What topics do you like in chats?

[natscott6282]

If you use the tmf chat room (which I do) or other chat apps like discord (which I do) I know different ppl like different topics so for e.g. some ppl love rp or finding out about each others ticklishness and most ticklish places and methods or even arranging meeting etc

so what are ur favorite things to discuss?
and also where do u chat? cause I can recommend tmf chat as its a good one with ppl in there most times

I’m into sfw tickle torturing but not rp or meeting and definitely not other topics like weather or politics or anything apart from tickling so I end up chatting about experiences and methods etc

and if u wanna add me on discord its the same username as on here as in natscott6282 (just make sure u tell me ur from the nightly tmf!

so ye, ur fav types of chats or reasons u don’t chat

 

[Lee Lerish]

Obviously, I like to talk about tickling in chat, but I find that often many other subjects come up, so I will join in if it's a subject I'm familiar with, depending on who's doing the chatting and how comfortable I feel. Yesterday in chat I was about to cook dinner, so I talked about bacon cheeseburgers, and I got a good rapport going, with someone telling me what they like to eat at Wendy's, etc. Most of the time I go in there, no one is even out in the main room, it tends to be pretty quiet, even if it says there's 50 people there, they are often in PM's, at which point I'll leave and come back later. I often do get PM'd there, but it's always by m/m people who say things like, "How's the tickling going?" Or, "What are some hot chicks you'd like to tickle?" etc., but I just ignore all those....I do chat with someone there who is into f/m, which I like, but we don't talk about techniques so much, we just pretend we're doing it, and it's pretty spontaneous, which is what I prefer, so it's all good fun...another lady I chat to there is a lee, so same thing, all spontaneous tickle talk, very arousing. Of course I prefer to do it for real, but it's not easy to find.

TMF is the only platform I use, I did try some groups on Discord once but that was kinda confusing for me so I left. I like TMF because I'm old fashioned I guess, and I like the fact that it's a website, as opposed to an app, which seems to be the thing these days, and I don't use a cell phone for the internet, I prefer my laptop, same as I've been using here on the TMF for the past 20 years or so.

 

[natscott6282]

Obviously, I like to talk about tickling in chat, but I find that often many other subjects come up, so I will join in if it's a subject I'm familiar with, depending on who's doing the chatting and how comfortable I feel.

I never wanna chat about anything apart from tickling here in tmf tbh I know others do and discuss stuff in their life or sport or interests etc but that’s not what I come here for lol

I did try some groups on Discord once but that was kinda confusing for me so I left.

ye I don’t use the channels (groups) on discord much just mainly for chats with individual ppl as in what u call in tmf chat ‘pm’ or ‘dm’

 

[tickling_guy85]

I hate small talk with a passion, so anything that falls into this category is ruled out a priori for me. I also loathe silly attempts to start a conversation based on people's hypothetical wives or celebrities. Last but not least, any convo that starts with a disgusting objectification or sexist statement, e.g. "wanna talk about hot chicks" etc.

Anything respectful, intellectually inspiring, or interesting in any other way is welcome. Having said that, we're all here, or at least most of us, to talk about our common kink. Unless I am chatting with someone for a very long period of time, I very much prefer to talk about tickling in a way that goes well beyond "tickles ur feet" levels of existential boredom.

 

[Lee Lerish]

I never wanna chat about anything apart from tickling here in tmf tbh I know others do and discuss stuff in their life or sport or interests etc but that’s not what I come here for lol

ye I don’t use the channels (groups) on discord much just mainly for chats with individual ppl as in what u call in tmf chat ‘pm’ or ‘dm’

Same here. I don't really want to discuss anything other than tickling either, but many do, so I figure I'll join in because it's a good way to get to know people, and it's possible you can meet someone that way who has the same tickling interests you do. I personally find that to be a better way, rather than Pm'ing them, because when I'd done that in the past, even if all I said was "Hi," they'd get angry, either that or not even respond. I'm not one to take those kind of chances and risk humiliation, so yeah, if you're out there in the main room, even if the subject is favorite food, or movies, etc., at least they're getting to know you...sometimes they ARE talking about tickling, and I'll join in, but I find often it's other stuff.

As for Discord, I did talk to you there one on one for a while, but I figured, on the TMF I can still chat with you, but also others too, so I find it best to keep it all in the same place, rather than go into Discord for just one person.

