It helps to meet up in a public space first, get some coffee or lunch, get a hang out or two in and just get to know the person. Obviously have contacts keeping tabs on you outside of any sessions. I think it can be very safe, it's just one of those 'better safe than sorry' situations. Guys and Gals who aren't guilty of anything won't get pressed, but there's a few desperate folk out there that gets pressed if they can't just tickle you immediately lol
I think you'll be fine, I just feel being safe is important. That's why anyone I meet, I just go grab a bite or drink with them and have a nice hour or so convo with them, see if the vibe is even there. Sometimes it's not and that's okay!