What Else Are You All "Into"?

[Titillating 2.0]

Other things I am into besides tickling and being tickled and men's feet (foot worship, socks):

CNC- Big Time!
Spanking
Exhibitionism
Voyeurism
Man's Hands
Beards/ Goatees
Bastinado- (Who knew?! I thought it was stupid until a ler strategically used it in a session- and OMG... 💦💦💦)
Worship (Hands, belly, breasts- worship and play, neck, back, even legs/ knees)
Cosplay/ Costumed Roleplay (within a scene- I do NOT enjoy online RP.)
Hair play
Wrestling
Electro-Play (Another who knew)
Bondage
Rope play, Suspension/ Rigging
Cooking for a man and watching him eat (and leave me alone! LOL! I just love watching men enjoy food, especially my food. It does things to me, AND I know exactly how and who got me into this... 😅)
Dom/ Domme (evil queen)/ Brat: I'm switchy... but I do love being dominated and I love dominating (not necessarily with the same people or at the same time. Bratty because I'm not subby. I don't go down without a fight, and I have a smart mouth. LOL But if you can tell me what to do, YOU can tell me what to do. Sigh!

I think this is the entire list.

Quite the list! Thanks for being so candid and open, honestly I don’t disagree with you that it’s hard to find TRUE male lee’s/switches who are willing to exchange in that pleasure that you seek. The fact that you have no control even as the one doing the foot worship is a very interesting mindset and I love the way you explained it haha. Costumed cosplay seems like so much fun and I would love to find a woman who is actually into creating a scenario that involves foot worship/tickling. Especially if wrestling is involved lol. I think you’ve caused me to realize how much more into other things I am too so thank you 😅😂

 

[Sunriseticklee]

So, for as long as I've been into HAIR. Not just any kind of hair, it has to look voluminous. Longer definitely helps. Over the years I'd say my interest as gotten "worse" (more intense).

I used it part of my tickling fetish, but considering I usually just want it around my private area, I heard of it more referred to as a "hairjob". I have been indulged once so far in my interest, and it's been everything I thought it could be.


Anyway, hope y'all enjoyed.

Oh Hair! I definitely did enjoy reading your response.

My goodness.... Brings up my own memories.

So... He had (has) long, soft, glorious hair. And the way that I found out I was into hair (not just hair pulling- Which... Yeah... I liked having my hair pulled at the "right time" lol) was in the middle of tickling play.

His hair was down, and the way he simply repositioned himself while moving from my upper body to my lower body... His silky hair just flowed and trailed down my breasts, across my belly, cascaded along my hips and thighs, and settled lightly around my calves. And I gasped and moaned- I probably shivered/ wiggled. Sigh... It just felt so incredible, so intense. Everywhere his hair touched was just tingly and warm.

"Do it again!" And honestly, that was all I needed.

As far as CNC
Maybe the term is new to you... But, I bet you have seen it before (or maybe seen it done or done it)? Picture a session where it seems like the tickler is just absolutely evil, just really giving it to the ticklee... You get to the point where you'd probably feel sorry for the lee. Maybe you're thinking, surely they don't want it to get this bad! Damn! That lee looks like they have had enough!

Essentially- The tickler has consent to cross all those limits and although it does look nonconsensual, the level of extreme suffering has been agreed to. The ticklee is honestly getting tortured, and it looks pretty hopeless for them. But this is exactly what the ticklee desires. They may not even be able to stop it until the tickler feels they have had enough. CNC...

 

[duderino84]

Oh Hair! I definitely did enjoy reading your response.

My goodness.... Brings up my own memories.

So... He had (has) long, soft, glorious hair. And the way that I found out I was into hair (not just hair pulling- Which... Yeah... I liked having my hair pulled at the "right time" lol) was in the middle of tickling play.

His hair was down, and the way he simply repositioned himself while moving from my upper body to my lower body... His silky hair just flowed and trailed down my breasts, across my belly, cascaded along my hips and thighs, and settled lightly around my calves. And I gasped and moaned- I probably shivered/ wiggled. Sigh... It just felt so incredible, so intense. Everywhere his hair touched was just tingly and warm.

"Do it again!" And honestly, that was all I needed.

