Why me Why do i like Tickling this much?

[ReDsTaR]

well as you members know i just joined this website. i found it through Googles search engine aww the many joys of google. well anyways now tickling is not a new thing for me its not like i just discovered it because i haven't i've all ways knew it was out there. But i just recentley a few months ago i find tickling websites etc.. dealing with tickling in some way or the other through the world wide web. But im an 19 year old male that does still live with my wonderful parents with two way older brothers so its just me living in the House with my parents in a pretty small town. And well i hardly ever get tickled maybe its my age i don't know but im not that ticklish to began with a little bit but not like extremely and i also don't that often tickle anybody in real life (meaning Girls because im a bit of a shy person ingeneral) but what i dont get for the life of me understand is even though between thoses two Things i just mentioned about not being tickled much and not tickling others much is how an 19 year old can still enjoy tickling and like tickling like i do when it hasn't really for one even been a part of my life that much at all. That it has for most of you Guys and Gals here that our members of this wonderful site. Explain to me how though? or try too do your best because i for one can't get it im at a lose. But if i would't have liked tickling then i feel that i wouldn't have even joined this website like i have just now. Well thank you everybody for taking your time out to really read my post through . again i thank you and May God Bless you all in your Lifes

 

[Myst]

Well, although this is an old post...and pardon my saying....but I needed a bit of time to decipher that message.

Still, God works in mysterious way, he has a purpose for all of us...

I mean, its the same reason some people are born gay, fetishes are something most people are born with an either know from the beginning, or unravel over time.

I really have yet to ever meet a person able to conquer his/her fetish...it's just something you were MEANT to have.

So, even though you may not be tickled often, or tickle others often...its still a part of you, eating at your insides...begging to come out...

I know it does for me...more times than not...especially on the beach or other public places where there are a nice pair of barefeet next to you...or an exposed belly...

It's almost a reaction, you can't really do much about it...

Now, if you'll excuse me...I MUST GO EAT MORE SUGAR MWE HE HE HE *runs off*

 

[Goosebumps]

I know exactly what you mean ReDsTaR.

When I was little, I didn't understand why I was so fascinated with tickling. I didn't have a particular incident or experience triggering this love ...(that I know of anyway)
Many times I found myself thinking of a ways that I could set myself up to be tickled. Many times my efforts were rewarded. Results varying between quick pokes in the ribs to being gang tickled and tortured to the point where I literally thought I was being tickled......to death.
Anyway, when I wasn't trying to get tickled, I would seek out ticklees. My victims were usually friends at school or in my neighborhood or kids that I babysat.
Today, I am a woman in my mid-thirties still enjoying anything and everything that has to do with tickling.

 

[shygirl]

It is hard to explain WHY we are like we are, i feel it just may be a genetic characteristic of our personalities. You are still very young and need more time for "exploration" You will figure it all out someday.

 

[tklr5150]

Call it a blessing....those of us with this particular inclination can get a unique thrill out of something that is relatively commonplace in daily social life, something that can be performed with friends who might not offer any chance for any further sexual connection, have a bonus when it comes to acting out the fun stuff...

Call it a curse.....when you're not gettin' any, you're not gettin' any of MORE STUFF than normal people, that is, you can have sexual and tickling droughts, which can be doubly hard to take

 

[cincinnatusc]

it makes no sense to me, i guess i was born liking it, which goes against what i've thought about learned behavior for a long time. i used to not believe that people were 'born gay,' and that homosexuality was wrong, but i don't see how i could have developed this fetish. and, please please please don't let this turn into a religious discussion, but it seems to me that if i was born liking tickling, and even though there have been times when i've tried to not have this fetish and can't not like tickling, that it must not be wrong to like tickling. maybe people are just certain ways, and we should all just live with and accept each other. before this gets any cornier, i'm going to stop. i just want to mention that out of all the pleasure i've received from this fetish, this realization outshines it all.

cincinnatus

 

[crydun]

Re: I know exactly what you mean ReDsTaR.

