Well folks, I tried!

[tulipangel]

Koochee,
Im sorry about what OkCupid did..... Thats just wrong.... Tickling is so NORMAL compared to a lot of other things out there.... I mean when adults were kids they got tickled or tickled someone.. Its so natural! Some people are just MORONS! I would be as upset as you are.... But, there are a lot more small minded people then people like us who are open to accepting others for who they are! Also, people are scared of things they know nothing about! I was scared of this tickling thing I have going on before I knew about it.... Once I was educated about it I saw it was harmless and I accept it for what it is... It's FUN! I agree with some of the other posts here that say to write to OKCupid and give them some shouts! You have a right to ask what you want (Freedom of speach and freedom of press) and if others do not like it then DONT READ IT! Easy!
Good Luck!

 

[tulipangel]

I tried three times to sign up for eHarmony but they rejected me every time. Looking at their test where a considerable amount of questions focus on physical fitness and athletic abilities and their commericals have nothing but thin/physically fit people, I'm starting to think eHarmony's real goal to to only breed a race of thin people. Sort of like a "No fat chicks" movement. Only they also eliminate all fat guys too.

I was on EHarmony (and im a big girl) I found that I paid all this money to meet a GOOD man and EVERY guy that I was "MATCHED" with paid for the site to sleep with women.... Every guy I met asked if I would f*ck them on the first date! Its a waste of money! TRUST ME! And all the guys I met were nothing like how I like my men! I like a guy with a belly and big arms to snuggle into and they set me up with guys that could be under wear models! Waste of time I swear!

 

[BigJim]

All those model guys who want a shag...

My heart bleeds for you. 😀

 

[He-Man]

I was on EHarmony (and im a big girl) I found that I paid all this money to meet a GOOD man and EVERY guy that I was "MATCHED" with paid for the site to sleep with women.... Every guy I met asked if I would f*ck them on the first date! Its a waste of money! TRUST ME! And all the guys I met were nothing like how I like my men! I like a guy with a belly and big arms to snuggle into and they set me up with guys that could be under wear models! Waste of time I swear!

Only responses (after I'd respond to a person who seemed interested in me, and then gave em my yahoo e-mail addy) on those sites was crap like "cum see my webcam !" or "I have my pics on THIS site, you don't need a credit card, blah blah blah"

I've gotten REAL replies on free personals sites. And so far, none of the ladies I've talked to thought the tickling thing was sick or stupid. ....Then again, comapred to some things seen during Mardi Gras parades , tickling isn't that wild, so maybe that's why they're okay with it down here. lol

 

[shyguy]

Wow,

looks like OKCupid takes a fascist approach to regulation.


Anthony

 

[BigJim]

Wow,

looks like OKCupid takes a fascist approach to regulation.


Anthony

You've obviously never posted on Gamefaqs.com.

 

[tulipangel]

All those model guys who want a shag...

My heart bleeds for you. 😀

LOL I like my men with beer bellys! I have dated a few models and they were a waste of time... so busy looking at themself I felt I didn't exist! WASTE! I love BIG boys! Im a sucker for a beer gut and hot wings breath! lol

 

[TicklishLurker]

I was on EHarmony (and im a big girl) I found that I paid all this money to meet a GOOD man and EVERY guy that I was "MATCHED" with paid for the site to sleep with women.... Every guy I met asked if I would f*ck them on the first date! Its a waste of money! TRUST ME! And all the guys I met were nothing like how I like my men! I like a guy with a belly and big arms to snuggle into and they set me up with guys that could be under wear models! Waste of time I swear!

Keep in mind I am judging strictly on the fact that their test focuses too much on physical fitness and atheletic ability and the commericals don't show anyone even five pounds overweight.

Again - their test got me wrong. That's the problem with these multiple choice things. 90% of the time they don't have the correct answer for me. (This goes for OkCupid, Match.com, etc.) The test is bullcrap. "When at a party...." Well, my answer is - I NEVER GET INVITED TO PARTIES THEREFORE I AM NOT THERE! But they don't even have the "I'm the one hiding in the corner praying no one will see me" answer which would be kind of correct. To get my personality right they need to let me enter my own answers and then get someone who's qualified to analyze it. Then they'd get it right.

