I don’t have any brief way of responding. I'm
replying chiefly because responses from non-producers/content makers was especially requested.
Matter of fact, I don’t session at all. But it's still an interesting topic.
The shortest thing I can put together is that there is a
wide line between producing content to distribute for anonymous mass audience, and providing fetish/erotic/sexual service privately in direct contact with a client. One is considered performance and the other … a service. Without reading psych journals, I can’t project the conclusive rationale as much as I can theorize it to be the case.
Headline adult film talent (I feel strong in assuming) generally won’t do private sessions just to do them (paid or otherwise, unless we’re talking payment that far … and I mean FAR surpasses what they make as a headline star). We see all the time that adult film stars have romantic partners or spouses and they say unanimously that production and romantic intimate sex are as different as motor oil and apples.
But let frame it this way.
Has a fetish/kink content creator/talent offered to pay someone who is NOT a creator to be the top for a media session? Ex. A tickle fetish (ticklee) model/creator asking a random person on this forum (who has never been in media but from by all accounts on the forum, they are an amazing and experienced Ler) to be the Ler in one of their videos for pay?
In particular, have female ticklees offered to PAY non-producer/creator male
Lers for unfilmed private tickle sessions? Hell, have non-creator female ticklees paid producers/creator LERS for private sessions the way that average males with foot fetishes pay female creators for foot sessions?
My guess is "no".
If so to either, I feel save thinking it's extremely rare. But I have no doubt that Lee and Ler creators who genuinely share the fetish have and do session just for private fun with no media involved. But also, a ticklee creator might enjoy some private play with non-creators for a purity-of-the-fetish kinda feel, in which case, there's no payment involved.
After that, then it really breaks down into top and bottom regarding kink. Going to
P[a]pi’s example (dude, if I’m wrong in any way, let me know).
He isn’t involved in production for profit, but because he has an online presence with following, can be considered a creator. And I am assuming that the bottoms/subjects of the content have not paid him session privately. That the sessions that are not recorded/photographed are purely for mutual enjoyment like any meetup play between kinksters. He’d have to say but I’m speculating that the play partners accept pay because he is sharing but aren’t paid as “talent”. That is, I THINK the play partners aren’t saying they won’t session with him unless paid (media or not). But just simply “We’re going to have a mutually fun session regardless, but I like to share pics from my sessions. And if you’re cool with that, then since you are the central subject and likely will be in the photographs alone, I prefer to pay you for being featured.” And if the partner declines to be photographed/recorded, I don’t think he’s then canceling session.
Again, tell me if I got any of that wrong.