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Who here is 50+ and a tickler?

Yeah, I'm over 50. I'd almost have to be, given that I've been on this board for almost 25 years. Not much action for a long time, though.
 
trombone_skillet said:
very late 70's, 'ler, with zero experience. in my youth, I was too shy, too certain I'd be the weird one ostracized from my peers - so a lot of the loss is on my own cowardice. married a fantastic woman who will indulge me zero; point-of-fact, the last time I asked was the last time I asked because she, fantastic or no, became so angered and indignant. and, since I've never (and won't) 'step out' on her, there's, well, zero outside her, also. at this wintering of life, I don't see any path to a real-life, meaningful encounter. I live and breathe vicariously on this board and through tickling stories and comics, mainly; live-action tickling videos are bell-ringing, but not to the frequencies and tenor of stories and comics ('cause I'm weird! 😀) with the closure of mtjpub, I've recently begun to branch out to other sources (like reddit, deviantart, etc). I don't ever see an end to my interest, though; been this way for as long as I have memory and became self-aware. when I read threads like this, I'm glad to hear that others are able to actually live the things of which I've only ever dreamed; doing so means this is very real, very ... alive. live while you can and be bold about it; you get only one.
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i am so sorry that you cannot fulfill your fantasies and that you have been judged for having them 🥺 if you’d like to chat about tickling feel free to message me !! you can also find me on fetlife ( @ blondeinred ) where I might be more active.
 
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Tickler Bart said:
I'll be 61 next week (Nov 18) and still a 'Ler.
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I am going to be 67 on Nov 18, 2025. Still a ‘Ler and always looking for a single female with a passion to be tickled to orgasm. Living in the Tampa Florida area.
 
Still 72 and still going strong! Unfortunately the DFW area seems to be a tickling desert!
 
trombone_skillet said:
very late 70's, 'ler, with zero experience. in my youth, I was too shy, too certain I'd be the weird one ostracized from my peers - so a lot of the loss is on my own cowardice. married a fantastic woman who will indulge me zero; point-of-fact, the last time I asked was the last time I asked because she, fantastic or no, became so angered and indignant. and, since I've never (and won't) 'step out' on her, there's, well, zero outside her, also. at this wintering of life, I don't see any path to a real-life, meaningful encounter. I live and breathe vicariously on this board and through tickling stories and comics, mainly; live-action tickling videos are bell-ringing, but not to the frequencies and tenor of stories and comics ('cause I'm weird! 😀) with the closure of mtjpub, I've recently begun to branch out to other sources (like reddit, deviantart, etc). I don't ever see an end to my interest, though; been this way for as long as I have memory and became self-aware. when I read threads like this, I'm glad to hear that others are able to actually live the things of which I've only ever dreamed; doing so means this is very real, very ... alive. live while you can and be bold about it; you get only one.
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I really appreciate you sharing your story

If I may be so bold: You have good years left. I can tell you, as someone with a partner who also isn't into tickling, when you do get the chance to have a proper session, it is magical.

If your partner is giving you a hard no, and you're not interested in any form of open relationship on this one axis, might you consider a paid worker? There are fetish dungeons in most major cities - perhaps the transactional nature would make it feel less like cheating? And of course you'd want to discuss with your partner

Don't deny yourself fundamental pleasure my friend. You deserve to explore every aspect of life.
 
55 here, want to be active but it’s hard to find participants. Whats worse is my niche. I’m looking for “out of shape” chubby older lees. Make or female. I just love tickling.
 
The_Laugher said:
I am still here and have turn 66. I am a tickler and tickle. As active as I was in the tickling community for many years, I find that at my age, the chance of tickling someone is slim to none. I’s been a few years now since my last session and other then the little bit of tickling my massage therapist offers, I have basically no one available to tickle. I’ve tried but no luck. I think people look at me as a weird old man. It sucks. I am very happy for all of you older ticklers who have sessions still. I hope they continue for you.
The Laugher
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I’m in the same boat as you. It’s hard to find people who are willing to try it.
 
trombone_skillet said:
very late 70's, 'ler, with zero experience. in my youth, I was too shy, too certain I'd be the weird one ostracized from my peers - so a lot of the loss is on my own cowardice. married a fantastic woman who will indulge me zero; point-of-fact, the last time I asked was the last time I asked because she, fantastic or no, became so angered and indignant. and, since I've never (and won't) 'step out' on her, there's, well, zero outside her, also. at this wintering of life, I don't see any path to a real-life, meaningful encounter. I live and breathe vicariously on this board and through tickling stories and comics, mainly; live-action tickling videos are bell-ringing, but not to the frequencies and tenor of stories and comics ('cause I'm weird! 😀) with the closure of mtjpub, I've recently begun to branch out to other sources (like reddit, deviantart, etc). I don't ever see an end to my interest, though; been this way for as long as I have memory and became self-aware. when I read threads like this, I'm glad to hear that others are able to actually live the things of which I've only ever dreamed; doing so means this is very real, very ... alive. live while you can and be bold about it; you get only one.
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Talking about it, and meeting fellow lers, and lees whether its irl, or online is still sharing in the gifts, and special moments of our fetishes.
Granted that sharing a laugh or two with another person is far better, but don"t be too hard on yourself.

The best people I have ever met online, on tmf, or irl were some of the most introverted, off standing, or even awkward individuals who you barely even knew were around.

You have your place too.
Thanks for being here.😉
Love the comment.
 
