Which is more important in a relationship?

[TicklishSinner]

Ok....out of personality or physical appearance, which plays the heavier role in determining a significant other?? Just wondering your opinions

 

[the_Baron]

personality. if she's got that, i'll find her attractive.

(and cash; lots of cash) 😛

 

[ticklishbbw]

Personality. Looks change. I want someone who can make me laugh, and keep me interested.

tbbw

 

[KoocheeKoo]

Personality...

 

[MrMacphisto]

For me, both play an equal part... Physical attraction sparks my interest in the first place, and then personality gets me interested enough to ask the girl out. If a certain level of physical attractiveness isn't there, then I won't be open to a relationship with whomever, but even if attraction is there, a girl with no personality is boring.

 

[dskodj]

Id say 100% the person themselves. Looks are just on the outside. I used to be shallow I guess you could say back in the day when I was younger but..now days I see things a bit different. Example, a lady could be drop dead hot and want me, but if she doesn't fit what will work with me as a person, I wont be with her just cause she's good lookin. Thats my 100% honest feelings on relationships.

 

[giantfan121262]

Personality....

definitely. It shows who you are. If you are good looking but a dead fish then that takes away from the person as a whole. I want somebody I can talk to and have fun with, if they are good looking and meet the personality criteria, then it's a bonus.

 

[Mimi]

Absolutely personality. If you fall in love with someones mind and heart, they automatically become attractive physically to you. You can not base a relationship on appearances alone.

Mimi

 

[venray]

Personality and the inner soul....I was totally in love with my now significant other long before I met her, so looks would not have mattered one way or another....something you find out as you get older yourself....



Ray

 

[cs217903]

The personality comes first, but there definitely should be physical attraction between people if they are going to be together. Without attraction, there's no chemistry, and without chemistry, a relationship is doomed.

 

[natural tickler]

Personality, because you can find anyone with a great body, but it takes someone with a personality that sets you apart😀

 

[TicklishSinner]

i agree, personality is the most important thing, i would rather find someone attractive because of their personality than because they were goodlooking but dumb as a box of rocks

 

[the_Baron]

note to self: hide box of rocks.

 

[natural tickler]

i agree, personality is the most important thing, i would rather find someone attractive because of their personality than because they were goodlooking but dumb as a box of rocks

...or maybe with an IQ of a salad bar😛

 

[R. Davis]

Sense of humor,good listener,and down to earth!

 

[Knox The Hatter]

PERSONALITY

...along with gorgeous eyes and the brightest of smiles, and I'm instantly taken away...but even if you don't have that, your personality means a whole lot! There's this girl at work, a drop dead blonde knockout, I mean, a COVER GIRL! She's 22. Her personality smells worse than a three week old Filet o' Fish sandwich...and that diminishes the whole situation to negligable. I talk to her very seldom, and only when it's necessary...she's a rotten human being and she's not worth my time, regardless of what she looks like.

For me, personality means all.

 

[TicklishSinner]

that is so sad...such great looks going down the drain because she has a terrible personality..hopefully she will learn later on..loooks wont get you everything