Would you marry someone who wasn't ticklish at all/ who hated tickling?

[method11236]

This is a question that came up in another thread and I thought deserved fair consideration of the community. I have never had the unfortunate situation of dating someone who wasn't even a little ticklable. But I have to ask, given how important tickling is to you, would you be able to be with someone whom you could not share your love of tickling?

I can't imagine that I'd be able to, given how much I love to tickle as a part of my daily life.

Another thing I am curious about is, how open are you with your significant other about tickling? Guys, I'm sure your girlfriend get curious when tickling them alone can make your little friend stand up and salute. I know it's happened to me and I always tried to write it off on something else. So at what point do you just say "I like to tickle you!"?


Cheers,

Meth

 

[ViperGTS]

1) No.

2) IrishGirl knew about it almost from the word "Go!" Since our first phone conversation we've been extremely open about our physical attractions, like tickling.

 

[Helena]

Hello,

Good question. I happen to be blessed with someone who tickles me. I have never married, but if I were considering marriage with anyone, I would make sure that my future husband would tickle me. I would reveal what I need in a mate, and would expect him to do the same before we marry.

 

[lk70]

Uh-uh no way no how. Never want to be married again to someone who isn't into it.

How open with significant others? As nervewracking as it can be, I'm introducing it slowly to a new relationship with plans for full disclosure in the near future. So far it's working out extremely well 😀

 

[Soda Bobinski]

Uh-uh no way no how. Never want to be married again to someone who isn't into it.

How open with significant others? As nervewracking as it can be, I'm introducing it slowly to a new relationship with plans for full disclosure in the near future. So far it's working out extremely well 😀

Hope everything works out well for you lk70. You seem like such a sweetie ... you deserve to have this go your way. Hopefully it will.

However , TKLMAN is available in the unfortunate possibility that 'Plan A' doesn't pan out ....... 😛

 

[Coffee]

I would say no. This is something i enjoy doing and it is a part of my life and i would especially want my wife to be apart of it.

 

[maniactickler]

No chance in hell!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[TickledToDeath]

In a single single word to anwswer your question....
NO.

 

[isabeau]

i am married to someone who hates it. but it's not the end all of my life, since i never really have experienced much tickling.

 

[Deadsea7777]

This is a question that came up in another thread and I thought deserved fair consideration of the community. I have never had the unfortunate situation of dating someone who wasn't even a little ticklable. But I have to ask, given how important tickling is to you, would you be able to be with someone whom you could not share your love of tickling?

I can't imagine that I'd be able to, given how much I love to tickle as a part of my daily life.

Another thing I am curious about is, how open are you with your significant other about tickling? Guys, I'm sure your girlfriend get curious when tickling them alone can make your little friend stand up and salute. I know it's happened to me and I always tried to write it off on something else. So at what point do you just say "I like to tickle you!"?


Cheers,

Meth

Well if the lady in question is the female equivalent of an Astor Martin...YES..Now is she is a Chevy...No keep looking

 

[Ticklee1973]

I absolutely would not marry anyone who wasn't into it. I've already been there done that with the most "vanilla" person on the face of the planet, not again, lol.

As far as how open I am, any man I date knows about it before we even have a first date. It comes up in the first phone conversation, email exchange, discussion, etc. I refuse to be closed off in that regard. If it's a problem from the get go, I don't want to date him and get attached.

Sandee

 

[kwildoctr]

I made that mistake the first marriage around. After that failed, I vowed that I would not enter into a relationship with someone who wasn't at least a little bit into it.

Of course, all of this assumes that tickling is an important enough part of anyone's life that the risk would be taken that maybe no one will ever be found. After all, it's not just tickling that has to be taken into consideration when entering into a relationship.....

Just my $1.435 cents (after taxes)

R

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Ive been in relationships where the women that weren't into it but I did it anyway. Most of them just thought I was being playful. I would have to say that it would be a lot more fun to be with someone that is into tickling.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

one of my biggest fears was falling in love with a woman who was perfect for me in every way possible...except she would hate the lifestyle i have or not be ticklish alltogether. luckily, i have someone in my life that is becoming more and more interested in what i enjoy and is actually wanting to attend parties and gatherings that involves tickles and bondage.

 

[jaketickle]

i courted a gal because she was ticklish and ended up marrying her

i written about this before but after years of pursuing a foot tickling fetish in high school, throughout college, with just about every woman in my neighborhood, with ALL dates and even some of their moms, my mom's friends and friend's moms i met a beautiful lady the last year i was in college. Though she had a serious boyfriend and me a serious girlfriend one time when she was in stockingfeet and looked absolutely gorgeous i asked the question "are your feet ticklish?" She gave me the most wonderful smile and look and said "horribly but though i may laugh myself to death i'll NEVER say uncle--though my boyfriend about kills me tickling my feet with feathers--im VERY ticklish on my feet with feathers but i can handle the torture as exhausting as it might be!" Well as you can imgine she became VERY attractive to me right then and there and several times at parties i saw her boyfriend tickle her feet and her laugh away (but only with fingers--feathers were reserved i guess for private times). I pursued and pursued her and as ive posted elsewhere we each ditched r significant other, got married, married because of her ticklish feet that have been an integral part of our twenty-plus year marriage. Long way of saying a happy marriage is unthinkable without her ticklish feet and my tickling of them!

