What is a big turn off for you?

[AnnafromFinland]

For me it's hairy men.
Stinky people.😱

 

[maniactickler]

Bad breath.

 

[Artoo]

Shit. And shitforbrains.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Drunkenness...esp if the person is an obnoxious drunk.

Also, people deciding that they "know" what's in the hearts/minds of others, even when they're informed otherwise and insist that they're right anyway.

 

[Gothika]

swearing,anger,violence,know it all's someone that cannot take a joke

 

[WorkInProgress]

Smoking.

 

[milagros317]

What turns me off immediately? People who believe that they know the one and only truth and that everybody who disagrees with them is evil or stupid (or both).

 

[Helena]

I dislike people with too many electronic devices on their person at a movie theater, and use them during a film. Honestly...that sucks.

 

[Soda Bobinski]

Dudes.

 

[LD_Tickler]

Nipple piercings

 

[stroker]

Tatoos

 

[thetmfobserver]

Smoking.

 

[Snail Shell]

Abusive people.
Rascism.
Phones going off in a movie theater.

Y'know, important stuff.

SS

 

[C.A.B.]

Ignorance by choice.

 

[brannyle1981]

Smoking and people with a really negative attitude are real turn offs for me.

 

[gluestick]

Fans of Nickelback

 

[DEEPSHOTONE]

Bad Teeth, and women who talk to much! And women with too many tatoos

 

[Leo tickles]

Stupidity.

 

[me4o]

Hairy women, unclean, smelly people, girls that are intersted more in money, rather than the person they're dating 🙂

 

[Flatfoot]

1. Smoking (I've been there, before, but even when I did, I couldn't stand the smell! It sticks to cars, furniture, clothing... Ya can't get rid of it, and there's nothing sexy about it!).

2. A lack of awareness to one's surroundings (Sounds obscure, but seriously, these are the people who stand in your way when you're trying to get someplace quickly. These are also the people who will cross the street obliviously, while the "Do not walk" sign is lit, and a big truck is barreling towards them.).

3. Non-prescribed drug usage (I'm not attracted to people who put themselves at odds with the law. If it were legal, recreational use that wasn't abusive might be a different story--that is, unless it ties into number 1. 😉 ).

4. Financial irresponsibility. Financial train-wrecks are a HUGE turn-off. I've noticed that desperation in this department tends to make one manipulative, which leads to...

5. Manipulative nature. There's absolutely NOTHING attractive about that.

6. Bad hygiene. I understand that many women go through a LOT of work in the morning to maintain their appearance, but if you're not showering just because you'd then have to redo/straighten/blow dry your hair, or something else, and you just don't wanna make the time for it, I'm sorry, but that's nasty. At least shower!

 

[myth77]

Lack of a sense of humor and arrogance.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Lack of manners (interrupting, being insulting, talking inappropriately in front of other people's children, generally being discourteous)

Smoking - it just makes you smell awful

Lousy (or no) sense of humor - insulting people is not funny, overuse of toilet humor is not funny


On the flip side, I find exemplary manners, smelling good, and having a great sense of humor all to be major turn-ons.

 

[Flatfoot]

A jobless man who ALSO does not know how to cook his own food and take care of himself.

I'd like to add this to my list, and apply it to the opposite gender. 😀

 

[Angel77]

People who constantly look at their glass of life as half empty. Oh woe is me.

 

[milagros317]

For me it's hairy men.

You should be sorry. I am very hairy and this made me cry. 🙁 🙁