would you still be with the same person?

[jd58]

for those of us that have been married longer than the internet has been around and have spouses that are not into tickling.

would you still have married your present spouse if sites like this were around when you were single?

or is your tickling fetish that minor that it would not matter?

 

[mrhm53755]

Not sure. I know it sucks being married to a woman that is not only not ticklish at all but doesn't do any tickling either.

 

[maniactickler]

im not married, but it sounds like the ultimate nightmare.

 

[Riven]

When you marry, you must make sure that this person loves you for WHO YOU ARE, and most importantly, WHAT YOU WANT. If she doesn't, she isn't worth your time, man. Never settle for anything less than WHAT YOU WANT.

 

[BellaRisa]

I'd have absolutely married the same person. He's my best friend, has been for 17 years; half my life . We're only happy if the other person is happy, so indulging each other has never been an issue; he became a darn fine 'ler and I developed a love for the History Channel

Bella

 

[Em Es]

What if? Questions

Before we married, my wife and I had an okay tickling life. I knew she was not the type of girl who would let me tie her down but the tickle fun we had was adequate.

However, starting on - I am not kidding here - our wedding night, my wife rejected my attempts to tickle her. After so many failed tries at stirring up some tickling, I gave up trying. We are now married nine years.

If the TMF were around back then, would I have stayed with and still married my wife? Well, as we had an adequate pre-marital tickling life, probably. But I will never know for sure.

 

[Fantastklr]

Great question!

Sadly, my wife isn't ticklish at all. But when I finally told her about my love of tickling, she thought it was pretty cool. I "came clean" about a month before the 2002 NEST. When I explained to her what the gathering was all about, she not only "allowed" me to go...she insisted I go! Fortunately for me, I'm a switch. So even though she's not tickish, at least I get to be the 'lee. That's certainly better than being stuck in a marriage with no tickling at all. She even enjoys bondage, which we only do on occassion since the kids are always around. She likes tying me up for tickling, and she enjoys being tied up for "other things".

So to answer your question: I'm not really sure if I would've married my wife, had I known then what I know now. I might have waited until I found a woman who was extremely ticklish and loved being tickled. Had I made that decision, however, I might still be single.

 

[FeatherFeet]

Before we married, my wife and I had an okay tickling life. I knew she was not the type of girl who would let me tie her down but the tickle fun we had was adequate.

However, starting on - I am not kidding here - our wedding night, my wife rejected my attempts to tickle her. After so many failed tries at stirring up some tickling, I gave up trying. We are now married nine years.

If the TMF were around back then, would I have stayed with and still married my wife? Well, as we had an adequate pre-marital tickling life, probably. But I will never know for sure.

well that sounds like someone who was acting like a different person than they were and waited until you tied the knot to start denying you. thats just a really bitchy thing to do.


but for the most part, with few exceptions, (and i would consider the above in the event of lying in a way an exception) when you make a vow to marry, it doesnt matter if the internet comes into being or anything else. its a vow, and excuses like "we met the partner before the internet," doesnt cut it. if your not prepared you stay with the person no matter what for your whole life, dont get married.

or if your not happy in the marrage and you cant handle the no tickling and need it, then at least have the courtosey to break up, however shitty that seems. they deserve honesty at the very least.

 

[drew70]

I doubt any of us could say yes with any degree of certainty. However I can confidently say that the presence of the internet never made me regret my decision to marry the person I did.