Why don't more people like to tickle guys?

[BlasterMaster]

I'd say Impster that it's a matter of media preference and sexual preference.

 

[chicag0]

When it comes to male ticklees...i actually prefer guys over females, because females are so common and popular, meanwhile the guys are not.
I have also had a terrible experience with girls in school, if there is something that involves doing something with them, they would judge me right off the bat, calling me a sick pervert and so on...it was awful and i have developed traumas because of all this...as stupid as it sounds.

I don't want to dislike girls but because of my past, it's rather difficult.
I know i shouldn't take it too seriously because the girls were teenagers, but
some people never change.

I would urge you to reassess your feelings towards females. Many of us have bad experiences with the opposite sex, especially when both genders are young, influential, and don't have a very developed personality / demeanor. Most people do change past high school and it's a bit unfair to lump us all in the same category.

If you're just plain not attracted to females, I can respect that, but still... we're not all the same.

I can understand your point about female lees being common, when it comes to clips.

 

[BlackDragonScar]

I would urge you to reassess your feelings towards females. Many of us have bad experiences with the opposite sex, especially when both genders are young, influential, and don't have a very developed personality / demeanor. Most people do change past high school and it's a bit unfair to lump us all in the same category.

If you're just plain not attracted to females, I can respect that, but still... we're not all the same.

I can understand your point about female lees being common, when it comes to clips.

yeah a lot of that is very true.

 

[Wade1]

My experiences fall more heavily in the playful/friendly/platonic realm than in the BDSM/sexual/fetishized context, but I can attest that there are plenty of people in the world who have no reservations about tickling guys. And plenty of women who'll seize the opportunity to tickle a romantic partner as well, often relentlessly.

 

[MistressValerie1]

My experiences fall more heavily in the playful/friendly/platonic realm than in the BDSM/sexual/fetishized context, but I can attest that there are plenty of people in the world who have no reservations about tickling guys. And plenty of women who'll seize the opportunity to tickle a romantic partner as well, often relentlessly.

Your observations match up with my experiences in real life as well. The representation of tickling in the porn industry does not generally resemble what I have observed over my 40+ year lifetime.

 

[TKLVR181]

Your observations match up with my experiences in real life as well. The representation of tickling in the porn industry does not generally resemble what I have observed over my 40+ year lifetime.

Yeah I think the difference there is sexual vs not sexual. In a sexual context sure, lots of people like seeing big, strong guys go to pieces but in a playful, non-threatening way I think it's more universal. I think most people would enjoy seeing a composed, strong guy lose their composure and giggle like an idiot in day to day life. Something about the switch of power there, even in a non-sexual setting, is something that more people enjoy--hardcore dom/sub is more niche.

~K

 

[arachnid95]

Your observations match up with my experiences in real life as well. The representation of tickling in the porn industry does not generally resemble what I have observed over my 40+ year lifetime.

Come to think of it, the representation of everything in the porn industry doesn't resemble actual life experiences, either! XD
Unless every guy my age has a foot-long wangdoodle and regularly engages in group intercourse with hot maids and busty schoolgirl-outfit-wearing barely-legals, and I've just been missing out...

 

[BlackDragonScar]

See I'm not a foot fetish guy. I'm an upperbody guy, whose more into boobs and bellies then anything else. Maybe that could be another reason but I feel feet are so overrated a woman would welcome the fact of someone being into another body part other then feet as well. Porn and videos play a big part in I guess how some men view women. I see post a lot of guys judging the women they have cuz there feet aren't perfect, or they aren't ticklish and they wanna force them to enjoy it. It kinda sucks ya know.

 

[Dr. Bill Kobb]

I like seeing genuinely ticklish people put into into difficult, inescapable situations and then teased `til they're going ballistic, and then tickled some more.

It's strictly females for me, though. Males are gross and have cooties. You know how guys will just fart and belch and then laugh about it? Okay, now imagine what's going to occur when you try to tickle us. :no:

 

[BlackDragonScar]

I like seeing genuinely ticklish people put into into difficult, inescapable situations and then teased `til they're going ballistic, and then tickled some more.

It's strictly females for me, though. Males are gross and have cooties. You know how guys will just fart and belch and then laugh about it? Okay, now imagine what's going to occur when you try to tickle us. :no:

ummmm aren't you a dude? and not all guys do that ya know. Now your generalizing us as if that's all we do and not all men are the same.

 

[chicag0]

I think he was joking.

 

[Dr. Bill Kobb]

Pull my finger and see!

I kid. I can never get too serious talking tickling. Carry on...

 

[chicag0]

Pull my finger and see!

I kid. I can never get too serious talking tickling. Carry on...

lmfao, i hear ya.

 

[Wade1]

I think most people would enjoy seeing a composed, strong guy lose their composure and giggle like an idiot in day to day life.

Well, that explains some of the things that have been inflicted upon me.

Except for the part where I'm not that strong.

 

[Wade1]

Your observations match up with my experiences in real life as well.

The part where some people have no qualms about tickling other people? I have a guess about which side of the equation you're usually on.

