weird double standards

[MrChippiesTMF]

i wonder if any of you can relate to this too. speaking as someone with this fetish, its sometimes difficult or beyond me on some level to try and figure out someone who isnt into it. Like when you tell your girlfriend about it and how awesome it is and they are either indifferent to it or dont see the point.
At the same time, when i speak to people who are all about navel tickling or upperbody stuff I completely zone out and wonder what the hell they could possibly get out of that rather than feet.

I guess its not really a question. In fact its just a poorly worded observation i thought id put down on here to bump up my posts! maybe one of you can reword it to make better sense.

 

[BreastTickleGuy]

There's my Chippy.

 

[chicago]

Yeah, not everyone's going to "get it" no matter what you're into. I don't get what people find so arousing with feet, but I know everyone's got their thing and most people don't even really know WHY they like what they do, it just is what it is. The end.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

Yes, that is a double standard, no doubt about it.

 

[MrChippiesTMF]

does the fact that i acknowledge it but not seem bothered by it make it some kind of inception double standard within a double standard?
crap - what happens if it is and ive just acknowledged that too. Hello Limbo.

 

[Mane'o]

Don't over think this.

 

[GQguy]

That's not a double standard bro. Just individual preferance. Something everyone has. I still don't get why women like the male anatomy....but I sure am glad they do!

 

[shygirl08]

I don't understand the foot thing myself. I'm all about upper body.. however I do *not* like to be humored with my fetish. Part of it is for me that the 'ler WANTS to go there. So I either need someone that's on the same page as me or forget the whole thing.

 

[BreastTickleGuy]

I don't understand the foot thing myself. I'm all about upper body.. however I do *not* like to be humored with my fetish. Part of it is for me that the 'ler WANTS to go there. So I either need someone that's on the same page as me or forget the whole thing.

Ideally, I prefer a woman that lusts after being tickled in the same way I lust after tickling her, but I don't mind a woman now and then humoring me by letting me tickle them even if they really weren't into it. Hell, I went to a country music concert with a woman once even though I don't like country music.
If she hates being tickled, then I just don't tickle them. End of story.

 

[mustang]

Everyone has their sexual pecadillos. Those who don't have the particular pecadillo never 'understand' what is so arousing about it. There is nothing to understand. Like AnnieHall said, it is what it is. The interesting (and hypocritical) thing is that some ridicule another's sexual pecadillos and seem to think that their's is OK. Case in point, and I am not trying to be gross, I am trying to make a point. I like foot jobs. I know lots of guys and some girls who love anal sex. Why would a guy who loves to bang a feces encrusted rectum think that my liking to have my prick stroked by a bare female foot is somehow strange?

 

[shygirl08]

Ideally, I prefer a woman that lusts after being tickled in the same way I lust after tickling her, but I don't mind a woman now and then humoring me by letting me tickle them even if they really weren't into it. Hell, I went to a country music concert with a woman once even though I don't like country music.
If she hates being tickled, then I just don't tickle them. End of story.

Oh totally. I'll humor a guy with what he likes.. and I'm sure enjoy it in the process. But as for me? I not only don't like to be indulged in that way, it really is a turn off. I'd rather they not tickle me at all. *shrug* We all have our quirks.

Everyone has their sexual pecadillos. Those who don't have the particular pecadillo never 'understand' what is so arousing about it. There is nothing to understand. Like AnnieHall said, it is what it is. The interesting (and hypocritical) thing is that some ridicule another's sexual pecadillos and seem to think that their's is OK. Case in point, and I am not trying to be gross, I am trying to make a point. I like foot jobs. I know lots of guys and some girls who love anal sex. Why would a guy who loves to bang a feces encrusted rectum think that my liking to have my prick stroked by a bare female foot is somehow strange?

How were you being gross? People like their own stuff and I think the double standard comes in when you like your kink but you look down on other's for their interests.

 

[mustang]

I didn't want to offend anyone's sensibilities with my comparison of anal sex with a foot job. You stated the essence of what I was trying to say in a more succinct way.

 

[Coda]

It's certainly difficult. Fetishes seem to be these highly personalized instances of attraction paired with uniquely tangled impressions about the nuances of interpersonal relations. Rationally, though, I know what it feels like to have a fetish, and appreciation for that feeling has made me react to other fetishes mostly with curiosity. If nothing else, I find them interesting or fascinating.

 

[Raytheon]

The real double standard is people who expect you to understand and indulge their fetishes and sexual fantasies only to ridicule and ignore yours. I have an inflatable and balloon fetish - I love watching women bounce and ride bouncy balloons and pool toys. Your now thinking wtf? thats pretty weird and your opinion of me has changed. This proves my point, but you still want me to tickle you to death. The question is would you climb onto that inflatable whale and bounce away afterwards? 😉