Would you give up tickling

[The_Musician]

Hello T.M.F.er's
If a doctor or a counselor said you needed to stop with the tickling kink (tickling is a KINK or PERVERSION)and not a fetish which is an attraction to say the foot or shoe (foot fetish and shoe fetish) and that is the facts hard as it may be, would you try to quit and give it up? Would you change your behavior if you could.If someone you deeply loved said if you don't give up tickling I am going to leave and you will never see me again what would you do?How inportant is tickling to you would you risk it all ? Would you be willing to go into therapy or treatment if it was free? Folks we all have come to terms about tickling one way or another and whether or not we want to believe it the truth will always remain the same tickling is not viewed as normal behavior.We can get mad stomp and scream and throw a hissy fit but this fact will never change tickling is classified as a PERVERSION so if all is truth what would you do with your tickling kink...........would you give it all up?

The Musician

 

[amk714]

If there was something wrong with my love for tickling and being tickled I'd give it up. But I won't because there isn't. Other kinks/perversions/fetishes are at least as different from the norm as tickling, if not more so. Almost everyone has lines they won't cross sexually. For example, some people think sex should be done for procreation only. Why do you ask? Are you thinking of giving up tickling because someone is asking you to? If so, maybe you should discuss the matter with her or him. Good luck on whatever your situation is, Musician. Take care, and I hope you never have to give it up. 🙂

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

"Perversion" is in the eye of the beholder. There are many other things that were called wrong in the past that are now considered normal. It's not necessarily wrong just because society doesn't accept it. In fact, given some of the things society readily accepts, I often feel more comfortable being in opposition to the status cuo.

All that having been said, would I give up my love of tickling? No. I couldn't. It's a part of who I am. I'm perfectly comfortable with that...and with the fact that many consider it weird. Frankly, I don't care if others think me strange. I've taken years to accept myself as I am. Nobody is going to change that by some attitude that I don't agree with anyway.

Would I tone things down and give up my online and gathering involvement if, say, Drew were to decide that he wanted me to? Sure. But, that doesn't change who I am. I'd still love tickling. And, I'd still maintain my friendships with those I've gotten to be friends with in more than just tickling.

Ann

 

[tickleshotel]

NO , I would not give up my tickling for just anything. If it was found that by continuing my love,passion for tickling,being tickled that I was actually hurting myself in some way, I would need to think long and hard about it.
Having divorced from a NOn tickler,I have been in that situation whether or not I will sacrifice my love for tickling,being tickled over staying in a otherwise good relatonship with a lack of tickling. I struggled with this for quite awhile but in the end,but despite the relationship being good in other aspects and lack of tickling, I was not happy without the tickling and I couldn;t just go on being in a relationship where my longest and bggest love was being denied. Tickling is a big integral need,craving that I have and I wouldn;t be me without it..

 

[jk666uk]

good question

maybe i would if it would made life normal

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

OH HELL NO!!! The day I officially give up my tickling fetish is the day I take my last breath. Then again maybe i'll have a chance to continue it in Heaven

 

[chicago]

Make sure you all keep in mind that it is a PERVERSION and not a FETISH because that's what the dictionary says and as we all know, words can't have multiple meanings in the English language...

I don't really like to call it a perversion... makes me feel like some kind of weirdo...

 

[TickledToDeath]

HELL NO! I would not give it up regardless of what some quack doctor claimed to know.
Who cares what some person or group claim to think they know. I am who and what I am.
And Dat is DAT. 😉

 

[sole seeker]

...would I give up my love of tickling? No. I couldn't. It's a part of who I am. I'm perfectly comfortable with that...and with the fact that many consider it weird. Frankly, I don't care if others think me strange. I've taken years to accept myself as I am. Nobody is going to change that by some attitude that I don't agree with anyway.

Pretty much sums it up for me too.

 

[Ayla ny]

that Ann's a smart cookie.

