Why are ladies better lers than guys?

[crydun]

I wouldn;t say that women are better ticklers than guys, and I dn;t really think there is a contest about who are better ticklers I think that women are probably more methodical,devious and women just love having a otherwise strong,determined guy that when we begin to tickle him,his will not to laugh breaks down and Gawd that's the thing I love,having the tables turn and the lady is in control

you and me both!!

 

[maniactickler]

I know in tickling videos, men blow women away as ticklers. there are a few rare exceptions, but for the most part, men rule as lers.

 

[tickler_n_black]

my 2 cents?

in GENERAL, men are better ticklers than women.
are there great female ticklers out there? hell yeah.
but are there great male ticklers out there too? hell yeah.

from my experiences over the years i am 100% certain that, as a whole, guys are generally "naturally" better ticklers than women.

hell, i've had to witness more than a few female ticklers at our shoots (ticklers that i had to remove as tickler and do it myself) because it was SO BADLY DONE. NO CLUE of how to tickle. one female had nice long deadly fingernails and when asked to tickle another model's feet, she pretty much started massaging the girl's feet, and pulled on her toes, and used her knuckles (yes her knuckles) to try and tickle. i was amazed because she REALLY thought that was the way to tickle feet. it was bizarre, because even after trying to teach her to just use her long nails on the girl's feet bottoms, she couldn't do it.

but if you asked me who is the best tickler in the world, a woman would win that honor: Priscilla James is a better tickler than all other men and women. but she's a rarity.

i think us guys sometimes get confused and think just because a woman is gorgeous then she is a good tickler. but that's not true. being beautiful doesn't make you a good tickler.

i think if you rounded up 1000 men and 1000 women "off the street" at random, and put them all through a test being ticklers, i think you'd find that by far more men were good ticklers in that group than women.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Just so you know I agree with what you said Tickleshotel. I am both lee and ler and as a ler, I'd love to be in control of a man and make him laugh hysterically. I'd love to have him in my power even if it's only temporary! LOL.

 

[Redmage]

hell, i've had to witness more than a few female ticklers at our shoots (ticklers that i had to remove as tickler and do it myself) because it was SO BADLY DONE. NO CLUE of how to tickle.

Out of curiosity, TIB, how often have you had male 'lers other than yourself at your shoots? I'm just curious, since I don't often see other men in your videos.

 

[LindyHopper]

from my experiences over the years i am 100% certain that, as a whole, guys are generally "naturally" better ticklers than women.

hell, i've had to witness more than a few female ticklers at our shoots (ticklers that i had to remove as tickler and do it myself) because it was SO BADLY DONE. NO CLUE of how to tickle.

i think us guys sometimes get confused and think just because a woman is gorgeous then she is a good tickler. but that's not true. being beautiful doesn't make you a good tickler.

i think if you rounded up 1000 men and 1000 women "off the street" at random, and put them all through a test being ticklers, i think you'd find that by far more men were good ticklers in that group than women.

Dude - don't confuse what happens at video shoots with what goes on in real life. I'm sure that often, when producers are looking for female 'lers for a video, many have a habit of looking for the gorgeous ones, and just assuming they'll know how to tickle. In contrast, if a producer is using a male 'ler, I'm certain he'd be selected for his skill, not because he's hot (believe me, I've seen enough videos to be sure that's not a criterion!). 😀

Anyway, the real-life experiences of many of the women on this thread seem to suggest that if we found a truly random sample of men and women off the street, we'd have more good female ticklers.

 

[tickler_n_black]

Anyway, the real-life experiences of many of the women on this thread seem to suggest that if we found a truly random sample of men and women off the street, we'd have more good female ticklers.

Nope. I disagree.
There would be more good male ticklers.

But it's nice that we can each have our own opinions.

 

[Redmage]

Nope. I disagree.
There would be more good male ticklers.

But it's nice that we can each have our own opinions.

Here's to diversity!

The polling seems to be running pretty consistently in favor of female 'lers, among those who are frequently on the business end of the feather. Why do you feel (or seem to feel, I could be wrong) that your experience as a video producer trumps the experiences of a number of 'lees that have posted here?