I only tried to sign up cause frankly, I'm so dang desperately lonely. I know you need to go out to meet people, but then again, I don't want to go out alone in the first place. So I was trying the match making sites out of desperation. Including OkCupid and Hot Or Not's match site. They all sucked. (Nevermind I couldn't find anyone into BDSM or tickling on any of those either. Even though OkCupid's got a number of BDSM-related quizes.)

*sighs* I feel better now unloading like that.

 

[tulipangel]

Alll those sites do ask more about body types and stuff like that then my doctor.... Is't love blind?
I think that someone should make a fetish dating site where you enter all the stuff from those sites BUT also have a section where you click the fetishes you have or INTERESTS and then you get matched on ALL of it! Wouldnt that be swell!

 

[TicklishLurker]

Alll those sites do ask more about body types and stuff like that then my doctor.... Is't love blind?
I think that someone should make a fetish dating site where you enter all the stuff from those sites BUT also have a section where you click the fetishes you have or INTERESTS and then you get matched on ALL of it! Wouldnt that be swell!

YES! I mean, why not? We have a personals section here. Lots of BDSM sites have them. Why not just expand it into a full on match making? There is a BDSM Play/Checklist someone came up with that people can fill out to show what their soft/hard limits are and what they do like. (Tickling has a 5+++++++++++++++++++++++++++ on mine! LOL)

 

[tulipangel]

YES! I mean, why not? We have a personals section here. Lots of BDSM sites have them. Why not just expand it into a full on match making? There is a BDSM Play/Checklist someone came up with that people can fill out to show what their soft/hard limits are and what they do like. (Tickling has a 5+++++++++++++++++++++++++++ on mine! LOL)

Im so with you on it... I think that with how many porn sites there are match making sites would add that section... even make it optional to fill out! That way its fair! If your too shy to answer it dont answer but dont take away from people who are not shy about their sexuality!

 

[TicklishLurker]

Im so with you on it... I think that with how many porn sites there are match making sites would add that section... even make it optional to fill out! That way its fair! If your too shy to answer it dont answer but dont take away from people who are not shy about their sexuality!

Yeah - sex isn't the end all and be all of a relationship, but a healthy sex life does seem to be a factor. I sure wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a guy who thought my feet were gross and wouldn't touch them ever.

We'd have to have other things in common too. Like a similuar taste in music (I just could not stand being with someone who listens to rap and heavy metal) and tv shows. But enough differences that we compliment each other. (If you're a sports nut, however, prepare to be dumped!)

 

[tulipangel]

Yeah - sex isn't the end all and be all of a relationship, but a healthy sex life does seem to be a factor. I sure wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a guy who thought my feet were gross and wouldn't touch them ever.

We'd have to have other things in common too. Like a similuar taste in music (I just could not stand being with someone who listens to rap and heavy metal) and tv shows. But enough differences that we compliment each other. (If you're a sports nut, however, prepare to be dumped!)

Aww your too cute! I agree... Sex is not the most important thing but it is in my top 5 on my list of important things.... And anyway, its not even like (to get back on topic) the person asked "who likes to f*ck?" he asked "Are you ticklish"! Not even close to sexual in nature.... I guess there are a ton of small minded people and they have nothing better to do then crap on other peoples ideas of importance 🙂 if that makes sence?

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I only tried to sign up cause frankly, I'm so dang desperately lonely. I know you need to go out to meet people, but then again, I don't want to go out alone in the first place. So I was trying the match making sites out of desperation. Including OkCupid and Hot Or Not's match site. They all sucked. (Nevermind I couldn't find anyone into BDSM or tickling on any of those either. Even though OkCupid's got a number of BDSM-related quizes.)

*sighs* I feel better now unloading like that.

You could always try AdultFriendFinder.com or Alt.com

 

[tulipangel]

You could always try AdultFriendFinder.com or Alt.com

Have I told you today how smart you are?

 

[TicklishLurker]

I guess there are a ton of small minded people and they have nothing better to do then crap on other peoples ideas of importance 🙂 if that makes sence?

