Warheart Vs. Girlfriend Part III: A Worthy Betrayal!!!

[Warheart]

You have read my posts at my lowest because of my mate. Today was the lowest of the low but it has a happy ending so stick around. I was forced/volunteered to watch her brat children (so supernag could go to a job interview) who used to respect me but today decided to fucking nag and whine for near 8 hours for toys, trips to the beaches, parks and other things. Im lucky they didnt ask me to take em to Disneyland! So after I dragged em out of Toys R Us (after buying them what they deserved...nothing!) I took a toy from each of them that they brought and tossed it in the nearest wastebasket. I told them that if they continue to misbehave their toys will continue to be in the trash...problem is they have too many toys so it worked for about 15 minutes! Anyway my fat ass girlfriend got home and said they wanted her to start tomorrow but she had nowhere to leave the kids. I smiled and said does the word "Frankenstein" mean anything to you? FAST FORWARD DRIVING HOME FROM GETTING A KEY MADE: I pulled up next to a cute latino female and smiled and she smiled back. I told her she was quite beautiful and if I could ask her out for a date...she said I work fast. I said well we have until the light changes for her to give me her cell# and then one of the most amazing things happened since Buster Douglas knocked out Mike Tyson in Tokyo...the lovely latina GAVE ME HER CELL #!!! AND IT WAS LEGIT!!! I called and got her answering machine. Soon ill be having FUN again! Latino style which is fine 4 me! Now comes the fun part. Rebelling against Miss Emasculation and her mutant spawn! Oh and no temper tantrum this time, just a suitcase full of clothes and my new chica waiting for me. I wonder what her name is?

 

[steph]

That's awesome baby! Living well is the best revenge~good for you!

XOXO

 

[drew70]

A little tough on the Beav, aren'tcha Wally?

 

[isabeau]

i'm with drew on this one....

isabeau

 

[steph]

Really?
I gotta respectfully disagree gang~have you re-read his original posts about her? This is not someone who was very good for him...Or to him, he deserves better.

XOXO

 

[isabeau]

Really?
I gotta respectfully disagree gang~have you re-read his original posts about her? This is not someone who was very good for him...Or to him, he deserves better.

XOXO

well hon, i remember his first post. and i know she wasn't very good to him, however then he said they had awesome sex.. so frankly , im confused

isabeau

 

[steph]

Well honey, yanno~sex is sex and love is love sometimes. Great sex doesn't always=great love. Sometimes it's just great sex.

XOXO

well hon, i remember his first post. and i know she wasn't very good to him, however then he said they had awesome sex.. so frankly , im confused

isabeau

 

[isabeau]

Well honey, yanno~sex is sex and love is love sometimes. Great sex doesn't always=great love. Sometimes it's just great sex.

XOXO

um your asking me??? lololol.... i am no expert on great sex... ok but i do know how to love....

isabeau

 

[tulipangel]

War hun, Im with Steph! Have fun! enjoy life! personally, i might have handled her kids a different way but I can see why you would throw the toys away... Better the toys then leaving the kids on the side of the road eh? 😉

ENJOY LIFE babe!

 

[german]

Nice man you deserved better. But something makes me think you still have feelings for your girlfriend, simply well because you still call her your girlfriend even though she has a fat ass according to you.

I have always found single mothers to be troublesome to begin with, not all but some and well that can be said about any type really. Anyway be careful with this and good luck.

Kust

 

[kis123]

I smell a rebound and a few other things!

You're not going to like what I have to say, but sometimes I end up being the unpopular one. I'm used to it, but I have to be honest-it's the only way I can function.

So let me get some things straight-if I'm wrong, help me out:

So in order to revenge your present girlfriend, you get another woman involved with you? So if your mess isn't big enough, you bring another woman in who has no clue what she's in for! What happens when you go back to your girlfriend after your affair, becuase you will. You don't even know this girl's name? Wow-you sound like you're all over the place with this one.

And btw, did you settle your job issues? No woman is going to deal with an unemployed man very long. I personally think you should be working on getting a job and getting stable financially and emotionally instead of looking for another woman to get involved with.

I went through a similar situation many years ago. It was baby mama drama-he never told me about the woman or the kid. I spent two years dealing with him going back and forth between me and baby mama. Even his mother got involved and told me I was the mistress. Hell-he wasn't even married! I got dragged into his insanity because he needed a distraction from his girlfriend and her kids! I ended up having to walk away with a broken heart because I was in love with him. He had the nerve to show up on my doorstep a year later. By then I was pregnant with my own kid and was in no mood to rekindle madness!