I'm still wondering if the fact that you've seen more bad female 'lers than male 'lers comes from seeing more women, period.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Let's agree to disagree..CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG. 🙂

 

[tickler_n_black]

Here's to diversity!

Why do you feel (or seem to feel, I could be wrong) that your experience as a video producer trumps the experiences of a number of 'lees that have posted here?

1) I don't feel my experience "trumps" anyone. I merely gave my sincerely honest opinion.

2) You're wrongly assuming that the only tickling I'm around is for video shoots. That's incorrect. I've engaged in MUCH non video tickling fun in my private life. I've seen plenty of guy ticklers, I've seen plenty of women ticklers.

You know what I've seen? I've seen women who flat out say "this is weird I don't want to tickle anyone."

Yet I've NEVER seen one guy that didn't think it was great fun to tickle a helpless person.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Well if guys ARE better ticklers than women, this increases my chances by ten-fold ...thanks TIB..kudos to you

 

[Redmage]

1) I don't feel my experience "trumps" anyone. I merely gave my sincerely honest opinion.

OK. What you appeared to be doing was dismissing the experiences of the many tickle-bottoms who've posted here, and substituting your own in their place. But I could be wrong.

2) You're wrongly assuming that the only tickling I'm around is for video shoots. That's incorrect.

No, I didn't assume that. But you were basing your assertions on your experiences in shoots, so I worked with what you gave us.

You know what I've seen? I've seen women who flat out say "this is weird I don't want to tickle anyone."

Yet I've NEVER seen one guy that didn't think it was great fun to tickle a helpless person.

Oh, I have. Especially when it became clear to them that this was a sexual thing for the person being tickled. Ask some of the women you know - I'm pretty sure that you'll hear from at least some of them about the boyfriend who got very uncomfortable when he realized just why she wanted him to tickle her.

 

[lk70]

Yet I've NEVER seen one guy that didn't think it was great fun to tickle a helpless person.

Really? Let me introduce you to my EX husband....

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Really? Let me introduce you to my EX husband....

No thanks..I freak out when I meet "THOSE" kind of people...shhh you know the non-ticklephiles. shhhh They're like a cult or something.

 

[leafstk]

This is a silly argument... we all enjoy tickling right? I think if one has a preference as a ler, whether male or female, then both parties learn to hone their skills accordingly, lol. Let's just have fun! 😀

 

[LindyHopper]

Yet I've NEVER seen one guy that didn't think it was great fun to tickle a helpless person.

Well, let's not forget that enjoying something and being good at it are two different things. I think most guys like sex, but I can't say they all have a talent for it. 😉

 

[Redmage]

*sizzle*

Mean, mean, mean. 😎

Well, let's not forget that enjoying something and being good at it are two different things. I think most guys like sex, but I can't say they all have a talent for it. 😉

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I like sex!! I enjoy it everytime.

What do you mean she has to enjoy it too??

Well, let's not forget that enjoying something and being good at it are two different things. I think most guys like sex, but I can't say they all have a talent for it. 😉

 

[Illtcklu]

Really? Let me introduce you to my EX husband....

His loss is our GAIN!

 

[lk70]

His loss is our GAIN!

Thank you. 🙂 That was a nice thing to say. And came at a good time, too. 🙂

 

[drew70]

It's true that there are women out there that have no desire to tickle, or no skill. But I believe these women to be in the vast minority. I think women are better ticklers than men on many levels. I think they are more patient, more devious, more affectionate, and have much better hands. They are better at verbal teasing, and many of them have fingernails.

Yes, this post is just sweeping with generalizations, but it's my opinion nonetheless.

 

[The_Raptor]

I totally agree with u Drew.
after all that discussion i think it's right to say that women r better lers than men.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

I didn't mean to start an argument over this. All I was just saying is that since I joined TMF last April, I have noticed that the majority (not everyone) of people say here that women in general are better lers than men. Of course everyone has their own opinion and is entitled to it.

 

[aun_existe_amor]

Women are just better than men at everything

 

[maniactickler]

Women are just better than men at everything

Ha! keep dreaming! 😛