What I hate the most

[Texas_Tickle]

I was over on another board (a BDSM board), and mentioned I was looking for a domme to tickle me.

A few hours later, I get a PM from a girl who said she loved being tickled and tickling, and I fell to my knees and thanked God there was another girl in my vicinity (as it seems all of the fem 'lers are concentrated in New York or LA... which sucks if you're in Texas)

So we got to im'ing back and fourth, and she made NO mention that she was a pro, and made it seem more like she was just this girl from Texas who just happened to like tickling

So we Im'd some more and she tried to sell herself as just a girt who likes tickling, nothing more, nothing less.

Then I started to read her posts and come to find out she was a Pro-Domme, but during our conversation, she made no mention of that, which rather irked me.

Now let me say, it does not matter if she is a Pro or not, as right now, either would suit me. But at least have the courtesy to say so. Do not try to insult my intelligence.

So I asked her, if she was a Pro or just somebody who likes tickling (as she said), then all of the sudden, she refused to answer and blocked me.

Like I said, I don't really care if she is a Pro... I just wish she would have been upfront about it, and perhaps if her rates were within the range I could have afforded, more than likely I would have set up a meeting.

But don't insult my intelligence with mind games. I may be from Texas, but I am not stupid.

OK, rant off!

 

[method11236]

you should just get a girlfriend. They're comparatively cheaper than profesionals (in the short run) and will do anything you want.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

you should just get a girlfriend. They're comparatively cheaper than profesionals (in the short run) and will do anything you want.

Yeah, I'm looking for that too on Eharmony.

Until then, I guess I'm stuck in this craphole of a bible-thumping state (no offense)

 

[IrishTickle]

Is it possible she's both a pro and into tickling and the way you phrased it just really insulted her?

 

[Texas_Tickle]

Is it possible she's both a pro and into tickling and the way you phrased it just really insulted her?

I guess that could be possible. But if she's a Pro, I don't have an issue with that. I just wish she would have been more upfront, than trying to lead me to believe she was something she was not.

That's my beef.

 

[NavelTickler75]

Like I tell a lot of the teens from Ravenblack vampire chat, don't take one hundred percent what people tell you on line, unless you know them personally.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

Like I tell a lot of the teens from Ravenblack vampire chat, don't take one hundred percent what people tell you on line, unless you know them personally.

Exactly, and it's my somewhat over-cynical nature that makes me look at everything with a grain of salt

 

[marcusb]

Wait. A few posts down you said you were LOOKING for a Pro.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

Wait. A few posts down you said you were LOOKING for a Pro.

I did. However she approahced me in private IM and this is what she said word-for-word

I'm not a dom but always interested in a good fetish!

So based on that, she led me to assume she was not a dom/mistress, but just somebody who wanted to tickle.

At least that's how I understood it.

 

[Vae]

I think the point is is that he was a bit bothered by the fact that she wasn't upfront with him. Not everyone is upfront about themselves. When I joined this forum, I certainly wasn't. Now I don't care.

It doesn't matter whether she was a newb tickler or a professional at it. He was just enjoying the conversation and the hope that he could meet up with someone closer to home to explore his own fetish. If they liked tickling, he won in the situation.

What I find fucked up is that she almost immediately blocked him. No matter how "insulting" he may have come off, you shouldn't just block them immediately. That just seems like some real shady shit. Most people, I would think, would get mad and bitch. Not run away.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

I think the point is is that he was a bit bothered by the fact that she wasn't upfront with him.

Quite correct, Vae. Just tell me you're a Dom, or in this as a "business". That's all I'm asking, and whos to say I would not book a session as a client?

 

[marcusb]

I did. However she approahced me in private IM and this is what she said word-for-word

I'm not a dom but always interested in a good fetish!

So based on that, she led me to assume she was not a dom/mistress, but just somebody who wanted to tickle.

At least that's how I understood it.

Oh, well then that's bogus. Unless, of course, she was planning to play on a personal level w/o you paying for her time. Just because she's a dom doesn't mean she doesn't have a personal life. 😉

 

[randomguy85]

Odd situation

Vae made a good point; if she completely blocked you so fast, something sketch must be going on there too. There could be a number of reasons as to why what happened, happened. But hey, whatever, we move on, right? Texas is huge... HUGE! There has to be more women interested in tickling there.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

Texas is huge... HUGE! There has to be more women interested in tickling there.

You would think, but alas I am finding just the opposite

 

[NavelTickler75]

Exactly, and it's my somewhat over-cynical nature that makes me look at everything with a grain of salt

I had to learn it somewhat the hard way. One of the girl who played one of my characters sister's supposedly killed herself in real life. I was going through a hard time when I got the news. Then like two days later, she came up to me in a different name and told me, well I didnt want to go back to the hospital (as she had been hurt and had been taken there) so she made up the story and had a friend of ours who plays our mother, to tell me she was dead.

I also had someone tell me that they were much younger, and lived with their brother, and once I had to defend her when a pimp came to get some money her brother owed him, and I talked him out of it. Things lead to another, and then I decided you know what, Im going to talk to her on the account she knows and one she does not. Sure enough she gave me two different stories, and finally admitted when I confronted her the truth.

 

[steph]

I don't think so. What she is is an asshole who's only into the money and pretended to be something she wasn't to draw in an obviously hungry guy. What a pig.

We've had some really fun times with some great pro ladies in Sou Cal (Mistress Stephanie Locke, Mistress Feral, some other gals at Passive Arts) they don't pretend to be anything they aren't~this is a business for them but also a lifestyle.

Having some awesome experiences with pros, both as a friend and a 'lee, I think it's a shame that pros seem to either come from one school or the other. The rotten ones give them all a bad name.
Have fun on your date!
XOXO

Is it possible she's both a pro and into tickling and the way you phrased it just really insulted her?

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Maybe she didn't tell you she was a pro because she wanted to have an experience with you without her profession getting in the way. When you asked her she may of become embarrassed, ashamed, or frustrated and ran away. She may of wanted you to get to know her without the title of "professional." and just know her as a woman interested in a fetish. Just a thought...

 

[He-Man]

Yeah, I'm looking for that too on Eharmony.

You might wanna try collarme.com . On that site, if you get spam for replies...well, at least the site's free. I've gotten more replies on collarme.com in a few weeks than the whole year I was on eharmony. (....actually, I don't remember getting ANY replies on eharmony..and alot of my "matches" weren't anything like what i was looking for. )

 

[NavelTickler75]

I'd have a kind of a hard time hooking with someone on the net.