You can't have both

[Coda]

I would hope that both of us had enough insight into the other's sexual fetishes-- even on a basic level-- that neither of us would think to produce that kind of ultimatum. If we did, then I would doubt the quality of our relationship.

 

[McNoodle]

I've invested 16 years in my lover, I've invested many more into tickling.
That being said I have chosen my wife, I never chose to be into tickling.
I'm gonna call it a wash and pray it never happens.

 

[ViperGTS]

Words cannot express how quickly she would find herself on the wrong side of my doorstep.

 

[Ronley]

I try to be up front about the whole tickling thing at the start of a relationship, if it's going to be a big deal might as well find out early before anything is invested. That said if my current girlfriend told me she was uncomfortable with it I'd choose her in a heartbeat, not even a comparison. Tickling is a wonderful add-on for me, and I can't justify walking away from someone I love just because there's one thing they're uncomfortable with it. That's like refusing to eat the turkey because I don't like the gravy

 

[kdakmmt]

Ticklishness is part of what I look for in women and if shes not into it I lose interest. Probably one of the reasons why I'm single lol

 

[The Sean Man]

Ultimatums kill relationships....put me down for tickling.

 

[DracT]

Tickling is a requirement. It is too much fun and would help with the bonding process..... I could see a hesitation and maybe help them get over it, but, not tickling would impact the relationship for me in a negative way.

 

[JimmySINY]

Well thats a tough call to make. My gf is kinda open minded about my tickle fetish so i havent been put in that spot. But if a SO (not her) was to give me a choice like that i would have to look at a few things. Such as the length of the relationship. Where i saw our futures. This is prob somthing we all have to try and bring to light before we really get invested. Just my 2 cents

 

[drummerboy]

An Other who would ask such a thing isn't very Significant.

enough said.