the videos have "gone too far" per se... just that the SUPER EXTREME HARDCORE SADISTIC TORTURE just ain't my brand of vodka.

That said, all I can do about it is to avoid that noise & bitch, gripe (err, politely request) the tickling action that I find smmokin' hot

 

[jhop220]

Ever been watching a tickling video and think that wow this is really intense...maybe they went too far? I understand that its all consensual and that there are safewords and editing and that there are extreme tickle torture videos, but sometimes after watching a video i find myself feeling sorry for the lee. Anyone else ever feel like that? And what is your definition of tickling going too far and how do you keep it from accidentally getting to that point?

I don't watch those intense videos usually, and I understand the context. Key word: Consensual.

It isn't my cup of tea...I prefer little bondage (I actually love it when the lee is free from restraints and tries to take it with as little resistance as possible).

 

[C.A.B.]

Pure gold, C.A.B...

I should've qualified my post, saying I don't think the videos have "gone too far" per se... just that the SUPER EXTREME HARDCORE SADISTIC TORTURE just ain't my brand of vodka.

That said, all I can do about it is to avoid that noise & bitch, gripe (err, politely request) the tickling action that I find smmokin' hot

Yes, well, the good news is there are choices out there - so many brands and sub-sets of the tickle fetish you might be hard-pressed to list them all. Its never been easier to find what you want, especially if you consider there was a time not to long ago when you were lucky to find anything at all.

 

[jhop220]

Yes, well, the good news is there are choices out there - so many brands and sub-sets of the tickle fetish you might be hard-pressed to list them all. Its never been easier to find what you want, especially if you consider there was a time not to long ago when you were lucky to find anything at all.

Yep...spot on

 

[Jagermeistered]

Videos do not go "too" far, unless you are a douchebag going to extremes! Outside of that, it is all about taste. So, find your niche and stop complaining.

 

[Leo tickles]

"Too far" is when somebody shoots a video with a girl they snatched off the street, sells it for profit, then kills said girl.

Everything else is preference. I like bondage, extreme bondage, gags, forced orgasms. You might not. This is why there is more than one producer. And if nobody made what you want to see? Go out there and live it.

 

[scorpionldr]

generic videos on daily motion. for example however, the bleu fetish video featuring cupcakes. and some tickle abuse videos, but yeah i get it tickle ABUSE lol.

Yea, that one bothered me.

I guess it's kind of a good thing tho that I can watch something and feel like an asshole just for watching it. Reminds me I am not too far gone.

The "abuse " in tickle abuse vids isn't that bad. Tho I get a whee bit tired of "We're getting her laughing ! She's out of breath! Now....,don't let her breathe!"

 

[chrisheaven]

the key word is consensual

 

[TicklesXXX]

I think this whole concept of having forced orgasms, sex, etc is trashy as f*ck!
There's already a few producers doing this shit too and I think its pathetic.
This IS a tickling forum, isn't it?!?!

The nonconsensual stuff is a very slippery slope and it's hard to say who's right or wrong on that one.
I guess it is subjective.

I think the concept of forced orgasm surpasses what you say. It should be called Tickling Orgasm. And, certainly, what is forced there is not something abusive, but the materialized irony of a human being able to have an orgasm, while being distracted hardly with tickle. It is a storm of sensations, and that is what arouses the most, the idea that they are experiencing something very intense and special, non possible to get without those methods.

 

[rhiannon]

It should be called Tickling Orgasm.

Why? 99% of Forced Orgasm clips have absolutely nothing to do with tickling. It's a fetish on its own.

 

[DanishTickling]

As long as it is consensual and the 'lee has a safeword (which is respected by the 'ler) it won't go too far.
You might think so when you see a 'lee who is in tears and who screams and thrashes violently. But remember that some people like to be pushed beyond their limits. And then of course there is all the good actors who can easily pretend they are suffering. I have seen many of those!

 

[Imlatino]

i think there should not be any screaming or crying any time. or i dont like when the ticklee hates to be tickled but shes doing it anyways.

 

[TKL_M28_LI_NY]

No. The videos I've seen have almost all been fake. The few that MIGHT not be fake, never go far ENOUGH.

Seriously - there isn't ONE chick who LIKES to get tickled and gets soaking wet from it?

 

[shiftdown]

I would have to agree with you on the "too far" part I have unfortunately stumbled on a few that just disgusted me, one of which was from Skelyrata (or however its spelled). Can't remember the name of the clip, but if I see it again I will be sure to post the name.( And believe it or not hes does do Some good work, only reason why I don't like Him overall is cause I am just jealous, I think)