As far as CNC
Maybe the term is new to you... But, I bet you have seen it before (or maybe seen it done or done it)? Picture a session where it seems like the tickler is just absolutely evil, just really giving it to the ticklee... You get to the point where you'd probably feel sorry for the lee. Maybe you're thinking, surely they don't want it to get this bad! Damn! That lee looks like they have had enough!

Essentially- The tickler has consent to cross all those limits and although it does look nonconsensual, the level of extreme suffering has been agreed to. The ticklee is honestly getting tortured, and it looks pretty hopeless for them. But this is exactly what the ticklee desires. They may not even be able to stop it until the tickler feels they have had enough. CNC...

Haha yea, about CNC, in my time I've met people who are probably too indecisive to pick their own punishment reliably. I like just feeling people out and seeing how much laughing they'll tolerate.

And yea with the hair situation lol I did meet someone who basically took a bit of her hair and told me "laugh or I'll stop", and the sensation for me was almost like tickling. hopefully I'll meet someone to "experiment with", but I can say at this rate if I go out, I've checked my own personal box.

 

[aberdeen]

Where do you get your straitjackets?
I have this long running fantasy of being tickled wearing nothing but a straitjacket and nylons. Sigh.... My goodness! I want it to happen IRL so badly. 💕

Another idea for less expense is a simple mummy style wrap (jsut around the torso to entrap your arms). you could do this with some old clothes and some duck tape ... simpler yet...a long sleeved shirt (arms too long for you) you put it one and cross your arms...then your play partner can clamp the loose ends to the fabric of the shirt with locking hemostat type clamps (eBay, Etsy) or any style locking clamp .or tie the sleeves with rope and wrap around and tie the rope around you and together .. the poor ticklee s version of a straight jacket...

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Another idea for less expense is a simple mummy style wrap (jsut around the torso to entrap your arms). you could do this with some old clothes and some duck tape ... simpler yet...a long sleeved shirt (arms too long for you) you put it one and cross your arms...then your play partner can clamp the loose ends to the fabric of the shirt with locking hemostat type clamps (eBay, Etsy) or any style locking clamp .or tie the sleeves with rope and wrap around and tie the rope around you and together .. the poor ticklee s version of a straight jacket...

Nope... I have a specific, ongoing, intense fantasy involving tickling and actual straitjackets. I want to be in a real straitjacket and nylons. Why would I need a 'poor ticklee's version of a straitjacket'? I asked specifically where this user gets his. I did not mention the cost. I did not ask what to do if I cannot afford one.

Since the esthetics of a real straitjacket play a part, nor would this fantasy be satisfied by being mummified along my upper body. Thanks

*Not trying to troubleshoot a problem guys. I was just curious. 😏

 

[duderino84]

Nope... I have a specific, ongoing, intense fantasy involving tickling and actual straitjackets. I want to be in a real straitjacket and nylons. Why would I need a 'poor ticklee's version of a straitjacket'? I asked specifically where this user gets his. I did not mention the cost. I did not ask what to do if I cannot afford one.

Since the esthetics of a real straitjacket play a part, nor would this fantasy be satisfied by being mummified along my upper body. Thanks

*Not trying to troubleshoot a problem guys. I was just curious. 😏

https://www.amazon.com/s?k=straight...1:Pxqd0dUsCMxuBz/fBI39ShwsvFMXH05ArINfm1v+gfM

 

[torturoustickle]

Other things I'm into:
Bondage, especially predicament bondage.
Spanking
Forced/denied orgasms
CNC
Electro
Edging
Foot kink
Leather
Roll playing
I will spend quite a bit of time to make a scene just right as it can enhance things 10 fold.

On the second question, I have actually found it easier since I increased my kink list. When I first started my kink journey, being a one trick pony so to speak made it hard. Combining tickling with other things has certainly spiced everything up. 😁

 

[Mr. Nimbus]

Aside from tickling, or in addition to tickling ☺️, what else are you all into? No shame. Just curious.

And I suppose I have a secondary question... Is it more or less easy/ difficult to indulge in your other kinky interests and fetishes?

I guess I'll start with 1 or 2 things. (I kinda have a good number of things that get me going. Lol)

Ok... Sigh.
I am very very much into guys' feet (especially in socks....). I'm 100% certain this occurred over time through my love for tickling. And goodness, it is infinitely more difficult for me to be brave enough to ask even a lee/ler if he would be interested in receiving foot worship from a woman than it is to ever bring up or indulge in anything tickling related.

