Mostly, I wasn't sure if you had added those two to your ignore list. I thought you deserved to know they apologized, and that they deserved for you to hear it.
I don't understand the trying to control comment, but I'm not. I don't think I am, anyway, or at the very least if that is what's happening its not intentional.
Ahhh ok I understand now. Well thank you then. But, once someone is on ignore it still gives the option if I want to view an ignored users comment. In this case I DID see what they wrote. I was going to take a day to think about what they wrote further. But... then you posted what you did and I felt like you were taking that choice away from me. But I understand what you were doing now. I still choose to not respond to them or take them off my list. I just don't want to play with them or view their comments. This issue does cross a line for me. It's a hard limit. So... they are in ignore city. This is for my comfort level.
I think I understand the original thought process a bit better and I would suggest contacting Myriads about it. I'm curious about his thoughts on the matter, so I might do it later. I also don't know if the topic of "why is this acceptable here" has been brought up in the past. The discussions that have happened have mostly been like this, with some arguing no harm and others saying it crosses their moral lines and that they don't tolerate it. I don't think these two are mutually exclusive thought processes.
Well this isn't exactly an emergency. This isn't like running into a pedophile and having to report the user. THAT I have reported ASAP. This? What is ultimately to be done? Idk. Which is why I asked "Why is this tolerated?" As opposed to "What can be done about this?" I myself don't anything can be but... Idk.
I would add that proper trigger management should probably be included in such discussions. I think most of the time it is fairly evident when a thread is meant to discuss the matter, but occasionally it comes up in the middle of a discussion. Though, that's more on the person writing the reply more than anything. Still, I think it's worth bringing up: there's been more of a movement in the writing section to more adequately mark out what sort of things are going on in a story, like if its non-con/sexual/whatever for a similar reason. I don't think anyone here wants to cause unintended distress for another individual, and so I could see it become vogue that if discussions about animals in relation to tickling were to occur, there was some pre-emptive warning about it.
I completely agree. Thread titles usually tell me what the content will include but... stories -YES!
I was sent a story last year that had I known the content I NEVER in a million years would have read. Including insects and pee play and my fucking god it was VILE. And I was ANGRY at being given such a story. I was so sick too that night from reading it. But... it was never discussed beforehand. He didn't know this would freak me out. So... yeah some content warning would really be appreciated. I certainly do it when it comes to my own content. At least I try to in regards to what might upset someone. Discussions, well... Idk. It doesn't seem most people enjoy shocking for the sake of shocking in these parts of the forum But I have not read every thread. So my opinion there falls short of a fuller knowledge here.
I am really sorry that I -- and others -- have upset you in this discussion, though.
Well thank you I appreciate that. It's not necessary from you. Or anyone really. Do I wish some users been more responsible with how they approached this- yes. More thoughtful to my needs? Sure. But I never thought for one second there wasn't going to be a little bit of drama with this topic. And I still bit the bullet anyway on my lil quest to be more in the know.
At the end of the day... for people who seriously want to know me, and play with me. I NEED them to know these things about me. That's it. And I need to be in the know of others limits and who I will and won't play with. And I certainly don't want to be sent any kind of THIS content.
Safe, sane, and consensual. That's me. For the forum- and original question lol Idk. At this point I just can't wait to get away from this topic.