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trombone_skillet said:
very late 70's, 'ler, with zero experience. in my youth, I was too shy, too certain I'd be the weird one ostracized from my peers - so a lot of the loss is on my own cowardice. married a fantastic woman who will indulge me zero; point-of-fact, the last time I asked was the last time I asked because she, fantastic or no, became so angered and indignant. and, since I've never (and won't) 'step out' on her, there's, well, zero outside her, also. at this wintering of life, I don't see any path to a real-life, meaningful encounter. I live and breathe vicariously on this board and through tickling stories and comics, mainly; live-action tickling videos are bell-ringing, but not to the frequencies and tenor of stories and comics ('cause I'm weird! 😀) with the closure of mtjpub, I've recently begun to branch out to other sources (like reddit, deviantart, etc). I don't ever see an end to my interest, though; been this way for as long as I have memory and became self-aware. when I read threads like this, I'm glad to hear that others are able to actually live the things of which I've only ever dreamed; doing so means this is very real, very ... alive. live while you can and be bold about it; you get only one.
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Man, this is so sad! I finally just got beyond watching tickle videos and got to experience being a Ler earlier this year for the first time in my life. Still has been only 2 times, and while the one experience was great in its own way, neither time was really ideal. When I was young, I always thought I'd just naturally meet a woman with a mutual attraction I could share this fetish with in a genuine, intimate way. Never wanted to resort to paying someone, and it's not because I even mind paying for it, but just knowing this is the only reason for it happening isn't as satisfying for me. It's not what I ever really wanted, but I came to realize what I wanted seemed to only be fantasy for me.

I'm not 50 yet, but as I've been so quickly approaching, I didn't want to end up never having the experience at all. And unlike Trombone, I've never even met a fantastic woman to spend my life with, let alone someone to share such a rare fetish. For the people that have, must feel like winning the lottery you lucky bastards 😂 All the more reason it was insane to think this would ever happen for me 😆
 
yinzer said:
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Man, this is so sad! I finally just got beyond watching tickle videos and got to experience being a Ler earlier this year for the first time in my life. Still has been only 2 times, and while the one experience was great in its own way, neither time was really ideal. When I was young, I always thought I'd just naturally meet a woman with a mutual attraction I could share this fetish with in a genuine, intimate way. Never wanted to resort to paying someone, and it's not because I even mind paying for it, but just knowing this is the only reason for it happening isn't as satisfying for me. It's not what I ever really wanted, but I came to realize what I wanted seemed to only be fantasy for me.

I'm not 50 yet, but as I've been so quickly approaching, I didn't want to end up never having the experience at all. And unlike Trombone, I've never even met a fantastic woman to spend my life with, let alone someone to share such a rare fetish. For the people that have, must feel like winning the lottery you lucky bastards 😂 All the more reason it was insane to think this would ever happen for me 😆
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Our fetish is pretty complicated.
Crazy that many people think that its weird, or childish. Maybe it is, but its also fun, and healthy.

I don't have as many encounters as I used to simply because children, and live in family members make me less likely to engage in a hard laughter, and intense sessions like I used to.

All I can say is that I think all of us have a tribe (more than one person) that understand how we think, and why we enjoy certain things.

Keep growing as an individual, and stay true to yourself. The right people will notice.
Some of us (like me) just have alot going on, and we are stuck in an unending business mode that makes us less aware of the opportunities that are all around us.

Glad that you are here, and thanks for the honesty.
Take care my friend.🤙
 
Hi! I turned 52 in July. I am a lifelong (foot-)tickler -- I am NOT a switch -- and in March 2025, I moved from the Eastern time zone to LAS VEGAS!
My only regret about moving to Sin City... is that I did not move here sooner!

In regards to my age, I will quote a line from The Canterbury Tales...
"Though there is snow on the rooftop, the furnace is still hot... I know what I can do, and I know what I've got!"
 
trombone_skillet said:
very late 70's, 'ler, with zero experience. in my youth, I was too shy, too certain I'd be the weird one ostracized from my peers - so a lot of the loss is on my own cowardice. married a fantastic woman who will indulge me zero; point-of-fact, the last time I asked was the last time I asked because she, fantastic or no, became so angered and indignant. and, since I've never (and won't) 'step out' on her, there's, well, zero outside her, also. at this wintering of life, I don't see any path to a real-life, meaningful encounter. I live and breathe vicariously on this board and through tickling stories and comics, mainly; live-action tickling videos are bell-ringing, but not to the frequencies and tenor of stories and comics ('cause I'm weird! 😀) with the closure of mtjpub, I've recently begun to branch out to other sources (like reddit, deviantart, etc). I don't ever see an end to my interest, though; been this way for as long as I have memory and became self-aware. when I read threads like this, I'm glad to hear that others are able to actually live the things of which I've only ever dreamed; doing so means this is very real, very ... alive. live while you can and be bold about it; you get only one.
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I can somehow resonate with you! I also have such a 'decent' personality of being obsessed with having loyalty to my potential partner and being ambivalent to such possibly 'dirty' places as pubs...In my background cultural society, I'd been so 'weird' that many ppl there somewhat saw me as a outcast...It has accordingly made my experiences of tickling rather bleak.
To know more, you can read this post: https://www.ticklingforum.com/threa...as-made-me-become-a-depressed-tickler.460934/
 
maniactickler said:
I hear you. its frustrating when you have a fetish you cant really act on. i want to tickle every good looking women i see, yet cant. i wish i could get rid of this fetish so i can enjoy life more. its controlling my life. im done paying for it as well. i cant afford that anymore. :banghead:
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@maniactickler You may also reply in this thread?
 
Not to hijack anything....
BUUUUUUUUT... Are there any ticklees or switches here who are 50+?

Respectfully, I've always connected more with ticklers/ticklees who are older. Just curious.
 
55. And still a Ler (though having gone through a barely convincing "switch period", these last 20 years).
 
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