Yeah. I got a G/F, sort of. Help me. Please?

[Leo tickles]

OKay. I almost/sortof/kindof/do/have/a/g/f.


... I shared my fetish with her and she seems cool with it. When I tickle her she says she hates to be tickled and begs me to stop. All good, right? Wrong. I don't know when the right time to tickle her is. Hanging out at a Steak Nshake last night, we were alone outside in a light drizzle, and we were hugging... guess what I said... I was like. "So, is this the part that I kiss you?" HHAHAHAHAHAHA.... What bravery.. and she said YES...hahaha what an idiot.



Anyways. So when we are cuddled up, is that the time to tickle her? Or what.... help me out people. Thanks.

 

[drew70]

If she says she hates it, chances are good she means it. So if she really does hate it, you need to wait until she's invested more of herself into the relationship. The more a person invests into a relationship, the more they'll tolerate before finally deciding to check out. If I were you, I'd just put the tickling on hold and let the romance progress.

 

[Iwon'tgrowup]

Leo, I am 100% in agreement with Drew. As a lady once told me, "Tickling is serious business, man." For some people, it is. Drew has shared the perfect word: Invested. I'd build the relationship for now and "let the romance progress" (as Drew says). Later on, your gf may find tickling damned romantic. For now, cuddling in a drizzle is magical on its own.

 

[switchtickler]

Be Persuasive!

Leo, before I got into tickling, my only memories of it were being ganged up on by my siblings, and I hated it. Not as in deep down actually liked it, just plain hated it. So the man that got me into tickling was very patient, and introduced himself to my body in the traditional manner-sex!-before starting with the ticking. Then he'd mix the tickling in with other foreplay so that I came to see it as more foreplay. He'd watch my reactions closely, and any time that he'd tickle me for too long and I'd start to get antsy and uncomfortable he'd stop and do something else. His patience certainly paid off. You may not be headed for sex with this girl any time soon, but you can still use this advice: practice self restraint, and try to keep a ratio of, say, 4 parts nontickling yet physicial/intimate activites to 1 part tickling.

So the time to tickle her is right after you've done something else with her that feels good (shoulder rub, kissing, etc), and just for a short burst before going right back into something else that feels good. If she doesn't like it, then I agree with the other posters that you should put tickling on hold.

 

[Leo tickles]

Thanks all. We did kis, hug, then tickle. She wasn't saying she hates it in an I hate it tone. She was all happy and squirmy about it and it caused her to kiss me more..



But she dumped me today so it's all good. I knew it would happen, so I got my tickling, she got her satasfaction of dumping me. 🙂 Alll good.

 

[Iwon'tgrowup]

In my day, that's what was known as an O. Henry ending.

 

[doctor tickle]

Argee

Leo I agree with Drew on this hold off until later in the relationship.