What do you do if your girlfriend is not into tickling

[Korn68]

I have been with my girlfriend for over three years and she is not into tickling. I have tried to talk her into it but I have had no luck. She knows about my fetish because of the web sites I visit. What can I do to get her into tickling? I love her but I wish we could come together on this subject.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

i would say the best thing is to provoke her into tickling you, by tickling her and having her get even by coming after you, hopfully she'll see how much fun it is and then you'll have total conversion 🙂

 

[TicklesFemales]

Hello Korn68

First of all is your girlfriend ticklish? If so like luvgirlsfeet said you need to provoke her into somehow wanting to get even with you for you tickling her. I would say sometime really grab a hold of her and tickle her and see what she does. If she gets mad at you then your out of luck buddy, but if she tries to tickle you back and does not get mad at you when you do this then your half way there. In any case GOOD LUCK BUDDY!!!! Let us know how it turns out.

TicklesFemales

 

[Knox The Hatter]

If it were only that easy.

 

[tklcouple]

my experience

Get a new girlfriend.

Professor Tkl

 

[isabeau]

Get a new girlfriend.

Professor Tkl

ahh you took the words right out of my mouth.. frankly it depends on how much tickling means to you. if it's absolutely necessary in your relationship and she hasn't been into it yet after three years, i would say think what is more important. you might want to consider getting a new gf..eeks that sounds callous.

 

[Pokey]

If tickling is a part of who you are and it has been there for years it will very likely not go away. Maybe it will lie dormant for a while but it won't go away. You both deserve to be with someone that makes you happy. I agree with Professor Tkl and Isabeau. If, after you talk with her and tell her how important it is to you in a relationship and she still says that she just can't do it, then you would both be better off with someone else. Don't wait until you are 6 years in a marriage to decide that you can't do this anymore. Often times, then, the children are the ones to suffer. You have to communicate with each other and it ain't always easy. Good luck!

 

[maniactickler]

I have been with my girlfriend for over three years and she is not into tickling. I have tried to talk her into it but I have had no luck. She knows about my fetish because of the web sites I visit. What can I do to get her into tickling? I love her but I wish we could come together on this subject.

Absolutely get a new girlfriend. i cant believe you stayed with her for 3 years! id have been gone in 3 minutes if i found out she wasnt into tickling.

 

[TickledToDeath]

I have been with my girlfriend for over three years and she is not into tickling. I have tried to talk her into it but I have had no luck. She knows about my fetish because of the web sites I visit. What can I do to get her into tickling? I love her but I wish we could come together on this subject.

Well, if you are a lee............let her tie you up and tickle you.
If you are a ler, have her try it out by letting you tie her up and tickle her. Be easy slow and sensual with her as the lee at first and gradually increase the intensity.
With you as the lee, let her see what tickling does to you.

 

[BLUE_THUNDER]

tough choice

thats a hard one . if you really love her (hate to go all dr. phil on this one) then maybe you have to accept it, but then again if she really loves YOU maybe she should try to accommodate you more. ive only ever had one gf that was impossible to tickle (she just wasnt ticklish ANYWHERE, ive never seen anything like it, and in the tickling dept. i know what i am doing) but she was a mean girl so it didnt last anyhow. just try to attempt talking to her about it and maybe offer something nice in exchange for it. ive been single 4 months and will NEVER have another gf that is not 100% cool with what i am into. life is too short and im not wasting any more time with women who think "eewwww, that guy is weird, he likes TICKLING". as always just my 2 cents worth. peace........BLUE_THUNDER

 

[TicklishSinner]

if you truely love her than you dont need a new girlfriend, but if you love your fetish more than her than do what you will, but 3 years and you know she isnt giving in....GIVE UP..no offense but your beating a dead horse if you know definetly she is not into tickling..just my opinion.

 

[steph]

3 years is long time.
Do you know why she doesn't like it?

XOXO

 

[knight]

ahh you took the words right out of my mouth.. frankly it depends on how much tickling means to you. if it's absolutely necessary in your relationship and she hasn't been into it yet after three years, i would say think what is more important. you might want to consider getting a new gf..eeks that sounds callous.

I think Izzy hit the nail on the head here. It all depends on how much satisfying the fetish means to you. If it doesn't mean that much, but she does, stay. If however, not being able to satisfy the fetish is a major deal, and will affect the relationship, then that will become a problem. It's not callous, it's recognizing and addressing a potential problem in your relationship. Communication is always the key!

 

[Angel_2]

Well I tickle my girl all the time and she seems not to mind, but if it did become a problem I guess we could make it work out. It really depens on how much you love to tickle. Its not a dealbreaker for me so I can live with out it. buts thats just me

 

[method11236]

Simple.

I'd like to introduce you to a couple a friends of mine... chloroform and duct-tape.


Happy hunting.

Method