What to do?

[duannewalton]

There's this eclectic home decor shop in town that's run by an older woman that's not too hard on the eyes. We've talked a few times and I seem to have established a rapport with her (she's beeen wanting to expand her business and I've been giving her suggestions). Anyway, last night I was in the store and we got to talking. She has this pen with a black feather on the end of it and while we were talking, she was stroking her lips and chin with the feather. It really struck me, but I didn't say anything (mainly because I was too dumbfounded). Could she be a closet `ler/`lee? Should I say anything to her?

 

[milagros317]

When she does that, it would be the most natural thing in the world to say, "Doesn't that tickle?"

 

[Celsus]

I think tapping a pen against your lips, feather or no feather, is by no means an indication of a sexual deviance.

Methinks you're reading waaay too much into it. Although it would make sense to ask if it tickles, and maybe at least get a stimulating conversation.

 

[Horatio]

I agree with Celsus. She probably wasn't doing it for any conscious reason.

 

[TicklesFemales]

Hello Horatio

The next time that happens I would just say something like that is a nice looking feather on that pen and doesn't that tickle your chin by doing that, and maybe say something like I know it would tickle me if I did that. See what she says then, she may say something like well it does not tickle me I am not ticklish or she may say something like yes it does some and I love the feeling. If she says that then ask her if she likes to be tickled, if she says yes your in man and go for it....LOL

TicklesFemales