 

[duderino84]

I've always found trying to chat tickling with people turns wonky. Either there's a boundary or anxiety or it becomes all about tickling and everything gets to a point it feels stupid so I just avoid it.

 

[A/S/H]

I don't really use the chat much these days. What I do remember is that back in the day before the mass exodus, people would get really annoyed and start trolling the minute you started talking about tickling. Any mentions of sessions or parties would get you flamed. Idk if these people who were getting the brunt of it were low-key bad people in real life or if they harassed the women here, if so I'd understand, but it honestly put me off chat. Now when I go in there it's just unorganized chaos and idk where to start lol

 

[Lee Lerish]

I don't really use the chat much these days. What I do remember is that back in the day before the mass exodus, people would get really annoyed and start trolling the minute you started talking about tickling. Any mentions of sessions or parties would get you flamed. Idk if these people who were getting the brunt of it were low-key bad people in real life or if they harassed the women here, if so I'd understand, but it honestly put me off chat. Now when I go in there it's just unorganized chaos and idk where to start lol

From what I remember, about 9 or 10 years ago, there were some nasty people in there who were always causing trouble. It's gotten a little better since then, but overall I find it like walking on eggshells, so I tend to just stick with the couple of people I know there and just chat with them in private.

 

[piyr]

Group chat rooms are too chaotic. To me it's not chatting. It's throwing out comments with maybe a quick exchange.

I haven't really done much 1 on 1 chatting, probably because I've only responded rather than initiated. I'd probably like to though. I'm more interested in things like the why's and motivations of what drives you, if you engage in it or not and how you feel about that. So for example, I'm not really into things like rp but hearing about why you like it is interesting. The whole rhelm of tickling as part of your identity fascinates me.

I'm more than happy to share experiences if people want to hear about them but I'm out as soon as I get the sense that some guy is deceptively using our chat for self gratification. And yes, so far, I've only got that feeling from guys. Not that there's anything wrong with that, if that's what consenting people are into, but it's not for me.

In short, chatting about who, what, where, when, WHY, and how are all cool with me.

 

[Lee Lerish]

Group chat rooms are too chaotic. To me it's not chatting. It's throwing out comments with maybe a quick exchange.

I haven't really done much 1 on 1 chatting, probably because I've only responded rather than initiated. I'd probably like to though. I'm more interested in things like the why's and motivations of what drives you, if you engage in it or not and how you feel about that. So for example, I'm not really into things like rp but hearing about why you like it is interesting. The whole rhelm of tickling as part of your identity facinates me.

I'm more than happy to share experiences if people want to hear about them but I'm out as soon as I get the sense that some guy is deceptively using our chat for self gratification. And yes, so far, I've only got that feeling from guys. Not that there's anything wrong with that, if that's what consenting people are into, but it's not for me.

In short, chatting about who, what, where, when, WHY, and how are all cool with me.

I relate to what you say about the guys in there, I get PM'd by them all the time and it's the same old thing, it's gotten to the point that I don't answer, but if they wanted to chat about it in the main room I wouldn't mind, but it seems they usually don't.

Sometimes they do chat about their experiences, and the whole "who what where and why" thing out in the main room, but you have to get in there at the right time...usually when I go in it's a blank screen, and I can only stare at that for so long. Then the m/m private messages start coming in and I'm outta there.

 

[natscott6282]

I'm more interested in things like the why's and motivations of what drives you, if you engage in it or not and how you feel about that. So for example, I'm not really into things like rp but hearing about why you like it is interesting. The whole rhelm of tickling as part of your identity fascinates me.

Same

I'm more than happy to share experiences if people want to hear about them but I'm out as soon as I get the sense that some guy is deceptively using our chat for self gratification.

Same

And yes, so far, I've only got that feeling from guys. Not that there's anything wrong with that, if that's what consenting people are into, but it's not for me.

Same

In short, chatting about who, what, where, when, WHY, and how are all cool with me.

Same

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I hardly go into the chat room. I’m a dull person

 

[Lee Lerish]

I've been going in the TMF chatroom for a long time, and my overall impression is that it's very m/m dominated, and I'm not knocking that, but personally, it's not my thing. I think there should be more of a balance, and I'm curious as to why there isn't. I remember when I used to go in there years ago, and there were many more females. My guess is, the women get fed up with all the nasty PM's coming in, and I don't blame them. I'm a guy and I go through the same thing. There are a few females who go in there, but when I look at their profiles, it seems that 90% of the time, they are just into f/f.