Tickleshow....your case wasn't her being a bitch.
It was fraud.
Hopefully that word makes you feel a little bit better about yourself in that whole mess....because that's exactly what it was.
Fraud, plain and simple.
It'd the the same as the next day after marriage, a husband who supposedly loved his future in-laws tells his wife he has no intention of ever seeing those bastards again, or the husband in nursing school saying he dropped out yesterday to fulfill his life dream of living on welfare for the rest of his days, or the wife who tells her nylon loving husband she'll never wear pantyhose again, ever, now that they're married.
You got married based on a lie, and it wasn't a huge lie, ... actually, relationship wise, it WAS a huge lie. It'd be like a husband informing his wife he never plans on dressing better than a wife beater t-shirt and boxer shorts after wooing her in button down, tucked in shirts, fancy jackets, and matching dress socks with shined shoes.
This is WAYYY different from two people simply growing apart, or getting apathetic.
Apathy can be cured, sometimes very easily. A wife can walk into the bedroom after months of boring sex, in a sexy cowgirl costume, and cure the sexual apathy in half a second, if her husband finds that fantasy sexy. Life, work, money problems can drive a couple apart, but if the wife gives her husband a big hug, tells him they'll make it through it all, then goes into the bathroom and comes out in a see though nighty, sexy stockings, and a big feather, and asks her husband to tickle her all night....again, apathy solved in a span of about 12 minutes!
This kind of things happens everyday in America and the world.
Your wife PURPOSELY lying and then telling you you're a freak.....No one's fixing that marriage.
It's ashamed you hadn't been more cynical back then, tickleshow. You should have immediately filed for divorce after that talk, and not even consumated the marriage. Divorce at that time interval would have been much easier than after years.
But this is in no way scolding, because most people only get that way after....a divorce!
Unless they have guts of steel before their first marriage, but that's damn rare.
And SlaveTickler and others, you may want to read up on divorce laws (again, not being sarcastic, just realizing you may have heard this line of bitterness through others...I had) but the second the ring's on her finger, I don't think you're automaticaly entitled to half of everything! I know the woman or man is entitled to half of everything earned WHILE YOU WERE MARRIED. If you win the lottery, or start a successful business from nothing, THEN dump your wife or husband after you get rich...yeah, the spouse deserves half.
But a woman can't marry a janitor, divorce him in a week, then take half his pay check! He needs to be able to feed and house himself, etc.
So...marriage is NOT that bad.
It was fraud.
Hopefully that word makes you feel a little bit better about yourself in that whole mess....because that's exactly what it was.
Fraud, plain and simple.
It'd the the same as the next day after marriage, a husband who supposedly loved his future in-laws tells his wife he has no intention of ever seeing those bastards again, or the husband in nursing school saying he dropped out yesterday to fulfill his life dream of living on welfare for the rest of his days, or the wife who tells her nylon loving husband she'll never wear pantyhose again, ever, now that they're married.
You got married based on a lie, and it wasn't a huge lie, ... actually, relationship wise, it WAS a huge lie. It'd be like a husband informing his wife he never plans on dressing better than a wife beater t-shirt and boxer shorts after wooing her in button down, tucked in shirts, fancy jackets, and matching dress socks with shined shoes.
This is WAYYY different from two people simply growing apart, or getting apathetic.
Apathy can be cured, sometimes very easily. A wife can walk into the bedroom after months of boring sex, in a sexy cowgirl costume, and cure the sexual apathy in half a second, if her husband finds that fantasy sexy. Life, work, money problems can drive a couple apart, but if the wife gives her husband a big hug, tells him they'll make it through it all, then goes into the bathroom and comes out in a see though nighty, sexy stockings, and a big feather, and asks her husband to tickle her all night....again, apathy solved in a span of about 12 minutes!
This kind of things happens everyday in America and the world.
Your wife PURPOSELY lying and then telling you you're a freak.....No one's fixing that marriage.
It's ashamed you hadn't been more cynical back then, tickleshow. You should have immediately filed for divorce after that talk, and not even consumated the marriage. Divorce at that time interval would have been much easier than after years.
But this is in no way scolding, because most people only get that way after....a divorce!
Unless they have guts of steel before their first marriage, but that's damn rare.
And SlaveTickler and others, you may want to read up on divorce laws (again, not being sarcastic, just realizing you may have heard this line of bitterness through others...I had) but the second the ring's on her finger, I don't think you're automaticaly entitled to half of everything! I know the woman or man is entitled to half of everything earned WHILE YOU WERE MARRIED. If you win the lottery, or start a successful business from nothing, THEN dump your wife or husband after you get rich...yeah, the spouse deserves half.
But a woman can't marry a janitor, divorce him in a week, then take half his pay check! He needs to be able to feed and house himself, etc.
So...marriage is NOT that bad.
