Wishing that They were more people around.

[7perfect]

I hate the fact that I live in this fucking area where there is not hardly anyone like me. I looked all over fetlife and on here and there is nothing. I makes me mad. The people in this area for the most part would look down on me if they knew I had kinky fetishes and fantasies. That is why I don't put a pic up of myself. I feels lonely around this time of year. I can't move or travel great distances. Everywhere I fucking turn there is a fucking closed door when it comes to dating people or even meeting people like me.

Whats the fucking point

 

[voided9]

I'm so sorry =[ A lot of people here can relate - tt's really tough. I wish I could offer more help or advice, but unfortunately, there's not much we can do here but sympathize.

 

[storm7400]

Life is what you make of it and a defeatist attitude only ends with defeat. Stop making excuses and make something happen. Not trying to be rude, just being blunt.

 

[iloveddub]

I think we all get frustrated. Very frustrated. The odds of finding someone...low, but not impossible. Getting angry will not solve it, but I understand your situation.

 

[7perfect]

to iloveddub is that what storm7400 meant.

 

[iloveddub]

I don't think so. It's okay to be annoyed with the situation. I think sometimes theres nothing you can do but keep looking. I'm in your position...short of relocating, I haven't found anyone. Sometimes...all you have left...is to bitch about it...to yourself. 😉

 

[JoePTickle]

Best wishes 7perfect... hopefully patience will pay off. It took a while for me.

 

[7perfect]

JoePTickle how long did it take

 

[heroforhalos]

Come up to B-more! 😛 it's a bit of a drive, but it'll be worth it.
Message me your fetlife username-- I'll friend you.
Cheers.

 

[tickledorange]

I know there are a few people in my area who come down from Springfield for events. You could always go to Chicago or Peoria on occasion.

 

[JoePTickle]

I know there are a few people in my area who come down from Springfield for events. You could always go to Chicago or Peoria on occasion.

Exactly. I'm in Chicago about once a month for 1-on-1's. Peoria/Springfield... no contacts there yet... though I have looked.

JoePTickle how long did it take

About three years.