web board reverie

[paperbag]

I come to these forums again and again, hoping to see something promising. But only maybe once a year this happens. So I live in hope of that one time. I'm really so tired of doing the same thing. Wading through all the endless feet posts. Wading through all the posts of other guys. Wondering why I'm stuck with an impossible fetish, that sets the odds of success so low. I've met a few people from here, and some were really disturbed. Only one I consider relatively healthy. I guess I don't know what I'm looking for. Someone who is into more than feet. Someone who is a nice person. Someone who doesn't have a bf that they want to keep, but use me for thrills. I fear that this girl doesn't exist, and each passing year tells me it's true. The lucky few win the lottery and tell you it's the rule rather than the exception. How many of us men stare at our screens each night, hoping for nothing more than a friendly female who shares our fantasies. What a waste.

 

[dvnc]

I'm gonna guess that, despite the lack of replies, yours is a sentiment that is mirrored in the eyes of many reading.

It's tough on either side of the equation. The men seeking, here, see little. The women seeking are WAY more sensibly cautious than the men (as in vanilla society). Note the flood of responses whenever anyone claiming to be female does a post seeking anything.

Connecting with others into tickling, strictly via the forum or even just webpages, is extremely difficult, with few exceptions.

I, for instance, connected with my wife through this forum. I *had* originally met her online via USENET, and communicated with her for YEARS, while I was hosting gatherings on the west coast.

It was the gatherings through which I met the most potential partners. Moreover, my wife knew folks online who had met me IRL, and claimed that I'm not the a$$ that she now knows me to be. 😉 Seriously, she "checked references". Again, women are a bit smarter about this, and more communicative in general, online and off.

Being that you're out east, there's events going on out there. Do meet, physically, IRL, some of us. Befriend a sane ticklephile. Become a known entity beyond the digital domain. It makes meeting women MUCH easier.

It still ain't simple, but few things of value are obtained by simple means.

Peace,

dvnc