What's more Humiliating?

[LeeAllure]

Isabeau, you know there's a way to get that
problem taken care of. And then you'd really
know if you found it humiliating, or just loved
it, instead 🙂

Lee

 

[isabeau]

Isabeau, you know there's a way to get that
problem taken care of. And then you'd really
know if you found it humiliating, or just loved
it, instead 🙂

Lee

yes i'm working on that...wish me luck...but it would be consensual tickling...so hmm i might blush and be a bit embarrassed..but humiliating? well hmm not sure since i'm rather shy...yes i am rather shy believe it or not hehe...


in my fantasizes, i always imagine a group of females tickling me with an audience watching...but in my fantasy it's always humiliating because it's non-consensual...and i find that a total turn-on...call me weird..hehe

 

[venray]

That's good. I'm really not trying to cause any trouble. So if I angered you at all for the whole POV thing than I'm sorry.

Ditto...but remember it is hard to perceive anger by what is written in a post..

You have done nothing to anger me...

To answer Isabeau's scenario.....

I find anything non consensual to be equivalent to assault and would find either case to be equal in humiliation for lack of a better word.....

 

[isabeau]

it is a fantasy Ray nothing more for me...of course in reality, it would be assault...but in a fantasy, i always imagine non-consensual..it's a major turnon for me...don't ask me why...but in reality? nope, i'm far too modest and shy for that...i am..really i am shy....i am hehe

 

[alwayssilver]

Ditto...but remember it is hard to perceive anger by what is written in a post..

You have done nothing to anger me...

True. Well I'm glad anyways.

 

[aun_existe_amor]

My Bob is a lee and he would find it humiliating to either be tickled with a group of people watching or be tickled by a group of people unless it was something he had agreed to before and he knew that the group of people were into tickling too. He hates to be tickled in public anyway. He doesn't like people to know his weaknesses. He is a lee but he is very dominant in all other aspects of his life. Of course me being me I have to tease him in public with a quick knee squeeze or poke in his ribs 😀

I have met one and chatted with a few people who like to be humiliated either through being tickled or through other things, and me being me I like to oblige 😀

 

[jk666uk]

its got to be number 2

 

[kilitiinko1]

My Bob is a lee and he would find it humiliating to either be tickled with a group of people watching or be tickled by a group of people unless it was something he had agreed to before and he knew that the group of people were into tickling too. He hates to be tickled in public anyway. He doesn't like people to know his weaknesses. He is a lee but he is very dominant in all other aspects of his life. Of course me being me I have to tease him in public with a quick knee squeeze or poke in his ribs 😀

I have met one and chatted with a few people who like to be humiliated either through being tickled or through other things, and me being me I like to oblige 😀

I would have to agree with Aun.Being dominant in all other aspects of life,I personally would find it humiliating to lose control in front of a group of people such as peers or friends not into tickling or even strangers.I think it has to do mainly with the loss of control,and not knowing exactly how you would react.Let`s face it,as a `lee,I know that different ticklers can bring about different reactions,depending on their techniques.To lose control like that,in front of others not so like minded,to me would be quite humiliating.On the other hand,I do love submitting to my tickler,and being worked over by her in front of others who are into tickling would be quite a thrill.I just wouldn`t want it to be in a situation where it could ruin my job or standing within the community.

And,yes,I do enjoy a bit of humiliation play,but again,only with like-minded people. 😛

 

[drew70]

I wouldn't find either scenario humiliating at all. So, to answer your question, I'd say "none of the above." 😉

 

[minerva]

For me it would definitely be being tickled by one person while a group is watching 😱

 

[milagros317]

I would find either fun, not humiliating, as long as the Lers were known to me and had my consent. 😀

 

[WheresThe Clip?]

...call me weird..hehe

You're weird

 

[gawynn]

both

I think that bot would be humiliating but the audiance would be moreso

 

[ticklesenseless]

Definitely tickled by one person in public. Especially, when you don't know who could walk by and see you out of control. As a guy, there is a public image that must be maintained.

 

[sabaki]

yeah kilitiinko1!

It's not so much about consent as about loss of control. Being tickled makes you blush, sweat, tear up, and might get juices running in other ways. And also in other other ways. Your clothes ride up, your hair gets disheveled, people tease you... I think it's pretty natural for some or all of those to humiliate you. If not, then perhaps you're the sort who can't be embarrassed by anything physical.

I have to side with the people who say being tickled by one person in front of many onlookers is the worst. You're being exhibited to everyone. But if everyone participates, they'll be laughing along with you.

 

[huskys]

Definitely in front of a group, especially if you didn't know them, because there would be more people to see me laugh, beg, sweat, etc!!!

 

[isabeau]

You're weird

well thank you so much lol...

hmm now what i would find humiliating...in person and in real life, would be tickled by a group of people and have an accident..if you know what i mean..the word tinkle comes to mind..hehe..

 

[EvenSteven]

For me, it is more humiliating to be tickled by one person with a group watching. The reason is because if there is one Woman tickling me, and everyone can see that i am unbound and allowing Her to do it, then i am publicly displaying my submissiveness to Her. This happened to me in college. i was at my gf's apartment and She tickled me in front of Her roommates. i was so surprised at Her nerve that i didn't know what to do. Her roommates were really grinning at me and laughing because of my predicament. They could see how much control my gf had over me. This really enhanced the sensation. i was super-aroused and from then on, She knew that She could tickle me anywhere and i had to endure it.

 

[tklmaestro]

I haven't done either, but there's always a first

 

[Feathery]

How about being tickled to the point of forced urination in front of the General Assembly at the United Nations... and televised. Ummmm... then again, that might be not so bad... it would be carried on C-Span, and therefore, no one would see it.

 

[indivision]

Honestly, unless I knew all the people around me and was comfortable with them knowing about my tickling fixation, I would probably find both kind of humiliating. There are two main reasons for this. First, I am still quite secretive about my tickle fetish. I admire those who have been able to be open about their fetishes; and who knows, maybe someday I will be able to be like them. But as of right now, I can't seem to take it out from under my hat. And I may never be able to. And the reason for that brings me to my second reason for finding both mentioned scenarios uneasy. This reason is that I am quite the introvert. I normally don't like to draw a lot of excess attention to myself. That is not to say that I am a recluse who doesn't enjoy having friends or socializing or even getting a little crazy every now and then. Instead, it just means that I tend to prefer to blend in. It's just my nature, my personality.

So...it seems that I am one of the few who would actually not enjoy being tickled in public.