When do you bring tickling into it?

[TicklingTips]

Hi all. How long do you wait to bring tickling into your interactions with the opposite sex? I'm not talking about coming out with "I have a massive tickling fetish!!!" I mean more like do you tickle people a bit soon after meeting them? Or because of your fetish do you see it as something you should wait a while before doing?

Personally, I tend to tickle girls playfully very early, often the first time I meet them and start flirting with them. Partly to find out if they are ticklish, partly to find out how they will react to it, and also because it's a harmless way of touching them and breaking that touch barrier.

 

[kingp]

mmm good question

Usually I do not tickle right away.... I observe the woman first to see if she is friendly toward me. With a co-worker, I have a 3 month rule. I don't try anything for 3 months, if I have a friendship with them, then I'll tickle. Over time and trust you can reveal things. There are currently 2 co-workers who I trust the most that know of my love for tickling, they have even indulged me from time to time.
I never tickle the wife's friends...I don't want her weirded out. Basically, if I know the woman well enough to know she won't freak out about a gentle tickle, then I go for it. I never get the weirdo stare, and I have had fun with it in the past, because hellloooo tickling is supposed to be fun...LOL.

 

[rhiannon]

You are tickling co-workers? I'd be careful if I were you!

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Once I feel comfortable enough to touch them in any manner that isn't just a handshake.

 

[eric33]

I,m with ya there on the early playful tickle part,...if she,s not right into it you,ll find out early enough before things get too serious , usually end up being good friends ,..and the search can continue.

 

[PQfingers]

After the third or fourth date. Start slowly and gauge their reactions.

 

[maniactickler]

I have a 20 minute rule. no tickling within the first 20 minutes of meeting a girl.

 

[Masochistic-lee]

Tickling is widely known as a form of flirtation so it's harmless in that sense. However if you want to let a girl know about your kinky side just make sure you guys are at that stage of sharing. Remember that she'll probably have some sort of interesting kink as well, so maybe you guys can both reveal your saucy side at the same time. I did it to my boyfriend after he told me his 😛

 

[rhiannon]

Hmmm....for a girl it's easy to reveal a kinky side early....for a boy it's not so great. Often the girl won't have decided whether she wants to be with him or not, and bringing sex and fetishes up may seem creepy!

 

[asutickler]

It's one of those things where you just kinda have to go with the flow, kind of like a first kiss or getting to the proverbial "second base." Be respectful, and be mindful of how your partner seems to respond to your advances... But beyond that, just relax and do what comes naturally. 🙂

 

[eric33]

Usually tickling is brought in after simmering for 45 minutes , and the broth and peppercorns have achieved the desired consistency ,...season to taste...enjoy.



"Hell,s Kitchen"

 

[TheTickleMonster]

hmmm, well let's see

Usually I don't tickle people for a while, maybe the third or fourth time I see them, however there have been a couple occassions where i tickle them right after I meet them...

one instance someone I was hanging out with dissed my city so I poked her as her punishment in a playful way, and she said she's really ticklish, needless to say until she left I tickled her quite a bit, and she seemed pretty okay with it. She gave me a big hug when we said goodbye.. gah I wish I got her number.. lol

Um, another time I tickled someone the first time I hung out with them was when I was sitting in the library with one of my friends and I playfully punched her and she told me that it didn't hurt and that she's been hit harder than that (well duh, I don't actually hit girls so I wasn't trying to hurt her.) but anyways, instead of punching her again I poked her side, her reaction was awesome. lol. and so I gave her a ticklehug when we said goodbye 😛...

But bassically I don't have a set time where I tickle someone, sexually or not sexually, it just depends on how I feel the girl will react to it, what my impression I'm getting from her is. If I think she won't hate me for tickling her I might do it a little bit lol.

oh, and there was another girl I kept tickling the first time I saw her, but she deserved it. I kept making her laugh and her laugh was driving me absolutely crazy so I couldn't resist lol..