what drives your fantasies?

[SadCuzNotTcklsh]

Are your tickling fantasies driven by another motive? such as the intention for more intimacy with the ler/lee? or are most of your fantasies all about just having fun? or is the competition aspect that comes into play between the ler/lee?
So your tickling fantasies are really about……?

 

[C.A.B.]

My chauffeur.

 

[fecil]

Mine are driven by the thought that my wife willing to endure the tickling for me.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

Life!

 

[helplessandhappy]

For me, it's about having all of the best things in life. Romance, cuteness, intimacy... If someone is tickling me, it's pretty much guaranteed that I am happy and in love with that person (wouldn't allow it otherwise), so for me, it symbolizes goodness and safety. We probably wouldn't be acting playful if there was a war going on or zombies attacking...so yeah. If tickles are happening, it means things are stellar.

It's also about the man's strength. At the core of everything, I want a man who is strong as hell. Someone who could protect me. If a man can be dominating in the bedroom, it shows his strength. If he can do that in a way that leaves me feeling all helpless and makes us both laugh and get turned on, he's pretty much accomplished everything in life!

 

[Emishticklish]

For me, it's bonding......It's so cute. Sexually, I love being out of control......and when I'm tickling, I love the desperate laughs

 

[Shytickler109]

For me, it's bonding......It's so cute. Sexually, I love being out of control......and when I'm tickling, I love the desperate laughs

I couldn't have said it better, the is something about not having control that just adds something that is exhilarating, and you can't have fun without a few laughs.. especially if it's uncontrollable

 

[FootballGuy]

Control and Revenge.

Love the loss of control that happens when I tickle a girl and she is forced to laugh... so hot. Revenge tickling is always hot too.... well, in fantasies anyway.

 

[mch5]

"inflicting" forced happiness! (in my mind anyway)

 

[lucyy]

It's also about the man's strength. At the core of everything, I want a man who is strong as hell. Someone who could protect me. If a man can be dominating in the bedroom, it shows his strength. If he can do that in a way that leaves me feeling all helpless and makes us both laugh and get turned on, he's pretty much accomplished everything in life!

Nice, i would sign this.

 

[mikeytickles]

It's a bit of a hybrid for me. When it comes to 'connecting' or flirting with someone, it's intimacy all the way. That's how it was in my childhood and it has translated into adulthood rather successfully. But my fantasies are a different story; they are primarily torture-driven. But I say "hybrid" because I've had the pleasure of mixing the two before and, well...

 

[LadyInternet]

For me, their based on a physical connection with someone, and a sensuality. Its an intimate touching, and an exploration of your/their bodies, getting to know their weak spots, the places that make them gasp, the places that make them moan, and having them do that to you. My ideal tickled fantasy is about a ler who knows my body better than I know it myself, and uses that knowledge to play me like a violin. And pretty much the same as a ler, and always with the other person loving every minute of it. Giving and receiving pleasure. Maybe I'm a hedonist.

 

[eagerlee]

For me, their based on a physical connection with someone, and a sensuality. Its an intimate touching, and an exploration of your/their bodies, getting to know their weak spots, the places that make them gasp, the places that make them moan, and having them do that to you. My ideal tickled fantasy is about a ler who knows my body better than I know it myself, and uses that knowledge to play me like a violin.

Could not have said it better myself.

 

[duderino84]

Are your tickling fantasies driven by another motive? such as the intention for more intimacy with the ler/lee? or are most of your fantasies all about just having fun? or is the competition aspect that comes into play between the ler/lee?
So your tickling fantasies are really about……?

I guess my habit of tickling women came from a desire to have control over my life.

I'm probably what people would call a "yes man" now, but I used to be a perfectionist as well. During school years I would just ignore classmates bothering me and try to get through life. When I tried forming bands (in which I viewed myself as a mastermind because I thought I had clearer ideas because I was educated (yep, it failed, I changed). So I've wanted to be in control but couldn't, either because I couldn't make things happen or people couldn't make things happen.

But with tickling, I feel like I can be more intimate, more in control, to share the power. Like I can channel my feelings into that sensation of tickling into another person....and with the more ticklish lees.....I feel like they connect that much more.

 

[CassandraMarie]

My fantasies are driven by my ultimate need to dominate over my Lee. To cause him the most possible torture, his begs only turn me on and cause me to go harder. He is ultimately at my mercy... A mercy that doesn't exist.
I am my Lee DeaconMye's worst nightmare and him with his deathly ticklish body are my absolute heaven.

 

[piyr]

The major fantasies are ALWAYS "her" in total loss of control and in total desperation. What drives that? -hmm. My best guess is it's because that's what happened to me by "her(s)" when I was kid and some sort of transfer took place around puberty putting me in the control position. My theory is that I transferred my observations of how much they enjoyed devastating me and owned it myself. My minor "daydream" type fantasies include those but also as me as the victim. Obviously, I didn't transfer everything 🙂.

 

[-Hari-]

Peril, non consensual, dismissal of concern for another's suffering. That sort of thing

 

[weezl]

I've never tried to understand why I like tickling so much. The thought of a beautiful young woman strapped down and tickled, she can't control it or stop it.

mmmmm

 

[AlexEmpire]

The torture and torment of it. It's a very special flavor of violence, pain, loss of control, submission. All very delicious.

 

[TTT for joy]

Well I'm on the same track as most people here. It's especially the mercilessness of it that excites me. In terms of video clips I really love when ticklers provoke verbally the tickles even the simple words like "I will not stop." arouse me a lot.

 

[SirKnight]

Interesting topic 🙂
To me it's about a lot of things, but most of all it's about sharing a very intimate and intense moment with someone. I love the little gentle reactions I get when I explore the line between caresses and tickling. The sweet surrender to it, when she lets me tie her up. And finally to see her lose her mind when the tickling suddenly becomes too much.
I guess control and surrender, the being trusted with her body and mind, are all important factors.

 

[William_the_Ler]

It's about me having complete control over her with light touches. Taking control of her body and forcing her to to giggle wiggle and shiver. I love the complete loss of composure. I'm a passionate musician and she becomes my instrument.

 

[Vanillaphant]

Consciously: a desire for intimacy
Subconsciously: a desire for control (in all likelihood)