Eventually you're going to realize that you're going to have to stop running and face your pain before the bottom completely falls out.

I hope everything turns out okay, but I really think this is a disaster waiting to happen. I really do wish the best for you.

 

[Warheart]

i'm with drew on this one....

isabeau

What? Im wrong for jumping off a sinking ship? Should I have given her some kind of 2 week notice? Was I suppposed to dump her, then be like John the Baptist and go to the desert and wear burlap and eat locusts until some god says to rejoin society? Her fate is of her own making and sex is sex its not love. You can get a prostitude to have sex with you that doesnt mean you love her. As for me calling ol' fatso my girlfriend well right now she still is until I cement things with my latina lover. Once again im just looking for fun...I dont want another fucking ring around my finger. OBleedingMe's posts are the reason this betrayal (if it is that) comes so easy to me. Why play by a rule book that your mate has trashed? She could call the cops and get me arrested for cheating I bet!! But hey if ya think im being too rough on her and any guys want an overweight, overambitious, singlemom with 3 mutant misbehaving brats than PM me and ill give you her #. Thanx everyone for your responses even if I dont agree with them.

 

[maniactickler]

I say go find a nice hot young single babe to have some fun with. that will help ease the stress a bit.

 

[Warheart]

I say go find a nice hot young single babe to have some fun with. that will help ease the stress a bit.

Finally someone is making sense! Yes MT I agree and thats exactly what I did. Hey if ya treat your mate like shit hes gonna leave you for someone who doesnt. Its that simple. Women who are overprotected by these ridiculous laws dont get that (except for Steph! 😀 ) so they want their man to be there to abuse for whatever reason they deem worthy. Sorry but not me guys. The time for Insurrection is now. In the words of Sheryl Crow, all I wanna do is have some fun.

 

[steph]

No need to defend sweetpea~I get a lot of grief by naysayers (who usually come back whining and crawling on their hands and knees) because my whole life, my mom has said I'm psychic but f'em. My prediction rate is about 98%, I got stories if you want 'em. I get a really bad vibe from this person, the ex~you're right to move on with your life. You don't have to apologize to anyone for it. Think of your life as a movie~I do. YOU get to be the writer, the producer, the director. Live it out the way YOU want and never look back honey.

XOXO

 

[kis123]

What? Im wrong for jumping off a sinking ship? Should I have given her some kind of 2 week notice? Was I suppposed to dump her, then be like John the Baptist and go to the desert and wear burlap and eat locusts until some god says to rejoin society? Her fate is of her own making and sex is sex its not love. You can get a prostitude to have sex with you that doesnt mean you love her. As for me calling ol' fatso my girlfriend well right now she still is until I cement things with my latina lover. Once again im just looking for fun...I dont want another fucking ring around my finger. OBleedingMe's posts are the reason this betrayal (if it is that) comes so easy to me. Why play by a rule book that your mate has trashed? She could call the cops and get me arrested for cheating I bet!! But hey if ya think im being too rough on her and any guys want an overweight, overambitious, singlemom with 3 mutant misbehaving brats than PM me and ill give you her #. Thanx everyone for your responses even if I dont agree with them.

If you're using OBleedingMe as your voice of reason, now it's really time to get scared!! He doesn't take into consideration that every woman doesn't fall into his negative categories. You can latch onto his wisdom because it eases your pain, hurt, and sense of betrayal. Hopefully, you'll get past this and start dealing with your real issues. If you don't, you're going to carry that luggage into your next relationship, and that isn't fair to her at all!

Come to think of it, no one put a gun to your head and made you date and live with a woman with kids, did they? That was a decision YOU made and YOU have to live with! Go ahead, drag an innocent woman into your mess--it's not me (at least not this time) that has to be involved with your drama! Oh, I forgot-according to OBleedingMe, no woman is "innocent" right?

Have all the fun you want, but when the smoke settles and dust clears I hope you don't have too many bodies in your path.

As far as "naysayers" go, I don't believe in serial relationships. A person should take the time to heal and grow from the past relationship before they jump into another one or they're going to end up an emotional toxic waste dump!!

 

[kis123]

I say go find a nice hot young single babe to have some fun with. that will help ease the stress a bit.

