When she says "I hate to be tickled"...

[tkmanx]

my current gf never actully said she "hated" tickling ever. i always make sure that when i tickle her its not too long or hard. the longest times i ever tickle her is when we are having tickle fights. she is a very hands on girl and we like wrestling so i add in tickling with wrestling and its produced beautiful results. she likes to dress up as trish stratus(or any other diva who wears pants) and i'd be john cena(since he wears shorts). we'll go at it, i'd softly put her in a hold, she'll say she;ll never give, then i tickle her and she taps out..........eventually.

 

[gilmourwaters]

In the past,when i come across this obstickle (get it?) i simply tell the girl that normal because the ones tickling you probably just went in all hyper and got you all hysterical so you 1) got afriad.....or 2) felt pain after not too long

Try it with someone who watches your responses and knows when to back off and let you breathe...it can be lots of fun.

That usually eased there fears enough for me to get in some good tickling

 

[Meka1]

I'm a ticklish girl and enjoying tickling as in being tied up and tickled, and i can say from my own experience that it is hard. I love it, but its difficult having some one tickle the crap out of you for 45 mins to an hour long. But the difficulty of it all is what makes it exciting for me.

 

[scorpionldr]

If a girl doesn't like to be tickled.....

She doesn't like to be tickled. End of story. Case in point, I've met about 10 girls that are extremely ticklish. Five I came out to, and those same five told me that they absolutely hated tickling in any form and that I was not welcome to indulge myself in their "suffering", nor do they ever find a reason to talk about it. As you can see, thanx to my fetish, I truly am both alone, and unable to get kicks even talking about it because they prettymuch all hate it.

However, last night I had a conversation with an old friend of mine, she has everything in her life set in place, and one of the last things I thought she would ever say to me is "i think everyone likes to be tickled
i like it a lot but theres when im being tickled in a nice way...just making me have goose bumps and then theres when im freaking out and i cant take it..ones little more easy to take then another...but both fun in there own right i guess."

The fact is buddy, until you find a girl that's just honest enough to say something like this about tickling, your screwed no matter what "point" of a relationship you piss someone off. :weird:

 

[barefeetarebest1]

get out of my thoughts!!!

I have to say that, as shallow and bad as this makes me feel, a girl has to let me indulge my tickling fetish or I really can't be with her. If I can't ticke her, it's like her saying that I can't have sex with her. Sure, sex isn't what a relationship is about, but it's still pretty significant and I would feel like a part of me is missing if I was unable to indulge my fetish.

couldn't have said that better myself, its exactly the way i feel so shallow as it may be you are not alone

 

[ticklishwoman1]

I think that if a girl says she doesn't want to be tickled that guys in general should try to respect that. However, I am sure there's a reason for that and maybe there's a way to try and get her to like it by taking baby steps to get her to like it. That's just my opinion though.

 

[ticklishwoman1]

I just want to say also that I personally love to be tickled!