What came first: the tickle or the sex?

[theshire]

I apologise for the awful thread title, but it came to mind and I had to use it.

My question for you guys is this. Let's say you're walking down the street, and you see a really attractive man/woman (whatever your preference is). What is the first thing to spring into your lustful thoughts: 'God, I want to tickle/be tickled by that gorgeous man/woman' (again, whatever it is you dig) or 'God, I want to have rampant sex with that gorgeous man/woman'? Does the tickling become more important to you than sex, when you are purely in a physical lust frame of mind? I think, for me personally, I think of tickling before I think of sex. Is this the case for anyone else?

I think it's an interesting question.

 

[The Sean Man]

Tickling.....definitely tickling

 

[toyou444]

sigh...tickling.

Its one of those things that bothers me about the whole tickling thing. I know when me and another guy see a beautiful woman he is looking at her breasts and wanting sex. I am looking at her feet and wanting to tickle. LOL

~ toyou

 

[amk714]

What about thinking about tickling her while having sex? Does that count, theshire?

 

[theshire]

So that's a 'both', is it?

 

[The_Raptor]

Tickling Forever

(I'am not shy,I'am not shy,....)
Just trying not to be shy,and share this with you friends😱
I choose T.I.C.K.L.I.N.G
Of course,it's cleaner,less harmful,....etc
When I see Beautiful or normal girls the most of my sexual fantasy is about being tickled by them,or their marvelous abilities to tickle a victim,and also there is a little fantasy about doing the tickling,and that's from my childhood uptill know,ain't I loony!!? 🙄

 

[amk714]

So that's a 'both', is it?

In a word, yes. Of course, I'd be happy with either one, as long as I don't get the same thing every time. 😀

 

[milagros317]

I definitely think of tickling and being tickled first. 😀

 

[Avenger314]

Tickling. Almost only tickling. :-/ .

 

[crydun]

Tickling!!!!!!! it's what I live for......

 

[Redmage]

My kinks extend well beyond tickling, but the rule seems to be the same for all of them. Some people make me want to do wicked things with them, and others don't - it's a matter of facial expressiveness, intelligence, responsiveness, and lot of other physical and non-physical cues.

But whatever the alchemy that makes someone attractive to me, if I'm not interested in sharing at least one of my kinks with a person, I'm very unlikely to want to have sex with him or her. Even if I DO want to play with someone, that doesn't necessarily mean that I want to have sex. I joke that the list of people that I've seen naked is much longer than the list of people who've seen me naked.

So I think that for me, the tickling (or other aspect of my kinky mind) comes first.

 

[Sunjob]

It changes with me, oftenly it'll be tickling but sometimes it'll just be sex. It depends on how I'm feeling at the time I'd guess.

And what part of her I can see at the time.

 

[kirasao]

Good Thread Topic

The ironic thing is, when i'm at my horniest is when i think about tickling the most because I link it so closely to sex anyway. I'll have to say that I think about the tickling first. I'm just all about tickling women, especially in a sexual way that I can hardly contain myself, though I'm managing.

 

[knight]

For me, it's definitely tickling first, but that inevitably leads me to sex. And tickling while having sex is definitely on the menu.

 

[dtrell]

sigh...tickling.

Its one of those things that bothers me about the whole tickling thing. I know when me and another guy see a beautiful woman he is looking at her breasts and wanting sex. I am looking at her feet and wanting to tickle. LOL

~ toyou

i know exactly what you mean toyou.

 

[CaptainQuantum]

I used to have no interest in sex at all, only tickling. Then over time I started noticing a nice body in a tight dress or a nice butt in a tight pair of jeans (I like tight stuff 😀) I more wanna have sex with a woman when I have some kind of feelings for her beyond just lust, or if she looks like a woman I've had such feelings for. When I first lay eyes on a hot looking woman, I'd say I wanna tickle 80%, have sex 20%. But to answer the question which comes first, I say the chicken

 

[jk666uk]

I definitely think of tickling and being tickled first. 😀

what milagros317 said

 

[fgt1]

me when i se a beautiful girl i think first to tickle her during sex !!!!

 

[feetclimax]

tickling, no doubt, when i come across a lady im attracted to, the first intimate thoughts are feet and tickling, even if its a lady i wanna have sex with, when i imagine having sex the fantasy begins with me in stocks being tickled by her for ages, which then after feeling really aroused leads to sex. so when EVER thoughts of sex comes into the picture its ALWAYS after thoughts of tickling.

(this smile has nothing to do with this post, i just noticed it and think it looks cool)

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

In my opinion, I think that tickling before sex is fun because it's a form of foreplay. Also, I think that combing sex and tickling is the most fun. I think that, and this is just my opinion, that by the time two people are finished having sex they are probably just too tired to have tickling play afterwards.

That's the way I would feel.