I have a new girlfriend who lets me tickle her for very short periods of time. She's very ticklish and it's great. I really wish she would let me give her a proper tickle-torture session. But I suppose it wouldn't be fair to pressure her into doing that if it's not her thing. Has anyone ever managed to "convert" someone?
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wish I could tickle torture my new girlfriend
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StevePerry4Ever
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Well, i won't say i converted my girlfriend, but when we first went out i'd tickle her every chance i got, but i really pissed her off. She is insanely ticklish but absolutly hates being tickled. Her mom and sisters used to tickle torture her when she was young and i guess she just hates it now, but after going out for a while i finally mustered up enough courage to let her know of my foot and tickling fetishes. Now she always lets me pull of her socks and shoes, though at home she's usually barefoot now and when it's not winter she usually wears flip-flops outside, which never did until i told her my fetish. She'll wiggle her toes at me, show me her new polish and give my pants a good rub every once in a while. I'm not going lie, the give excellent foot jobs for not even knowing what a foor fetish was a year ago. She still hates being tickled but is more leneant(sp?) when i give her the quick pokes, and every once in a while i tell her, "i really need to tickle you" and she let me give her a good tickling for a few minutes. She even let me restrain her feet. She is amazing actually. I love her!!!
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Give it some time. dont rush it. but if that fails, then i suggest chloroform and restraints. 
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Two points:
Go slowly, don't pressure her.
Every time that you do tickle her, even for a short time, do something that she really likes immediately afterwards.
Go slowly, don't pressure her.
Every time that you do tickle her, even for a short time, do something that she really likes immediately afterwards.
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I understand that you want to tickle torture her Steve but it's not likely to happen. She was obviously tickled tortured too much and tickled for too long as a kid so that's why she hates it now. What probably happened was she begged for someone to stop tickling her and they didn't listen to her right away. As for you Rupert, you say you can tickle her for short moments and at least she likes that. A lot of guys on here have complained about not being able to tickle their girlfriends enough, they don't like it, etc... I mean if you love the girl enough, the way she feels is the way she feels and you just have to deal with it. Rupert, if you can somehow slowly convert her to her being tickle tortured then fine but if you can't, you can't. I know this may sound a little harsh but those are my feelings on this topic.
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Thank for the advise Jen, but you're kinda preaching to the quior, i wasn't complaining, in fact, i think i'm even happier having a girl who hates being tickled yet still let's me do it from time to time.
The girl I dated before I met my wife was what I would call converted and the key was at first not to overdue and after building the relationship, explain what it is about tickling her that you like.
After going through a drought of ticklish girlfriends, I met "Kim" who had a striking resemblence to Rachel Welch. This girl was hot and most of all, extremeley ticklish.
She was a grade behind me in high school and we talked occasionally and one nite I saw her at a bar and she told me about how she just broke up with her boyfriend and one thing led to another and we ended up at my house.
Kim was very tipsy and asked me to take off her strappy high heels and in doing so I found she had very ticklish feet and spent the night tickling her all over,
Seeing how she never objected, I tickled her on other dates but she told me she hated it so I backed off. She thought I tickled her to be mean and I felt this was not the time to tell her that it turned me on.
Months into the relationship when we were snowed in at her parents house, I got the nerve to tell her I wanted to tie her up and tickle her feet because it turned me on and after going into detail about she told me I could.
You see, Kim was basically a nympho and loved sex and when she found that I liked tickling her to get sexually aroused and not to be mean, she was all for it.
After a little coaching she became a tickler's dream. Not only did she let me tickle her anytime I wanted she would actually promote it and would role play. She also never had a problem with being tied down and she also let me roll her up in a blanket so that I could tickle her feet. Anything went as long as it led up to sex.
At the bar when we would slow dance, she would whisper in my ear that she wanted me to take her home and tie her to the bed and tickle her feet until she passed out just to give me an erection on the dance floor.
She would also role play in different ways in that she would be submissive and beg to be tickled to death or she would be a defiant bitch who after tickling her would then beg not to be tickled. She also did a Russian spy interrogation thing where she would dress uo all in black and I would tickle her to get information, she would even try to talk in a Russian accent which she would loose after several minutes of being tickled.
The problem was with that is that I would get so turned on, the ticklings only lasted about fifteen minutes and I couldn't hold back having sex.
Anyway, my point is to be patient, work on the trust and explain that you can't really explain the tickling thing but that you love to do it and not because you want to be mean but because you love it and that she drives you wild.
After going through a drought of ticklish girlfriends, I met "Kim" who had a striking resemblence to Rachel Welch. This girl was hot and most of all, extremeley ticklish.
She was a grade behind me in high school and we talked occasionally and one nite I saw her at a bar and she told me about how she just broke up with her boyfriend and one thing led to another and we ended up at my house.
Kim was very tipsy and asked me to take off her strappy high heels and in doing so I found she had very ticklish feet and spent the night tickling her all over,
Seeing how she never objected, I tickled her on other dates but she told me she hated it so I backed off. She thought I tickled her to be mean and I felt this was not the time to tell her that it turned me on.
Months into the relationship when we were snowed in at her parents house, I got the nerve to tell her I wanted to tie her up and tickle her feet because it turned me on and after going into detail about she told me I could.
You see, Kim was basically a nympho and loved sex and when she found that I liked tickling her to get sexually aroused and not to be mean, she was all for it.
After a little coaching she became a tickler's dream. Not only did she let me tickle her anytime I wanted she would actually promote it and would role play. She also never had a problem with being tied down and she also let me roll her up in a blanket so that I could tickle her feet. Anything went as long as it led up to sex.
At the bar when we would slow dance, she would whisper in my ear that she wanted me to take her home and tie her to the bed and tickle her feet until she passed out just to give me an erection on the dance floor.
She would also role play in different ways in that she would be submissive and beg to be tickled to death or she would be a defiant bitch who after tickling her would then beg not to be tickled. She also did a Russian spy interrogation thing where she would dress uo all in black and I would tickle her to get information, she would even try to talk in a Russian accent which she would loose after several minutes of being tickled.
The problem was with that is that I would get so turned on, the ticklings only lasted about fifteen minutes and I couldn't hold back having sex.
Anyway, my point is to be patient, work on the trust and explain that you can't really explain the tickling thing but that you love to do it and not because you want to be mean but because you love it and that she drives you wild.
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Yea.......problem......yea....
....doesn't Bill Gates have a similar problem makeing ends meet?
I agree with her. I do care about her and I don't want to do things that she doesn't like. Still, even just to tickle her for one minute would be sooo wonderful...