 

[venray]

Yup..I would give it up as soon as that Dr. gave up his right testicle....(it's the right one that leads to perversion.... 😛

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

that Ann's a smart cookie.

She don't know me too well. Do she? hehehe

Actually, if that were true, I'd have to me much more careful about telling people to bite me!

Ann

YES! I'm in a silly mood tonight. Blame it on Drew!

 

[Lagos]

Never, i would go insane without the ability to tickle at will. Whatever it's classification it doesn't hurt anyone, makes someone smile and laugh, and is a moderate exercise if it's wrestling/tickling. But nope i'd never give it up.

 

[Ayla ny]

geeze… and I thought that having two left feet was bad!

seriously tho, it’s only a perversion if it’s not your perversion. it’s all relative when it comes to sexuality. if it’s between consenting human adults, then I think it should be called a turn on.

 

[Ayla ny]

She don't know me too well. Do she? hehehe

Actually, if that were true, I'd have to me much more careful about telling people to bite me!

Ann

YES! I'm in a silly mood tonight. Blame it on Drew!

I double dog dare you to say that around a certain big cuddly bear I know!

no... triple dog! 😉

 

[jugner]

Yes I would

 

[amk714]

maybe i would if it would made life normal

And what do you consider to be a normal life, jk666uk? 😕

 

[amk714]

Yes I would

Why would you give up tickling, jugner?

 

[jugner]

Just would

 

[mark 19]

I suppose if it was getting out of hand so I just couldn’t stop myself when asked to by the lee then yes I would give it up immediately and seek help if necessary. However as this isn’t the case if a doctor or a counsellor said to me “you needed to stop with the tickling kink” then I would say:

“No your wrong, horribly horribly wrong, in fact if you knew just how incredibly horribly wrong you where you would probably want to hurt your self in some hideous manner”

If it where a girlfriend some one I deeply loved then if it was giving it up as in not tickling her or anyone else but its ok that I’m turned on by it and post on this forum etc then fine, but if I had to give it up completely the I think the love would vanish as I should be excepted and loved for what I am and not something I’m pretending to be (in other words I’d dump her first “thank you so much for you opinion you're fired”)

Of course I wouldn’t really phrase it “you’re fired” I’m much nice that in real life 😉

 

[Mitchell]

I could easily tone down my tickling, because it wasnt until several years ago that I even got into tickling. If, for instance, I met a significant other who hated to be tickled, or didnt like it all the time, I could easily tone it down so that it would smooth over my relationship with her.
This being said, as many who know me on here are aware, I also like female feet. Worshipping them, kissing feet, sucking on toes, etc. This too can be considered a fetish, and to some outside the foot or tickle fetish community, weird. If I met a girl who said to me: "Even if we are in the heat of passion, or during foreplay leading up to sex, you can never kiss my feet or play with them, because I find foot play perverted", in that case, I would know that I needed to locate another significant other. That would be taking away both fetishes I would need, and not just be asking to tone down one. In that case, whoever the woman would be, wouldnt be the right person for me.
Toning down the tickling, or even foot interest, sure, but getting rid of it, and never engaging in it? No, not for anyone, because, think of it, if you want to stay faithful as I plan to, and you cant engage in your "interest" with your significant other or wife, who else is there?

Mitch

 

[jk666uk]

And what do you consider to be a normal life, jk666uk? 😕

look man i love tickling
but its just not normal to other people who do not have this fetish

 

[chicago]

Remind me if I ever get a little too "weird" that I'm supposed to be caring about what "normal" people think and trying to be more like them...

 

[jk666uk]

Remind me if I ever get a little too "weird" that I'm supposed to be caring about what "normal" people think and trying to be more like them...

OK if that what you think
and the question was would you give up tickling
YES I WOULD it would made life a lot more easyare and normal 🙂 🙂

 

[isabeau]

how can i give up something i never had? and heck yes i would give up my desire for it, if it meant losing the person i loved more than anything in the world.

isabeau