what is the fear?

[kcantankerous]

when everyone talks about tickling not being accepted. What kinda degree of tickling are yall talking about. If you love tickling it doesnt seem like you need to hide in a hole. So I was wondering is their more to your tickle fetish that you are embarrassed to admitt to your friends. Because the mainstream still, even tickling feet doesnt seem like that big of a deal. Matter of fact alot of my friends are aware of that. So my question is what about your fetish causes you to be scared to admitt it to others.

 

[featherfingers]

I don't think the fear, for me, is in disclosing information about my tickling fetish to others. I think the fear comes when I spy a perfect pair of feet when I'm having tea at Starbucks... will she catch me gazing at her feet... how will she react if she does? Is there any way in the world for me to be able to touch them? Should my heart be beating this fast at the sight of her pretty feet? Do I take a risk and talk to her? If I approach a woman and strike up a casual conversation knowing good and well that getting to know her feet is really my ulterior motive, what does that say of me? That's what MY fear is about.

 

[tklr5150]

Mainly, that I don't want to be shut out from tickling my friends casually. Even if it doesn't mean anything more than fun to me, if they or someone else knows it's your "fetish" they might read more into it, be uncomfortable with me "indulging" it, etc. I've confided in a few close friends where I know that won't be an issue, but other than that there's really not much need for anyone else to know. I don't care to know what THEY get off on, so why should they care about mine?

 

[steph]

I agree 100%.
XOXO

Mainly, that I don't want to be shut out from tickling my friends casually. Even if it doesn't mean anything more than fun to me, if they or someone else knows it's your "fetish" they might read more into it, be uncomfortable with me "indulging" it, etc. I've confided in a few close friends where I know that won't be an issue, but other than that there's really not much need for anyone else to know. I don't care to know what THEY get off on, so why should they care about mine?

 

[chrisheaven]

exactly- couldn't put it any better

 

[IwillTickleU]

A few of my family members know my cousin Colleen knows best b/c she and I are tickle partners and alot of my female friends from work know of my tickling fetish and we sometimes chat about it but they're cool with it, its just a simple innocent fetish that many people have, nothing to be embarassed about 🙂

 

[featherfingers]

I certainly can breathe easier now. What IS there to fear, really. No one's hurting anyone and you don't have to divulge everything to everybody anyway.

 

[shylittleme]

A few of my family members know my cousin Colleen knows best b/c she and I are tickle partners and alot of my female friends from work know of my tickling fetish and we sometimes chat about it but they're cool with it, its just a simple innocent fetish that many people have, nothing to be embarassed about 🙂

i wouldn't go as far as to say that ''MANY'' people have it. Theres a difference between actually having a Fetish for it and just loving to being tickled or to tickle other people ''WITH NO'' Fetish part added onto it. thats what i feel anyways

 

[jugner]

I agree, i dont care what my friends like, so why would they care about me?

But also, a lot is not understood about the fetish by people who don't have it. They may see the few on the internet who like to tickle people until they pass out, and think everyone does. Or they might see a tickling story where someone is kidnapped and tickled to death, and assume everyone with this fetish wants to do that. Not being open is to an extent a fear of being misunderstood.

Jug

 

[shylittleme]

I agree, i dont care what my friends like, so why would they care about me?

But also, a lot is not understood about the fetish by people who don't have it. They may see the few on the internet who like to tickle people until they pass out, and think everyone does. Or they might see a tickling story where someone is kidnapped and tickled to death, and assume everyone with this fetish wants to do that. Not being open is to an extent a fear of being misunderstood.

Jug

i totally agree with the bottom statements 🙂


open mindedness= Good

close mindedness= not Good at all (in my view anyways)

 

[jugner]

I agree, i dont care what my friends like, so why would they care about me?

But also, a lot is not understood about the fetish by people who don't have it. They may see the few on the internet who like to tickle people until they pass out, and think everyone does. Or they might see a tickling story where someone is kidnapped and tickled to death, and assume everyone with this fetish wants to do that. Not being open is to an extent a fear of being misunderstood.

Jug

 

[shylittleme]

why was my reply Deleted?


😕

 

[jugner]

Sorry, not sure why it posted twice.

 

[steph]

shy~I can see your reply just fine!

jug~you're stuttering! 😛 (j/k!) Seriously though, I think some are hesitant to discuss it because people can be so weird and judgemental sometimes...

XOXO

 

[jugner]

Absolutely right, unfortunately.

 

[steph]

S'a shame, really honey~Imagine how much MORE fun we could all be having!

XOXO

 

[IwillTickleU]

No worries shylittleme your entitled to your opinion just like me 🙂 I love tickling and have for a long time but no hard feelings with your response to my post, i've read alot of your posts and they're cool 🙂

 

[Ayla ny]

on the flip side… what’s the point in telling everyone? I would much rather talk to someone I know will understand. someone who feels the same way I do about it. why try to explain to someone who’s wearing that ‘blank-stare-huh?-face’ (been there, done that), when there are people who already understand?

 

[featherfingers]

Once I was working on this lady's feet (Reflexology). I was performing in a professional manner. After the treatment was done, she got up, bent down and ran her hand all the way up my leg. She told me what she was thinking without uttering one word! Of course, I packed up my stuff, took her check, went out to my car and thought to myself, "Did what I think just happened really happen?" What's the point... I have no idea! I'm too busy rethinking that whole scenario.

 

[Tickler Bart]

My biggest fear is that those who may find out about my foot/tickle fetish would lose respect for me & say "Stay away from that weirdo creep."
Of course, this is a worst case scenario, but it COULD happen.
Some people know, most don't. It's no one's business unless the subject comes up.
However . . if you do not reveal yourself sometimes, you may miss out on a great relationship with someone that is right under your nose.
So . . there is the dilemma. Should you take a chance & 'come out of the closet'? Or stay hidden & never meet 'THE' potential one for you.
Actually, it really depends on the person or persons in question.
Go with your gut.

 

[featherfingers]

When I first met my Tickle Lady Friend four years ago, it was just for business. I finally got up the nerve to ask her how she felt about having her feet tickled. She said she loves it and that I could experiment on her anytime! I've been visiting her once or twice a week for the past few years and she always makes her feet available to me! If I had never asked her back then, all of our beautiful times together may have never happened.

 

[tickleshotel]

I don't think the fear, for me, is in disclosing information about my tickling fetish to others. I think the fear comes when I spy a perfect pair of feet when I'm having tea at Starbucks... will she catch me gazing at her feet... how will she react if she does? Is there any way in the world for me to be able to touch them? Should my heart be beating this fast at the sight of her pretty feet? Do I take a risk and talk to her? If I approach a woman and strike up a casual conversation knowing good and well that getting to know her feet is really my ulterior motive, what does that say of me? That's what MY fear is about.

Fankie No fear here ...Personally how could a lady *Not* love hearing you say to her " You know, those feet,toes of yours look as creamy as this Latte!" 😱 To me that is a dream and I'd prob drop my drink and have to order another one LOL..Your secret (not secret now) is safe here..😀

 

[featherfingers]

Hey, Tickles, that's a great line! I'll have to use it sometime... but what if I'm drinking green tea?

 

[tickleshotel]

featherfingers,good question!. What comes to my mind is I;m gazing & admirng another females feet in sandals and she is drinking green tea...maybe I'd go up to her and say " those luscious feet,toes of yours make me Green with envy"!!😉
But as for a guy coming up with something
witty like that, I will need to think about that😛