Goodness... 😩

Interesting. I briefly dated a woman who was into feet AND socks, and also had a massage therapist I went to several times who I could swear had the same.

To answer your question, tickling would be the aside since my true main fetish in feet. Love feet both bare and in socks/nylons, love massage and worship (giving and receiving).

Also into bondage (especially wrist), humiliation (like having my shoes taken from me in public), roleplay. Im more submissive but can dom when the mood strikes me. 😈

To answer your second question, bondage is by far the easiest. I think its truly in the mainstream and most people understand the appeal even if its not their thing. Tickling is very niche and feet is actually the worst thanks to the creeps out there who have been in the news or creeped on people I have talked to.

 

[DebonairDavid]

Tickling is very niche and feet is actually the worst thanks to the creeps out there who have been in the news or creeped on people I have talked to.

Sadly, because I used to be one of those creeps because I was young and stupid at the time. Now because I'm working towards becoming a life coach, I've thought about making a video talking about how to engage in fetishes appropriately where I'd briefly mention how me not doing that got me into a lot of trouble. I'm happy to say the Sex Positive Movement is helping to change these stigmas, stereotypes, and bigotry about foot fetishism among other fetishes.

 

[Not A Fed]

Is it more or less easy/ difficult to indulge in your other kinky interests and fetishes as it is to indulge in tickling?

I feel it's easier to share my alternates over my primary. I will say, though, as I've grown older I genuinely have not been as nervous about revealing my primary as I used to be.

 

[WickedTouch]

I appreciate the engagement, and I find the list of y'all's kinks extremely interesting! 💕

To repeat the secondary question (for those of you willing to answer):
Is it more or less easy/ difficult to indulge in your other kinky interests and fetishes as it is to indulge in tickling?

I will use the next post to include some of the other things I am into, but I had some questions about being into men's feet.

So to clarify:


My hesitation actually has more to do with the perception of the shift in power dynamics rather than commonality. The perception of foot worship is that the receiver is in power over the giver as they kneel and worship the feet of the person above them. Most depictions of this show the woman (the receiver) as the one in control as she looks down with quiet pleasure as the man in a show of submission gently kisses her feet.

My perception (mainly due to my own reactions when receiving foot worship) is flipped. Because of how extremely sensitive my feet are to stimulation, when I am receiving- I am NOT in control. The giver has control over me. The power is theirs, not mine. And although foot worship can been seen as a submissive act, I tend to approach it the opposite way. The giver has the power. I want my receiver to react to each kiss, nibble, lick, etc. closer to the way that I react. I want it to feel tender, sweet, ticklish, torturous... I want to hear them laugh, beg, moan... all of the things. And in the same way that I am hoping to send them "down the rabbit hole" of pleasurable sensations and conflicting emotions, I want to walk that tightrope walk bordering along having complete control and losing control with engaging in an act I thoroughly enjoy- The scent and taste of his feet, the feel of him on my face... in my mouth, the flexing and wiggling, the desperate giggling, the sounds he makes- Goodness me!

So- Even though I am a ler-leaning switch... A male lee (or switch) is less common. Almost all of the men I engage with are lers. It is extremely difficult for me to ask a male tickler to switch and receive what he is not willing to do in the first place. It's an almost impossible thing for me to ask when I am respecting set boundaries. I just choose not to ask.

When I am lucky enough to have a session with a man who will allow me to be the tickler- even that isn't a homerun. I'm not automatically compelled to do this to every pair of feet I see. It has more to do with the connection and chemistry I have with my ticklee. Sometimes I don't feel it. Sometimes I crave it... It just depends on the person much more than the pair of feet. So- It's like... I have to encounter a series of fortunate events before I feel comfortable enough to even ask. And I'm kinda shy. (shut up LOL) Takes a whole hell of a lot for me to ask. And then, the consent... the person has to want it (like desire it), or I won't consider it at all. (An offhand "Sure, if you want!" won't get me there.)

