Why do guys pay for sex?

[Limeoutsider]

*Sigh* Really Tron is that the best you can do? Areenactor you crazy guy you keep poppin those pills. 😉

You keep finding those "shamrocks" and catching the "leprechauns"

 

[Moses25]

To pee or not to pee...

Q: Why do guys pay for sex?

A: Why not?

Cheers.😀

 

[cleopatra2003]

to pee or not too pee! LOL Moses you are a nut! LOL 🙂

I guess it would fall under what ever turns you on, is your thing.
😉 Or how kinky you want it!

 

[ShiningIce]

How can you have sex with somebody you dont love?

 

[Limeoutsider]

How can you have sex with somebody you dont love?

I dont know, I think most people who pay for sex are in a league of their own

 

[njjen3953]

How can you have sex with somebody you dont love?

For some of us, D-Cell batteries are just too darned expensive to buy everyday. 😉

 

[BigJim]

BJ: Ok, I'm gonna be The Hulk and you pretend to be George Bush...

Hooker: *sigh* why are the British always into freaky stuff...tosser.😛

LOL

Cheers.😀

George Bush getting fucked by the Hulk?😀😀:😀Now there's something I'd pay to watch!!! 😀😀😀

 

[BigJim]

Jim,
I do not think you are too ugly or obnoxious at all. As for you being 24, I am currently collecting boy toys. *WEG*

It's coming missy, one day...........oh one day!!!

 

[BigJim]

Aside from any moral/emotional issues that this can bring up, I think it's very risky. Women on the street selling themselves (whether for their own pleasure or in order to survive) can easily pick up and pass on STDs. Condoms are NOT 100% reliable as protection.
Ann

I have to say that I'm in favour of legalisation and regulation of prostitution. I have to agree with Hal on this one.

Some people may feel it's against their morals, but it's not as if they have to actually do it themselves. It provides a service that would do a deal of good and if it's legal or not, it IS going to exist. That's why I think it should be regulated. That way the pimps you mentioned above would lose their power and the girls who get treated so badly would end up being a lot safer; both physically and STD-wise.

 

[BigJim]

Re: Re: Re: I've Never Paid...

Why whose the pup having sex with? Miss Michigan? (Everyone look at your right palm)


Tron

Doesn't affect me, I have to use both hands.

 

[Scooby112211]

I think to really understand the essence of why men pay for sex...you need to understand why women charge for sex 😛

 

[Limeoutsider]

I think to really understand the essence of why men pay for sex...you need to understand why women charge for sex 😛

because we can (well, those of us who choose to, anyway)

 

[His Divine Shadow]

because we can

Somehow I think Lime was a Queen in a former life. She certainly has the right attitude for it.

 

[cleopatra2003]

How can you have sex with somebody you dont love?

Wow! I love that statement Ice! Surprised that a man said it but I love it! Sex with someone that you don't have feelings for just cheapens it. To me anyway! Thanks Ice for being honest!🙂

 

[Scooby112211]

because we can (well, those of us who choose to, anyway)

Well then, there's your answer for us too. Ditto. 🙂

 

[Oddjob0226]

Hit the nail on the head, Milagros. (Sadly)

Sadly? Sounds convenient, time saving and efficient to me. And what about ugly obnoxious guys like Hugh Grant?

Why pay for it? Have none of you ever been really really hard-core horny? What is ya, robots?

 

[His Divine Shadow]

*Beep!!* I am R-67. I am programed to do evil. I am never horney. *Beep!!*

 

[Amnesiac]

Simple Answers

Even though this thread has already been replied to so many times that it is virtually a joke, I may as well try to test out some of my conclusions here to see if they work.

Why do men pay for sex?

CULTURE - America was founded by religious fanatics of the worst kind: Christians. Because of that, their concepts of morality and immorality, ESPECIALLY pertaining to sex, have always been with us. Overseas its a different story, but in the US, women are still perceived in many ways as the sinful gender because they incite sexual appeal (more often than men at least) even if they don't intend to. Also, since Christianity is a patriarchal religion, the usual bullshit about men becoming "MEN" by means of physical dares and sexual conquest still exists...which makes life a lot harder for women who are conditioned on an almost subconscious level to abstain from sex to remain "pure". So because women are conditioned to refrain from sexual escapades, it makes it harder for men to get sessions with them unless they go through the whole "dating ritual" and begin the pretense of a relationship, which is the only way our society allows people to have sex.

