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Would you get rid of your fetish?

1. I don't trust pills, especially ones that claim to have a quick-fix cure all like the one the OP spoke of.

2. Like Popeye, I yam what I yam. It's a part of me and like everything else, I deal with it.

3. I actually enjoy the fetish aspect as well as the physical contact aspect of tickling and I don't want to give it up.

4. Define normal. I bet my definition differs from yours, or his, or hers, or anyone else's. Normal is what an individual decides it is and I've long ago decided that my fetish is normal.

5. Vanilla sucks!!!
 
c7_assassin said:
Oh, come on. Everyone in the world has a fetish in some way.

It's perfectly normal to like breasts, legs, asses...the only reason no one calls those 'fetishes' is because they're so common. But liking feet is different?

If you like anything about sex that isn't just about penis-goes-in-vagina, then technically you have a fetish. If you like watching a girl strip for you, you have a stripping fetish. If you like oral sex, that's a fetish (sodomy, by some definitions). If you like to kiss during sex, that's a fetish too.

So would I give up this particular one? Not a chance. Don't be ashamed of what you like! 😀
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I'm always a little concerned when I read posts like this. It sounds like serious denial to me. Not everyone in the world has a fetish.

On a clinical level, it's only a fetish or paraphilia if its absence makes it hard or impossible for sex to be gratifying. Somebody who likes to see girls stripping does not have this.

On a more nebulous level, there are certain kinks and tastes which are atypical enough to commonly be considered deviant, which itself can have social and psychological significance.

So the whole, "pssh, we're actually totally normal" line of thinking sounds false to me, and seems like it would be counter productive in actually becoming comfortable with yourself.
 
LD_Tickler said:
I'm always a little concerned when I read posts like this. It sounds like serious denial to me. Not everyone in the world has a fetish.

On a clinical level, it's only a fetish or paraphilia if its absence makes it hard or impossible for sex to be gratifying. Somebody who likes to see girls stripping does not have this.

On a more nebulous level, there are certain kinks and tastes which are atypical enough to commonly be considered deviant, which itself can have social and psychological significance.

So the whole, "pssh, we're actually totally normal" line of thinking sounds false to me, and seems like it would be counter productive in actually becoming comfortable with yourself.
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No, no, you misunderstand. I know that a tickling fetish is really rare, and it falls outside the "normal" sphere of sexual practices.

But you should be a little wary of trusting clinical definitions of sexual deviancy. Homosexuality was in the DSM until the 1980's. Sodomy is a crime in many places, and sodomy is technically anything outside penis-vagina sex.

So if we throw out clinical definitions of this and that, I don't think it makes you any "crazier" to get turned on by tickling a girl than by sucking her nipples or giving her ass a little slap. That's all I was trying to say.
 
c7_assassin said:
No, no, you misunderstand. I know that a tickling fetish is really rare, and it falls outside the "normal" sphere of sexual practices.

But you should be a little wary of trusting clinical definitions of sexual deviancy. Homosexuality was in the DSM until the 1980's. Sodomy is a crime in many places, and sodomy is technically anything outside penis-vagina sex.

So if we throw out clinical definitions of this and that, I don't think it makes you any "crazier" to get turned on by tickling a girl than by sucking her nipples or giving her ass a little slap. That's all I was trying to say.
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Hm, I guess I did misunderstand you. Though you did say that anything other than genital intercourse was "technically" a fetish.

You have a point about medicine and sex, but so long as they don't brand a fetish as a disease, or as a crime, I see no problem with the definition of what a fetish is.

Nonetheless, I understood your overall point and still disagree with it. Rarity is significant in this case, so I don't think it's right to argue that a tickling fetish is categorically similar to any minor spanking kink. Even if it is just a difference of degree (which I'm not saying it is), the difference is wide enough so that, for all intents and purposes, having one is a completely different experience from having the other. I don't think that should be downplayed.
 
But what makes it so much different from any other sexual foreplay? Besides rarity?

I mean, if we lived in a world where most men enjoyed looking at a woman's feet, and most couples enjoyed tickling each other, but breasts weren't very important for some reason, then we'd be having this discussion about our "breast" fetish, wouldn't we?

Unless there's some biological reason why nipples and breasts are exciting to men but sexy feet aren't, I don't see it.
 
c7_assassin said:
But what makes it so much different from any other sexual foreplay? Besides rarity?

I mean, if we lived in a world where most men enjoyed looking at a woman's feet, and most couples enjoyed tickling each other, but breasts weren't very important for some reason, then we'd be having this discussion about our "breast" fetish, wouldn't we?

Unless there's some biological reason why nipples and breasts are exciting to men but sexy feet aren't, I don't see it.
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There are several explanations for why men "ought" to focus on things like breast size in the world of evolutionary biology, for one thing.

But more to the point, regardless of how we get out fetishes, being a rarity is significant in and of itself. If you don't think there's deviance in how fetishes develop, then consider all the significance of just being atypical, not becoming atypical.
 
