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We are not freaks!

ZenTickling

ZenTickling

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I think many of us would be embarrassed to admit to friends and family that we have tickling fetishes, but why should we?

Speaking as a guy, most other guys I know are extremely attracted to a woman's breasts. Big surprise. Guess what? THAT'S A FETISH! It is an attraction to a part of the body that is not the genitals. It is called mazophilia. Attraction to non-genital body parts is also referred to as partialism. Partialisms are categorized as a paraphilia in the DSM-IV-TR of the American Psychiatric Association.

I don't think there are too many people out there who do not have some kind of fetish. I suppose we're just one of the minorities.
 
It's a lot easier to say, "Dude. I fucking love tits."

Then, "Dude. I fucking love tickling."

It's a lot harder for some to view it as something easy and effortless to own up to publically.

You can put a thousand different labels on it as you see fit, it all boils down to how you go about your interest.

We grow up seeing mainly tickling only happening when one is young. To feel arousal from it as a grown adult is sometimes unsettling due to the aforementioned knowledge that some carry.

No. We're not freaks.

The 'freaks' are the ones who can't differentiate between minors and adults.
 
Boobs or Tickling, I have no plan on declaring my love of either to my friends or family, on account of having zero interests in taking members of either group to bed with me.
 
Scouse said:
Boobs or Tickling, I have no plan on declaring my love of either to my friends or family, on account of having zero interests in taking members of either group to bed with me.
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^ See this is what goes through my head every time someone posts a thread about how they feel bad because neither their friends or family know about their fetish and how they feel isolated because of it. Surely the only people who need to know you have a fetish are your sexual partners and the people of this here community? Did you run home the first time you got your balls licked and share the sordid details of that affair with mummy and daddy? No, and why would you. I don't even recall telling my mates about that, and to be honest getting your balls licked seems like the sort of thing you should really be bragging about. People are strange and odd and sometimes they scare me so much that I want to hit them with barstools and Flymos and a duck.

I too routinely question how "vanilla" vanilla people are. I've seen too many supposedly vanilla lads forcefully pin their girlfriend's arms behind their backs whilst kissing them or repeatedly suggest they take their shoes off and walk to the bus stop barefoot after a night out, and all those stupid "will I won't I" games women like playing once they know you're interested might as well be classified as attempts at FemDom. Bad ones, but attempts nonetheless. Then there are blokes who get turned on by a nice pair of legs, titty monsters, blokes who won't touch a girl with short hair, the fucking list is endless. Everyone's a fetishist; anyone who says they aren't doesn't understand the word "fetish" and likely thinks you're accusing them of getting gimp-masked up then eating their missus' shit or something. As far as our tickling fetish goes I see a lot of reports and scholarly nonsense about how everyone thinks tickling is "weird" and how everyone thinks we're sick. Next time you're getting into it with your vanilla ladyfriend, gently tickle the inside of her thighs for a bit and see how sick she feels after that.

Yeah. We're not freaks. That's as much as needs to be said.
 
tummytickler69 said:
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OK maybe "we" as a community are not freaks, but I'm starting to think I might be... :-o
 
Scouse said:
Boobs or Tickling, I have no plan on declaring my love of either to my friends or family, on account of having zero interests in taking members of either group to bed with me.
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Well if you have a wife or girlfriend, they might talk to other people about it. That might lead to your friends or family finding out. Then if you get weird looks you can say, "You're just as big a freak as me, you have a fetish too!" 🙂
 
'We're not freaks... we're just ahead of the curve...'

Seriously, most of us aren't freaks (not sure where I stand).

Espescially when compared to the average bloke who enjoys just as kinky or 'perverted' things.

Everyone is equally kinky if you ask me.
 
What are you talking about? Dude! I fucking love tits!

But here's the thing. People are different. Some people don't give a shit what anyone is into, some do. So it's inverted sometimes when people tell someone else that there's no reason not to be open about it, only for said someone to have his girlfriend dump him over it. And I guarantee it's happened; Law of Averages is on my side, so don't argue.

Also, I'm pretty sure some of us are freaks. I'm not, but...are you? If you're getting offended by that, then you probably are.
 
