what should i do

[j-e-l-l-o]

I have this Girl that goes to my school and well i already know shes ticklish on her sides🙂 because another kid in my school started poking her sides during class. Anyways i just thought about doing this emailing her because i have her email address and Making small talk with her then finally telling her that i like tickling and how i would love to tickle her sometime😀 shes a very hot Girl! plus i live like 3 houses down from her just too shy about telling this too her face to face

Is this considered stalking or just plain weird😛?

 

[Kretelis]

Consider your intentions first.

If this is someone you'd consider dating, then do what you would normally do regarding someone you were interested in dating. I wouldn't personally start with a random email because you have her address; but I'm also not going to try to tell you that it's definitely a bad idea. It's just that some girls tend to get on the defensive right off if someone they don't really know starts randomly writing to them.

If it were me, though, I'd probably try to figure out what her interests were, find a common ground, then try to strike up conversation face to face regarding that interest (whether it be music, art, football, reading, whatever). Introducing yourself is always courteous, but in this type of situation I'd probably bring up the interest and introduce myself right afterward, like after she responds to whatever it is you say to her.

Whether you become an item or just friends, "test the waters" a bit and see how she reacts to being tickled. I'm assuming you're in high school; when I was that age I tended to keep that to myself, but it's up to you. I only tell people I enjoy tickling if I feel they're open minded enough to accept it even if they think it's strange.

Of course, these are only my opinions, I'm certainly no authority on the subject 😉

 

[j-e-l-l-o]

k Thanks veronis for Your advice on the matter

 

[Limeoutsider]

Be yourself, dont rush things, thats about it from me

 

[mercury1969j]

Liking a girl

While it might seem to be the fastest way to a tickle, I would caution against coming right out and asking immediately. As someone previously stated, try to get to know her first. And, probably not from an unsolicited email. If she lives nearby, try to strike up a conversation and slowly work to be friends. From there, you will see what happens.

If you come right out and ask,
1) She will agree, and you will both be happy
2) She will tell you to get lost and that you are weird - coming out of the blue, you may get this reaction. You may read stories of experiences starting like this, but they are few and far between.
3) She will tell you to get lost and tell all her friends that you are weird.

So, option 1 is possible, but not really likely. And then you are left to pray for option 2, since option 3 could ruin the rest of your life in the neighborhood.

Finally, someone who might not be into tickling right now, may later find it ok with a person they care about. So, work on her, become friends, and take it from there.

 

[Oddjob0226]

If you do tell her, do it in person, not e-mail. That just feels kind of odd and impersonal. And nowdays it a major stalking tool. In person, you can both just laugh about it if it feels wierd, or you can explain it further and discuss it further - without actually doing it - instantly and get good feedback from actually reading her vocal inflections, body language, etc.