I can think of evolutionary biology reasons why men would enjoy a shapely pair of feet, too. Good bone structure means healthier mate, that kind of thing...

But anyway, the real question (I think) is whether we would give up our "weird" desires for more "normal" ones. And even if I bought into those definitions, the answer would still be no.

But that's just because I find it enhances my sex life; if it detracted from it, then I can understand someone wanting to wish it away.
 
Never. Not for anything, ever. Fortunately I can control it, and I don't think about it 24/7, so it doesn't screw up my social life much or at all.
 
Absolutely no way. My fetish is part of what makes me unique. I enjoy straying a bit from the mainstream.
 
For the most part, no. But I'll admit there are times when I wish I didn't have this fetish.
 
It seems like it goes against most of the responses on here, but in reality, I think I would want to give it up. I've thought many times about what if watching a "regular porn" was enough to get me excited. What if just seeing a naked woman was enough? (Don't get me wrong...I still really enjoy seeing naked women and appreciate that as well) In my relationship that just ended, it sometimes caused problems because my girlfriend sometimes felt that she wasn't attractive enough to me because I still wanted tickling to be part of our sex life. She would ask me "why isn't just having me naked enough for you?" and I couldn't really answer her. I can't really say why, but it is. I think a little more vanilla taste would make finding a partner and keeping them happy much easier. Plus, as long as you end up satisfied in the end, would you really miss it that much. All of this, of course, is hypothetical, because this is clearly not going anywhere for me anyway.

Sorry if that was really long, but that's my input.
 
no one's gonna flog ya if you wanna give up your fetish, we just wanna hear your opinions.
 
c7_assassin said:
I can think of evolutionary biology reasons why men would enjoy a shapely pair of feet, too. Good bone structure means healthier mate, that kind of thing...
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It could be like that, but it isn't. That's what makes it a fetish. 😉
 
I have done that many times already. I have a lot of respect for girls I date who don't like being tickled. There are so many things you can do during sex and so many different places you can have it to keep things spiced up and alive.

When I'm in a relationship, I don't care the fetish in the beginning and unless she tickles me, I rarely initiate it and she would never know.

I find, when I'm with someone i really like, i don't come on the forum and hide my feelings about tickling pretty well.

Don't get me wrong, i'll give her a few foot massages here and there with a few quick teases, but few and far in between.
 
BigNorm said:
first off, i apologize if there has already been a thread of this topic, i couldn't find one.

If you could take a pill and be relieved of your tickling/foot/etc. fetish and have normal sexual desires, would you?

it can be hassle to find love if your fetish is in the way, and i hear some wanting it to be gone, and with medical science improving, it may be possible in our lifetime.


For me, i simply love my foot/tickling fetishes. it helps define me and spices up relationships. i love it very much and would never get rid of it.

anyone else dislike their fetish and want it gone? why?
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Hey BigNorm! Great question!

My answer would be....ABSOLUTELY NOT!

LOVE having a foot fetish....and....LOVE my tickling fetish EVEN MORE!

My fetishes are like gifts that no one can ever take away from me!

I embrace this fact every minute that I'm on this planet! I'm only 28, so hopefully, I'll be here for many years to come as well!

Take it easy man....

Have a great week!

:toast:

Ryan @ Rook's Media
 
I'd have to say a big no on this one... I'll quote a good friend 'Erotica is the spice of life!'

Obviously, my kinks include tickling but aren't limited to that....

Besides.. there's nothing like having your feet worshiped by an unbelievably hot foot slave.
 
janiper said:
It seems like it goes against most of the responses on here, but in reality, I think I would want to give it up. I've thought many times about what if watching a "regular porn" was enough to get me excited. What if just seeing a naked woman was enough? (Don't get me wrong...I still really enjoy seeing naked women and appreciate that as well) In my relationship that just ended, it sometimes caused problems because my girlfriend sometimes felt that she wasn't attractive enough to me because I still wanted tickling to be part of our sex life. She would ask me "why isn't just having me naked enough for you?" and I couldn't really answer her. I can't really say why, but it is. I think a little more vanilla taste would make finding a partner and keeping them happy much easier. Plus, as long as you end up satisfied in the end, would you really miss it that much. All of this, of course, is hypothetical, because this is clearly not going anywhere for me anyway.

Sorry if that was really long, but that's my input.
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I feel the same way. My ex of five years felt simular but finally understood it wasn't her [At least I think she understood]. The only reason I would want to give it up is a really long lack out outlet, otherwise it is some of the most fun I have had.

So really I would say, no I don't want to give it up.
 
She would ask me "why isn't just having me naked enough for you?"
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You know, that seems like a pretty selfish attitude for a girlfriend to have. I think a lot of vanilla women have a perception of how men are "supposed" to be that isn't realistic.

We understand that women have to be romanced, they get turned on by candlelight, some soft music, a lot of pampering and oral sex... but we have to switch it on just because they're naked? Nuh uh!
 
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