I am a freak. All of my friends and family know it. I am not ashamed of it. It is who I am. Being a freak is being different, not bad! That is what we must remember. Even though my loved ones know I am a freak, doesn't mean they know I am 'into tickling' or any other kinks of mine.
I have said before that I don't tell everyone everything about me out of respect to them. Not everything needs to be shared.
One night my dad was drunk and commented on some high-heeled boots he saw my girlfriend wearing one time and how he thought they were cool. I agreed, they are cool. Then he asked, "Does she ever wear them for you?" It took me a moment to grasp what he was saying, then told him, honestly, "No, not for me. She wears them when she wants." He then explained that he liked boots like that........... Thanks Dad. Do I think my dad is a "freak" now? No. But I still didn't need to know what he "likes". According to my brother he has shared a lot more than that.
Any way, to me being a freak is like being a nerd: It is a lifestyle. I am not in high school any more; it is no longer a social status to have such a title but rather a full time job. Screw what people think! They wanna call me a freak and act like they're better than me cuz they aren't into tickling, let 'em! They suck! They need to pick my eccentric lifestyle apart to feel better about their failed miserable lives, who am I to take that away?

Let people who use the term 'freak' in a negative way rot!

I'm fine being who I am. 😎
 
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"Normal is what everyone else is and you are not"
 
so......since i'm not a freak.....

since im no longer considered "freaky", does this mean jaba can cancel the humpectomy back surgery, and still hang out in the tower ringing the bells of Notre Dame? 😛
 
3xPIN said:
I am a freak. All of my friends and family know it. I am not ashamed of it. It is who I am. Being a freak is being different, not bad! That is what we must remember. Even though my loved ones know I am a freak, doesn't mean they know I am 'into tickling' or any other kinks of mine.
I have said before that I don't tell everyone everything about me out of respect to them. Not everything needs to be shared.
One night my dad was drunk and commented on some high-heeled boots he saw my girlfriend wearing one time and how he thought they were cool. I agreed, they are cool. Then he asked, "Does she ever wear them for you?" It took me a moment to grasp what he was saying, then told him, honestly, "No, not for me. She wears them when she wants." He then explained that he liked boots like that........... Thanks Dad. Do I think my dad is a "freak" now? No. But I still didn't need to know what he "likes". According to my brother he has shared a lot more than that.
Any way, to me being a freak is like being a nerd: It is a lifestyle. I am not in high school any more; it is no longer a social status to have such a title but rather a full time job. Screw what people think! They wanna call me a freak and act like they're better than me cuz they aren't into tickling, let 'em! They suck! They need to pick my eccentric lifestyle apart to feel better about their failed miserable lives, who am I to take that away?

Let people who use the term 'freak' in a negative way rot!

I'm fine being who I am. 😎
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Of course I didn't mean to use the word 'freak' in a negative way. We are all at different points in our lives so it's hard to generalize, I'm just going from my experiences (mid 20's). If family and friends found out that I have a tickling fetish, I'd probably get a lot of shit for it. I know the mantra 'who cares what people think?', but most of us are socially programmed with a desire to be well liked and accepted. It's hard to shake that off and just be who we are, regardless of the consequences.
 
This is what i don't get. How do we no who has a tickle fetish, and who doesn't?

I mean, your best friend could have a tickle fetish, but because he/she hasn't told you, how will you ever no? I bet people you no have fetishes and they think to themselves, "I hope he never finds out". I remember when me sister used to tickle my cousin, and just by looking at him, you could tell he was enjoying it. He would pretend he had no way of escaping, while she would tickle him to death. This is the same cousin who looked through my internet history and found tickle videos on youtube. The funny thing is, he didn't make a big deal out of it, and it worries me to this day if he ever told my family about what he saw. I should also mention the boy at my school who sat next to the hottest girl around, and he would deliberately sit back stretching his arms out so she would tickle him. I knew straight away he had a fetish. Because i have one myself, it takes literally minutes to spot something *fetish related*.

What im getting at it is, you never no who has a tickle fetish. Your family could have it, your most popular friend who is good at football and is a somewhat, ladies man, could have a tickle fetish. The reason it seems so uncommon is because no one ever admits it. Mabey if we all admitted it, it wouldn't become embarrassing.
 
ZenTickling said:
Of course I didn't mean to use the word 'freak' in a negative way. We are all at different points in our lives so it's hard to generalize, I'm just going from my experiences (mid 20's). If family and friends found out that I have a tickling fetish, I'd probably get a lot of shit for it. I know the mantra 'who cares what people think?', but most of us are socially programmed with a desire to be well liked and accepted. It's hard to shake that off and just be who we are, regardless of the consequences.
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My brothers found some tickle videos I had been watching and decided to tell all their friends. I don't give a shit who knows. I am also in my mid 20's. But if my family ever found out and "gave me Shit" I would give it back to them 20 fold. Fuck them.
Your family is probably the same way. So, if they can give you shit, give them shit back. Becuase while I don't care what people think, I know my family does. So they can't hurt me, but I can hurt them. I am a good person. And once again, Being a freak makes me different, not bad. I have dirt on everyone I know.

If having a tickling kink/fetish is all they have on me, they are screwed.
 
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