And that'll really help him solve his problems, right?? You shouldn't encoiurage foolishness--then again, I guess I have to consider the source

 

[isabeau]

And that'll really help him solve his problems, right?? You shouldn't encoiurage foolishness--then again, I guess I have to consider the source

welll and considering the source, i never take what maniac says seriously.. he was joking i'm sure at least i hope so.. Warheart you have to solve this yourself.. good luck.. i've offered advice in your other threads, but frankly i'm at a loss now.. you have to do what is best for you.

isabeau

 

[new2sceenbob]

In my opinion...

In my opinion, for whatever it's worth, you did the best possible thing by leaving! Your ex has now shown you her true colors. Remember the old saying, "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me"!

Sincerely,
Bob

 

[drew70]

Really?
I gotta respectfully disagree gang~have you re-read his original posts about her? This is not someone who was very good for him...Or to him, he deserves better.

XOXO

Sure, I've read his previous posts and I really felt for the guy. But this last one seems particularly vindictive, at least to me. "Fat ass girlfriend"...throwing her kids toys in the trash...etc. But I think it's cool he met someone .... I just hope she doesn't see this side of him.

 

[Warheart]

If you're using OBleedingMe as your voice of reason, now it's really time to get scared!! He doesn't take into consideration that every woman doesn't fall into his negative categories. You can latch onto his wisdom because it eases your pain, hurt, and sense of betrayal. Hopefully, you'll get past this and start dealing with your real issues. If you don't, you're going to carry that luggage into your next relationship, and that isn't fair to her at all!

Come to think of it, no one put a gun to your head and made you date and live with a woman with kids, did they? That was a decision YOU made and YOU have to live with! Go ahead, drag an innocent woman into your mess--it's not me (at least not this time) that has to be involved with your drama! Oh, I forgot-according to OBleedingMe, no woman is "innocent" right?

Have all the fun you want, but when the smoke settles and dust clears I hope you don't have too many bodies in your path.

As far as "naysayers" go, I don't believe in serial relationships. A person should take the time to heal and grow from the past relationship before they jump into another one or they're going to end up an emotional toxic waste dump!!

I think OBleedingMe has a lot of knowledge for us guys to consider. No noone put a gun to my head and made me live with this girl. I did so freely and of my own will. It was a mistake. I make them. We all do, especially in affairs of the heart. She treated me like shit and I rebelled. Plain and simple. As for my lovely latina, I just got off the phone with her and I now know not only her name but the time and place to pick her up for our date on sunday. Were going to a Yankee game. Seems shes a big fan as am I...fancy that, a hot babe who likes sports and wants a relaxed relationship. Just what the doctor ordered so to speak. As for the "bodies I leave in my path" they are there of their own making. Im not the Evil Emperor from Star Wars who shoots lightining from his fingers and killed them. They chose to treat a good man like crapola and this good man didnt like it and sought other means of companionship. Thats Karma, you treat people like animals and it comes back to you. Youre a smart woman kis and I appreciate your posts of an alternate view but I think this is one of those times where you have to have walked in those persons shoes to judge them. That person being me. OBleedingMe and ManiacTickler are class acts in my book and your damn right im going to take their advice into account just as I do yours kis and isabeau. The insurrection has begun!

 

[Warheart]

Sure, I've read his previous posts and I really felt for the guy. But this last one seems particularly vindictive, at least to me. "Fat ass girlfriend"...throwing her kids toys in the trash...etc. But I think it's cool he met someone .... I just hope she doesn't see this side of him.

Well drew all this girl I met has to do to not see this side of me is to treat me like a human being. I dont think thats asking too much. Maybe im wrong but if I am than fuck being right!

 

[tulipangel]

War, I think your right for moving out and on! BUT I have to say that if you dont ease up a little, your next post will be how your (ex)girlfriend ruined your sunday date cause she didnt stop calling and blah! I say date, BUT deal with your shite at home first and get your life together! Then fluck around with hot layina girl.... 🙂

 

[Warheart]

War, I think your right for moving out and on! BUT I have to say that if you dont ease up a little, your next post will be how your (ex)girlfriend ruined your sunday date cause she didnt stop calling and blah! I say date, BUT deal with your shite at home first and get your life together! Then fluck around with hot layina girl.... 🙂

Message recieved! 🙂

 

[Warheart]

War, I think your right for moving out and on! BUT I have to say that if you dont ease up a little, your next post will be how your (ex)girlfriend ruined your sunday date cause she didnt stop calling and blah! I say date, BUT deal with your shite at home first and get your life together! Then fluck around with hot layina girl.... 🙂

Agreed my sweet Tulip!