The representation of tickling in the porn industry does not generally resemble what I have observed over my 40+ year lifetime.

I WAS PROMISED REALISM!!!

 

[TKLVR181]

Well, that explains some of the things that have been inflicted upon me.

Except for the part where I'm not that strong.

It also counts if you go giggly-panicky-desperate in about half the normal time. People love that too. I know I do! 😉

~K

 

[Wade1]

It also counts if you go giggly-panicky-desperate in about half the normal time. People love that too. I know I do! 😉

~K

YES, you are so right. Giggly-panicky-desperate is the perfect way to describe it, and you're right, it's all about the speed with which you tumble into that hopeless state.

My reactions are over-the-top right away, just can't help it, and the delight in the eyes of the person who just made you convulse like that is always palpable. When you see the eyes light up like that, you know you're in for it.

Karen's so smart.

 

[Beckers1]

I'd probably echo most everything said here, cause theres are quite a few good points. But I'd also go on to say that just in sheer volume men outnumber women as far as members go for both forums. So you have a small list of women compared to men, then you have those few pure ler women who are from my experience are the minority. Most female members are lees or switches, just go down any list of female members and I am positive the numbers will reflect just that. So you have a modicum of female lers for however many male lee members, perhaps a few will come on too strongly and deter them away. It's not a reflection on the gender at all, just those people, but it's unfortunate.

Speaking for myself, I am a switch with a huge preference for being submissive and actually prefer males over females in almost every regard. But I like certain builds in men, I don't like submissive men at all. I am not one for watching tickle videos in general, but watching or participating in tickling a guy if he meets my specifications is great by me.

 

[Volsung1]

Speaking for myself, I am a switch with a huge preference for being submissive and actually prefer males over females in almost every regard. But I like certain builds in men, I don't like submissive men at all. I am not one for watching tickle videos in general, but watching or participating in tickling a guy if he meets my specifications is great by me.

So I'm guessing that if the guy is all strong and macho, that's the kind of guy you like to "break".

 

[Beckers1]

Sort of but not really, being like muscle bound isn't a requirement but I do enjoy someone who is fit. And I typically don't go for lee guys as I do like dominance in a man, so male switches are typically what I am after.

 

[Volsung1]

...so male switches are typically what I am after.

Lucky me!😉rolleyes

 

[11225]

Maybe it's just me, but I've always noticed that when it comes to tickling, there are far fewer people who like to see guys tickled than girls. That always kind of struck me as odd. At first, I wondered if maybe it was a homophobia thing--that if a guy liked seeing other guys tickled, people would consider that gay (which couldn't be further from the truth). But even if that were the case, there are plenty of girls in the tickling fetish community, and even they always seem to like seeing girls tickled more than guys. I know that it's really not true, and that there are plenty of people out there who love /M tickling, but the vast majority still seem to prefer /F tickling. Why is that, do you think? Is there some intrinsic quality of ticklability that only girls have? Do people just find the laughter of guys to be less sexy than that of women? What is it that makes us guys less of an ideal tickle-target than our female counterparts?

That's the question that makes it pretty mysterious. I'll admit that at first I didn't find it very interesting to see men being tickled by either the same gender or the exact opposite...but I soon develope to have fun making a male laugh by tickling in a playful way. Nothing sexual about it, mind you, but I guess I just learn to try and be more openminded on who I tickle.

Now if it's about me being tickled by men, I'll admit that I much prefer to tickle, but I got nothing again being put in M/M situation. I'm at least neutral to it.

 

[Volsung1]

There is so much psychology involved, isn't there. That's one of the perks in tickle story writing... So many sides and angles!

 

[BlasterMaster]

I don't think that just because your attracted to one specific gender that you qualify as homophobic. Rather, I think it's all a matter of sexual preference as well as gender identification. Now as far as a lack of male on male tickling in the main stream media / porn industry, I think that has a great deal to do with society and the way it's continuing to evolve. Yes there was a certain level of homophobia in that regard (mostly due to the fact that Catholicism still had great deal of weight and pull in the politics of many modern nations and that's just Catholicism).

There was probably a mindset back then that if it wasn't men on women then it wouldn't sell very well (hell, it took women on women porn awhile to get going from what I've heard). Fortunately the trend of "only straight porn and nothing else" seems to be turning a corner (especially with the internet becoming as strong as it is now). It makes me glad as I have friends who are gay, lesbian, bi, and trans and I'm super happy that the USA (at least) is becoming more accepting of people of different gender identifications / preferences (especially all the fucking crap my sister had to put up with in school while growing up).

 

[Dovalys]

Dalekfire welcome any and all to come and tickle him. :cool

Bahaha - I'll gladly tickle the life out of you whether I'm welcome or not! :cool

I agree with most of what's said here, but I'd also like to throw in my two cents that there are likely more female lers around than people realise, but I find that when I am around - I'm swamped by people and requests. It can be quite daunting to some, so you might find that a fair few ladies simply don't chat much, instead of fending people off with sticks.