 

[unit5610]

I DID marry someone who isn't ticklish at all...and 20 years later we're still married and I still really miss having someone to tickle. She doesn't mind tickling me and will on occasion but I so much want to be the 'ler sometime again. I don't see that happening soon...my attending a gathering wouldn't go over well (understatement).
Otherwise no complaints, she's extremely good to me in other ways.

 

[Mistress Feral]

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[BigBrownEyes]

That's a good question. Although tickling isn't everthing, I probably couldn't do it.

 

[isabeau]

i have to put my two cents in again.. if you are only marrying someone because they are ticklish and love to be tickled, that marriage ain't gonna last long. i do hope one marries for more reasons than just that. maybe that's my attitude because i have been married for almost 28 years, and although i have complained in the past about his lack of tickling desires, i see no reason to end the marriage for that reason. sure, i would love to be tied and tickled every other day, but as i said before it's not the end-all in my life.

 

[MrPartickler]

Yes, I absolutely would...just as long as she's really, really rich.

Hey, what can I say? I'm a romantic. 😀

 

[BigBrownEyes]

I have to agree with Isabeau. Your current partner's lack of desire for tickling is no reason to end the relationship. I also agree that you're not going to marry someone because of their interest in tickling. That ain't gonna work!

I was in love once and all the physical stuff was great. I found out she had a borderline tickle fetish after I fell in love with her. So the feelings weren't based on her slight fondness for tickling. As fate would have it, a lot of other issues ended the relationship.

Perhaps if I fell in love again and found out the person had a "no tickling" rule, it wouldn't matter. It's possible. I absolutely don't think that a lady has to be a ticklephile before I'd be willing to marry her. But I'm very tired of being in relationships in which I'm not happy overall and just feeling like I settled. So I would like someone to at least let me indulge my desire for tickling to some degree.

She doesn't have to be a full-blown, card-carrying ticklephile, although that would be nice too.

 

[Cy/MiG]

I can see all points of view

However like a few have stated, there are more important things to consider in a long-term relationship (MARRIAGE) than tickling.

I don't think (at least I hope not) that I would be so shortsighted as to end/not pursue a long lasting relationship just because we don't share the same 'kinks'.

I'd be open and honest about my desires, and I'd expect her to be the same; but in the end it's not just about tickling, it's about love, respect and trust.

So short term relationship: no way
REAL relationship: yes

 

[Tamia78]

Good question. I've always known about my tickling fetish, but it was never a big deal if my bf was into tickling or not. But since discovering the TMF, I don't think I could date/marry someone who just wasn't into it at all. If I happen to be dating someone who didn't know about my fetish, I will mention something in passing and see how he takes it. I'm not going to say that its just THAT important in my life, but it really makes the relationship fun and exciting when both partners are into tickling.

 

[Angel_2]

Would I marry/Date someone that was not ticklish at all? Yea I would. It would be nice if we both were into tickling or both Ticklish but if one of us is not ticklish or into it at all then that would not effect our relationship one bit. Tickling is part of my life forever and always will be now if the person I am with wants me to pick between my love to tickle or her well I can safely say Tickling would win b/c there are too many great looking women to let just one run your life. I would marry someone that was not ticklish or not into it b/c If you really love that someone it should not matter. There are other ways to make life fun. Besides tickling is forever love is once in a life time so enjoy your bf/gf and live life to the fullest.

 

[Em Es]

Good questions

Method, you asked, "given how important tickling is to you, would you be able to be with someone whom you could not share your love of tickling?"

Before we married my wife and I had an okay tickling life. Nothing as cool as bondage & tickling, mind you, but some good tickle fights. But since our 🙄 wedding night, my wife just gets mad when I tickle her.

However, during sex I can get away with tickling, albeit a little tickling. Making love from behind gives me great access to my wife's feet, her most ticklish area, so at times I tickle one or both of her sensitive soles.

And when I've been on top during sex, I learned just how sensitive my wife's breasts get when I licked them. She's begged me to stop, it tickles so much. Sometimes I've held her arms down (the closest to retraints we come) and tickled her breasts with my tongue until her pleading made me stop.

As you can see, I've learned to take what I can get, which isn't much. Were my wife against tickling starting on our first date instead of our first day married, I would have to say our relationship wouldn't have made it.

Method, you also asked, "how open are you with your significant other about tickling?" She of course knows I like to tickle but I have never brought it up as a conversation topic. Below is a thread I started on this topic:

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=34216&highlight=upfront