You all were right; he cheated!

[Lea28]

I do like tickling....

If you enjoy being tickled you shouldn't have too much trouble finding the right guy. Good luck.

And I like to tickle and be tickled... I love my feet adored and pampered and my sides and tummy tickled while making love... I know not all girls will go for this but I do. I like to tickle a guy too, and I am a pretty good tickler, and I know how to seek and locate "hot spots."

For guys that especially like to tickle a girls feet I am especially agreeable... in fact I love it!

I am going out with friends tonight, so we'll see... I hate high heels but I have lots of sexy flats including ballet slippers that guys seem to like. Maybe I'll meet a ballet enthusiast tonight? Doubt it...

Thanks everyone, Lea

 

[kis123]

cheating is a symptom, you can cure the symtom, but unless you nick the desease, as in, you figure out whats causing the symptoms, then you're going to remain sick, and more symptoms will come.

the disease is obviously what attracts you to the wrong type of guy. which is something you need to figure out for yourself. the biggest mistake people make when getting off bad relationshps (or a stream of) is they look for something slightly different, thinking it will make it better, but still ultimatly cling to whats familiar, not realizing that whats familiar to them happens to be the downfall.

thats some food for thought.

good luck.

Where the hell were you when I needed you 20yrs ago????

You hit the nail on the head! A person has to take that ugly look in the mirror and start asking the tough questions if they ever expect to make the important changes to their lives. I did it; it was really ugly because I had to find out why I ended up with the losers. It was me and how I felt about myself inside; predators can smell it a mile away and zero in on your weaknesses.

Lea, I hate to say "I told you so", but I did. I told you not to fall in love and just live in the moment; I only hope you heeded my words. I'm an old-school-player in this department and have the war scars to prove it. I've been cheated on and have cheated; neither position is a good one to be in and comes with its own set of disadvantages.

I hope you've learned a valuable lesson. I hope you recover and land on your feet. I hope you NEVER put yourself through this type of emotioinal torture again, especially over some sex. You're young and have many years to experience good and great sex. Honey, wait until you turn 40; the sex is absolutely fabulous!!!

Take care; kick back, heal your wounds, and get back on that horse you fell off of and keep riding through life!

 

[FeatherFeet]

Where the hell were you when I needed you 20yrs ago????

You hit the nail on the head! A person has to take that ugly look in the mirror and start asking the tough questions if they ever expect to make the important changes to their lives. I did it; it was really ugly because I had to find out why I ended up with the losers. It was me and how I felt about myself inside; predators can smell it a mile away and zero in on your weaknesses.

Lea, I hate to say "I told you so", but I did. I told you not to fall in love and just live in the moment; I only hope you heeded my words. I'm an old-school-player in this department and have the war scars to prove it. I've been cheated on and have cheated; neither position is a good one to be in and comes with its own set of disadvantages.

I hope you've learned a valuable lesson. I hope you recover and land on your feet. I hope you NEVER put yourself through this type of emotioinal torture again, especially over some sex. You're young and have many years to experience good and great sex. Honey, wait until you turn 40; the sex is absolutely fabulous!!!

Take care; kick back, heal your wounds, and get back on that horse you fell off of and keep riding through life!

lol well twenty years ago, i was but one and a half years old, still wrapped in that tiny blanket, and wouldnt have been much help, since i only had a fair-to-decent understanding of such concepts as these. ^.^ lol.

 

[TCarlCMI]

Ok...it didn't turn out the way YOU wanted it to and HE was not 100% up front with you. Nobody "cheated" anyone. I don't understand where this term came about. You were not even "going steady" with this guy let alone married or even engaged so I don't understand this whole "cheating" thing. No one can "cheat" on another person....you can only cheat yourself out of a happy life by doing things that you shouldn't which, in this case would have been staying in a relationship with a guy who didn't appreciate you. Sorry if I sound strident but I've been through a lot of this and I have little patience.

TC

 

[ThatPercussionGuy]

Lea its called Karma.. What goes around, comes around. I truly believe that if you hadn't cheated on your previous bf that things might have worked out between ya'll two.

Amen..

 

[kis123]

Ok...it didn't turn out the way YOU wanted it to and HE was not 100% up front with you. Nobody "cheated" anyone. I don't understand where this term came about. You were not even "going steady" with this guy let alone married or even engaged so I don't understand this whole "cheating" thing. No one can "cheat" on another person....you can only cheat yourself out of a happy life by doing things that you shouldn't which, in this case would have been staying in a relationship with a guy who didn't appreciate you. Sorry if I sound strident but I've been through a lot of this and I have little patience.

TC

I'm not exactly embracing your logic; would you care to elaborate and enlighten me? And, no, I'm not being sarcastic; I would like to see your POV in print.

 

[OmahaLerLee]

so you were dating two people at once?

 

[J.Apolo654]

And I like to tickle and be tickled... I love my feet adored and pampered and my sides and tummy tickled while making love... I know not all girls will go for this but I do. I like to tickle a guy too, and I am a pretty good tickler, and I know how to seek and locate "hot spots."

For guys that especially like to tickle a girls feet I am especially agreeable... in fact I love it!

I am going out with friends tonight, so we'll see... I hate high heels but I have lots of sexy flats including ballet slippers that guys seem to like. Maybe I'll meet a ballet enthusiast tonight? Doubt it...

Thanks everyone, Lea

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=118797&highlight=ballet+slippers

Hi, I'm a ballet enthusiast!
Very pleased to tickle you!