VARIETY - Women are almost always looking for a lifemate. I don;t know if this is the way they feel or if it's how they have been TAUGHT to feel, but whatever it is, women just refuse to have sex (many times) unless it is a monogomous relationship. Not good for men who want to taste different kinds of women. That is probably why porn is such a profitable business: it allows men to mentally have sex with hundreds of different women...which a g/f or wife would NEVER approve of.

OPPORTUNITY - Chris Rock said it best:

"It's EASY for women to turn down sex! A woman gets offered dick at least THREE TIMES EVERYDAY! Any time a guy is nice to you or says something nice, he's always saying 'how 'bout some dick?' in between the lines."

Any woman in America will tell you this is true. But here's the most accurate part:

"MEN DON'T GET OFFERED SHIT!"

I've been running an experiment of mine since I heard this sketch on HBO. Ever since then, I have never tried to seriously get with a girl. I've been nice, yes, occasionally flirty, but NEVER have I ever seriously tried to hook up with a woman. And you know what? Not a single woman I know has ever offered sex. Chris Rock was right. If men never tried to get laid, they never would.


The truth is, women like sex as much as guys do. The problem is the motives are always different: guys want sex for fun, women want sex in context. Now, there are women out there who do want sex for fun...the problem is that in AMERICAN culture, these women are usually unsanitary or unbalanced: it seems the cultural authorities make sure that sane, intelligent women are turned off of casual sex, so the only other option is the freak show.

The worst part about women who are into casual sex is that they meet the MEN who are into casual sex. And I honestly believe that any guy who dislikes a promiscuous woman is never really mad at the woman, he's mad at the other guys she has slept with. Because there is one thing that men know more than anyone and that is just how purely, absolutely fucking NASTY other men can be, especially the ones with sex on the brain 24/7. Women with venereal diseases often don't know they have them, so I can;t say that they are to blame entirely.

So men pay for sex because it can get them a simple thing that is in demand without signing a long-term contract for it. This doesn't make it a good thing, but it is simple enough.

And as for all the safety bullshit about STDs and why casual sex is bad, I might point out that the sex isn't what kills us...its the disease that it transmits. The disease is our enemy...not the act.

 

[Iggy pop]

I don't care what incriminating photos you have. It wasn't me. Oops, sorry wrong topic.

 

[BigJim]

That bit about Chris Rock had me on the floor!!!

 

[Deleted member 2452]

"i have a friend"

who went to a "call girl". the reason he did it?
simple, his wife cheated on him, this was proven by the venerial disease she gave him! she admited (finaly) that she cheated, and went for further testing (regular v.d. is bad enough, but aids is a killer) during this period of no touching, "he" needed to feel affection, even if it was rental. so he went to a professional. was it loving romantic loving making? no, but it got the itch scratched.
that's why many, if not most married men use prostitutes, cause their wifes aren't keeping up their end for one reason or another!
steve

 

[njjen3953]

Re: "i have a friend"

no, but it got the itch scratched.
that's why many, if not most married men use prostitutes, cause their wifes aren't keeping up their end for one reason or another!
steve

Just as long as the prostitute doesn't end of giving him another itch to scratch.

Welcome back, steve

 

[Limeoutsider]

Re: Re: Why do guys pay for sex?

QUOTE, Why do girl's Sell it?

I sad somewhere else "Because we can" but Im gonna go out on a limb and say that its because when we work 9-5 doing whatever, we get paid significantly less then men, so we've found a profession that we dominate.

 

[His Divine Shadow]

Re: Re: Re: Why do guys pay for sex?

when we work 9-5 doing whatever, we get paid significantly less then men,

This is probably a BIIIIIIIG part of it, sad though it is.

 

[njjen3953]

Re: Re: Re: Why do guys pay for sex?

I sad somewhere else "Because we can" but Im gonna go out on a limb and say that its because when we work 9-5 doing whatever, we get paid significantly less then men, so we've found a profession that we dominate.

You keep going out on those limbs, girl. Bravo!!!!