When I was little, I didn't understand why I was so fascinated with tickling. I didn't have a particular incident or experience triggering this love ...(that I know of anyway)
Many times I found myself thinking of a ways that I could set myself up to be tickled. Many times my efforts were rewarded. Results varying between quick pokes in the ribs to being gang tickled and tortured to the point where I literally thought I was being tickled......to death.
Anyway, when I wasn't trying to get tickled, I would seek out ticklees. My victims were usually friends at school or in my neighborhood or kids that I babysat.
Today, I am a woman in my mid-thirties still enjoying anything and everything that has to do with tickling.

we could be sisters, Goosebumps. I went through the same thing. Now, I'm in my late 20's and enjoy every tickling opportunity I get.

 

[Dr. Bill Kobb]

Goosebumps? Crydun?

Um, I could sure use a sitter right about now!

 

[natural tickler]

I know what you mean. I have love tickling for the longest time. I dunno, it just happens. Something or someone sparked an interest, and it went from there. To me, it is something you can't explain, you just do it. Also, if you see it frequently, you get a love for it. Like my family, for example, we tickled each other to death, cuz that's the way we bonded. I have a lot of sisters and brothers, and when we hung out, that's all we did. Why? i dunno, but that's how it started. However, whenever you get over your shyness and tickle your first subject, the rush and thrill that will overcome you will be special, and you'll never forget it. ever. Have fun!!😉

 

[MrTicklefeet]

Wow, same here. As a kid I loved it, bu was also terrified about it as well. As I grew older, i was initially more open about it, but then got a lot of shit for it at school, and started repressing it.
I was agonizing for years about this very same question, and with no support groups either to talk of such matters. (This was before there was a world wide web.)
In the last handful of years, just accepting it that that was something hardwired into me seems to help with the stress level about it, and I no longer worry over the issue.
A woman friend some 15 years ago said it was like a gift, (Tho she hated it herself,) and her attitude helped a out. Now I'm a bit more casual about it, tho I still stay selective on who I tell. If the topic comes up, I just perk up and take notes, and watch reactions. If it gets negative, I just stay quiet, and keep my thoughts to myself.
Communities like this help keep my sanity, that there are loads of us out there. Maybe not in Seattle, but it helps to know I am not alone on this. I have made a few pen pals over the years, and that's always good to trade stories, adventures and feelings with.
As of to the 'why' question, I gave up on that. There was a quote from the Dahli Lama were someone asked what was the meaning of life. His reply was that was all to complicated. But being happy with what you have makes everything a lot easier.
Why I'm into tickling so much, I dunno, but it does make me happy.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

I've had a fascination with it my entire life...
Back when I was ten, I had a neighbor downstairs, a couple of years younger. I used to go down there and visit him, and just tickle the butterball turkey stuffing out of him...I guess because he was a very annoying human being who deserved it. I used to get his sister too (why did I just think of Margaret Hamilton in 'The Wizard Of Oz'- "I'll get you my pretty, etc") for good measure. And my other friends. And their friends. I wasn't alone: it was a primo way of getting a ball back from someone who didn't want to return it, or to relieve someone of candy you knew she or he had and didn't want to share.
Later on, I'd find myself inviting girls from school over to the house, and naturally, it would come into play somehow. Funny how the girls who weren't ticklish were never asked to return. I was a bastard, wasn't I?
😀
I will never forget the very first time I ever tickled the future Mrs. Knox. Moments like that you remember forever...LOL!

 

[sugarmouse]

ive stopped worrying why and started thinking that tickling is harmlessand makes me happy....which can only be a good thing!!!😛
i know ive been into it since iwas likkle tho ..and surpressed it somewhat until i realised that there were others with the same interest.

 

[the_Baron]

i can remember

intentionally getting together with Lisa, from around the corner, back in the ole brooklyn days. at least once a week, from 3rd grade thru junior high school, we would sneak down to the basement in her house, and she would encourage me to tickle her. i can recall playing pirate and captive island wench (we didn't call it that back then, but thats what it amounted to); and even the times she would rub her feet on my back to get my attention for me to start tickling again.

looking back, it sure indicates an interest at an early age. and yet, it wasn't all clear to me then what was occuring. i tell ya, i wish she were here right now. this pirate ship is docking.