So... I focus on the biggest hurdle... Finding men who are willing to play the switch (golden ticket) or the lee (also golden ticket lol). I just REALLY like tickling men. They are my favorite! 😂 And after we have had a couple of sessions, the chemistry is there, and we both feel comfortable- then I may ask if it's ok for me to worship their feet.

Ah, okay, I can see that now. That makes a lot of sense. I can be very similar in terms of difficulty in asking for the lee side of my switch-ness. Depending upon my comfort level with the person I'm playing with, a certain degree of gentle pressure or encouragement lets me know they really want to do it and are not just trying to do something for me. The ler side, while about equally enjoyable, is much easier to get into. I appreciate you taking the time to clarify that–as I said before, very interesting stuff. Also, your follow-up post about your additional interests sound fun and interesting as well. Thanks for sharing 🙂

 

[kurchatovium]

I am sub basically so I like Dommes

Bondage

Foot fetish Foot worship

Being edged

Role play

Spanking

 

[duderino84]

Sadly, because I used to be one of those creeps because I was young and stupid at the time. Now because I'm working towards becoming a life coach, I've thought about making a video talking about how to engage in fetishes appropriately where I'd briefly mention how me not doing that got me into a lot of trouble. I'm happy to say the Sex Positive Movement is helping to change these stigmas, stereotypes, and bigotry about foot fetishism among other fetishes.

There's a way to approach them?

 

[DebonairDavid]

There's a way to approach them?

I don't understand what you mean. Are you asking "There's a way to approach fetishes without being creepy"?

 

[duderino84]

I don't understand what you mean. Are you asking "There's a way to approach fetishes without being creepy"?

Yea. A lot of people stand by the philosophy that if you start a traditional relationship and introduce kink, you're in some undeniable territory. But to me that reinforces the idea that kink is naturally creepy because it's a deviation from a typical relationship activity.

 

[DebonairDavid]

Yea. A lot of people stand by the philosophy that if you start a traditional relationship and introduce kink, you're in some undeniable territory. But to me that reinforces the idea that kink is naturally creepy because it's a deviation from a typical relationship activity.

If the kink can spice up the bedroom and relationship, that's all that matters

 

[Mr. Nimbus]

Yea. A lot of people stand by the philosophy that if you start a traditional relationship and introduce kink, you're in some undeniable territory. But to me that reinforces the idea that kink is naturally creepy because it's a deviation from a typical relationship activity.

Kink itself isnt creepy or inherently harmful. Its how its approached. Being direct and respectful with an open, consenting adult partner is not creepy. Approaching women babbling about "bugs just crawled in" their shoes and pulling off their boots is.

 

[Mr. Nimbus]

Sadly, because I used to be one of those creeps because I was young and stupid at the time. Now because I'm working towards becoming a life coach, I've thought about making a video talking about how to engage in fetishes appropriately where I'd briefly mention how me not doing that got me into a lot of trouble. I'm happy to say the Sex Positive Movement is helping to change these stigmas, stereotypes, and bigotry about foot fetishism among other fetishes.

Overall I agree with you and appreciate you turning your life around, but please don't use the word "bigotry" in regards to this. Equating someone facing racism or homopobia with feishism is just...no.

 

[DebonairDavid]

Overall I agree with you and appreciate you turning your life around, but please don't use the word "bigotry" in regards to this. Equating someone facing racism or homophobia with fetishism is just...no.

I disagree. If Person A has a prejudice again Person B because they have a foot fetish or whatever (and often due to stigmas and stereotypes), that's not too much than Person A having a prejudice against Person B for being black, gay, a woman, etc (which is also caused by stigmas and stereotypes).

 

[duderino84]

Kink itself isnt creepy or inherently harmful. Its how its approached. Being direct and respectful with an open, consenting adult partner is not creepy. Approaching women babbling about "bugs just crawled in" their shoes and pulling off their boots is.

I think it takes several tries to sort of sink in. I've been direct and more often than not people got surprised.

 

[Bellylaughs]

So I am a hopeless metalhead... As a lot of you know... So, I, in a weird roundabout way, ended up having a real deep appreciation for hair, aesthetically mostly since I am ace.

But if I end up watching/staring/gazing at someone, my blind ass is either trying to make out their ink, figure out what their shirt says, or appreciating their hair.

 

[TicklecoupleLA]

Bastinado, falaka, bondage type stuff