Well, if you look close, almost all of OkCupid is teenagers or young college students. It was created by SparkNotes - which from what I can tell started out as a site where college kids could get notes for their classes, but evolved into all this crazy things like the Death Clock and Purity Test. So they're immature.

Not that there isn't immature people in all groups. I saw a tickling site that had a remark about most sites having women who were "over the hill" and "not in shape" tonight that really offended me. (Though I refrained from telling the creator that.) But OkCupid just has more immature people.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Have I told you today how smart you are?

No sweets, but I could always use the ego boost.

 

[tulipangel]

I saw a tickling site that had a remark about most sites having women who were "over the hill" and "not in shape" tonight that really offended me. (Though I refrained from telling the creator that.) .

Thats just rude! There are a lot of people in every age group on this site! So that other site can stick it where the sun doesnt shine..... and not in shape? oh please! Do they know how many calories you burn from laughing????? I think this whole site is in pretty good shape so they should HUSH it!

 

[Iishieboo]

;.; Meanies...

I'd rather go on a site where my right (as a US citizen) to freedom of speech is upheld. *nod nod* If people wanna be meanies like that then let them have a closed mind-they will gather nothing from life. And it really is a shame.. Especially because most, if not all of those people, probably have a fetish that someone else would find odd or boring. At least you had the guts to try! So yay to you for trying! I'd be too shy, myself-hehe! 😛

Tulipangel:

YES! Cuddly guys are the best. Being a "fluffy" girl myself, I like a guy that I feel a little smaller around, especially when cuddling.

 

[AquaFeline]

Plus because I said I like Star Trek, I was always getting threatened by the Star Wars fans. Eventually I deleted my account.

I find that unbelievably bizarre. I mean, who would ever like Star Wars? 😉

 

[kis123]

I think that someone should make a fetish dating site where you enter all the stuff from those sites BUT also have a section where you click the fetishes you have or INTERESTS and then you get matched on ALL of it! Wouldnt that be swell!

Now here's an idea I could roll with!

I wish I knew how to do this-make a fetish dating website! That would be the coolest thing ever! Then you don't have to pretend to be someone you're not-everyone there has a fetish so you pick among those fetishes you like.

Oh, btw, love has never been blind! If your looks don't measure up, you don't even get a decent "hello."

 

[TicklishLurker]

I find that unbelievably bizarre. I mean, who would ever like Star Wars? 😉

LOL

Hey, I like the 3 originals just fine. I'm not rabid about it but I liked them enough to read the noveliaztions. I just prefer Star Trek. The future in it is way more hopeful and my first crush was Mr. Spock.

But those OkCupid kids! Oh, every day I got IMs and messages saying that we "had to be enemies" and all this stuff from the rabid Star Wars fans on there. The adverage ages of the boys threatening me (they were all guys according to their profiles) was 17.

 

[AquaFeline]

I just prefer Star Trek. The future in it is way more hopeful and my first crush was Mr. Spock.

And I think mine was Data (yeah I'm weird.) 😉

Speaking on the *real* topic, be willing to try alt.com folks, though you have to be willing to tolerate a lot of creepiness and farked up people in order to get to the good ones (but I managed it!) I paid for it, but I wouldn't bother paying on an ongoing basis; maybe once in a while if you don't find anyone on the first go.

 

[tulipangel]

Now here's an idea I could roll with!

I wish I knew how to do this-make a fetish dating website! That would be the coolest thing ever! Then you don't have to pretend to be someone you're not-everyone there has a fetish so you pick among those fetishes you like.

Oh, btw, love has never been blind! If your looks don't measure up, you don't even get a decent "hello."

My sister is a web designer and in Law but I doubt she would EVER do this for me.... She thinks im creepy enough! lol And even though she is family she would charge me up the yin yang! lol Maybe someone will see this and without telling anyone get started on it (we can hope)

 

[TicklishLurker]

And I think mine was Data (yeah I'm weird.) 😉

Oh I loved Data! And I have fantasies about being tickle tortured by his evil brother Lore.