Your perfect 'ler.....

[CD216]

A woman I'm connected with in more than just a tickling sense, so that there's a special bond between us. She'd be a tease, verbal and physically speaking, ruthless, and very skilled at tickling. She'd know my limits and take me to the brink and push me beyond it constantly.

Most importantly? She'd have as much fun as me. Maybe one day I'll find her.

 

[Ledega]

Just tickle the hell out of me.Verbally tease me to enhance ticklishness.Take control and dominate me,but don't be insulting or degrade me.I want to be happy not unhappy ; )

 

[Canadian_Eh]

Above all, someone that I feel comfortable with. I feel the most vulnerable, self conscious and insecure when I'm being tickled, so I need to know that I can be anything with this person, look stupid, sound stupid, act stupid - and not feel stupid - if that makes sense.

Someone who doesn't have to TRY too hard to appear in charge. I don't want to have to feel like I'm giving them permission. I like someone who is just kind of like, "This is what's going on and it's my decision and that's it." They're in control. They know it, and I know it. I'll never, ever ask someone if they want to play.

Someone who is playful and isn't going to take the whole thing too seriously. I like teasing and banter and things that make me laugh completely aside from the tickling. Someone whose sense of humor matches mine is absolutely key.

This EXACTLY!!! ... Very well said. If someone can get into my head, i'm done!

 

[deadlywiffeathr]

Someone who makes me feel like they have total control. I like my ler to throw in a bit of verbal teasing here and there, aswell as some playfulness. Above all my perfect ler would know my limits intimatley, i think a tickle session is made that much better if the ler can push you rite to the edge and then ease it off gradually. I also think its awesome when they have the patience to make you anticipate the tickling! All those guys that just dig in, newsflash: its horrible! lol 😛

 

[leafstk]

Good point, DWF! As a lee and ler, I can appreciate that "just digging in" does not a good tickle session make, lol 😉 Lots of build up, play and anticipation is absolutely necessary I think for a great session... before during and after. I love when it gets sadistic, but not right off the bat... a good buildup always heightens the experience, IMO 🙂

 

[Tissueboy]

Someone who does plenty of verbal teasing, and clearly enjoys what they are doing. Someone who pays a lot of attention to my reactions to different spots and techniques, and then uses that against me 🙂 Someone who varies the intensity every so often, but tickles constantly for a significant amount of time.

 

[MrTicklee]

A perfect Ler for me is a combination of what many have said already...someone who is playful yet aggressive; is able to read my body and how it reacts to her varied techniques and then use those reactions against me. Someone who can push me to the edge, bring me back and then push me over. She can get into my head and have me screaming for mercy without even touching me. Essentially, an playful, erotic yet evil woman. Yeah, that will do.

 

[TarynsTinyToes]

For me, definitely someone who is having fun right along with me. It is hard for me to let loose if I don't feel the other person is enjoying it.

 

[natural tickler]

I prefer someone Dominant over me, who can make me laugh all the time (tickling or not), who's confident but not overly cocky. Someone who gets as much enjoyment out of tickling me as I get from being tickled. Oh and hey, someone who's aftercare is as important as the tickling session goes a LONG WAY in my books.

your wish is my command....

This EXACTLY!!! ... Very well said. If someone can get into my head, i'm done!

consider yourself done

 

[myth77]

Someone who makes me feel like they have total control. I like my ler to throw in a bit of verbal teasing here and there, aswell as some playfulness. Above all my perfect ler would know my limits intimatley, i think a tickle session is made that much better if the ler can push you rite to the edge and then ease it off gradually. I also think its awesome when they have the patience to make you anticipate the tickling! All those guys that just dig in, newsflash: its horrible! lol 😛

right on!! 😀 also, for me, the verbal is as unbearably devastating as the actual tickling...i am as completely wild for the words in my ear (done sadistically and playfully) as i am for the whole rest of the encounter🙂

 

[-Hari-]

Someone who makes me feel comfortable before they make me feel uncomfortable 🙂

 

[trace1984]

would keep me on edge of enjoyment and going insane

 

[luv2tikl]

Mmm... I've always had a thing for 'lers who laugh at/with their 'lees! I think that would be great, mixed in with some teasing as well.

 

[Lord Doctor]

A merciless cute switch?

 

[Deadsea7777]

If I were ticklish I would say Christina Carter and/or Priscilla.
Their incredible teasing in a dominant game with the ticklee is perfect, they know how to play the mind of the ticklee like a cat play with a mouse. Only thinking to be in secure bondage and to know that you are the main dish in a tickling lust banquet of any of those two is a celestial thought.

 

[Sweed]

ooo exactly...and someone who studies your reactions and then uses techiniques based on your reactions to totally try and break you...that only happened once with me..CrusherTitan was the best tickler i've ever had..and he's a lot Dominant....yet very careful to read me in exactly the right way, and knew immediately if i was in any stress...that's a perfect ler to me..not someone who just dives right in and starts poking..

Someone playful, fun and sadistic.
Someone who would be good fun to be around even when not being tickled would be awesome too.

What you said! 🙂
I agree with other people here as well, but this sums it up in a good way. 🙂
And yeah, good verbal teasing is fun as well. 🙂 And that can make you feel more ticklish, panicked and vunerable, which might make it easier for them to break you. 😀

It's also important that you can have fun together without the tickling! 🙂

 

[paracarl44]

To me it is important to talk to the lee during the session.

 

[No_Style]

Someone who does plenty of verbal teasing, and clearly enjoys what they are doing. Someone who pays a lot of attention to my reactions to different spots and techniques, and then uses that against me Someone who varies the intensity every so often, but tickles constantly for a significant amount of time.

yes!

 

[dw8822]

Yeah...

My perfect 'ler would be a woman who loves being tickled as much as doing the tickling. I would want her to know how to get me and where. She'd have perfectly down nails with the perfect touch. She'd know how to use tools rather well and she wouldn't mind revenge at all. Plus I'd like her to be attractive...then again who wouldn't want there perfect 'ler to be...

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

for her to hit all of my ticklish spots and to be brought to my absolute limits and beyond

 

[mike273273]

I like a playful one, one that uses babytalk/verbal teasing (a good example is what the verbal teasing Charlee uses or the verbal teasing on tickle central), At least if they were tickling me. I do not like verbal nastiness. Of course I only like to be tickled by females. Of course I prefer soft/playful sensual tickling but they can use medium tickling sometimes and even go harder if it provokes a reaction. Clothing wise I love singlet tops but I also love bikini tops and bottoms which are used in some clips. I prefer casual clothes over bondage clothes. I also love false/long nails, but not painted (I am in the minority there!). As for looks, they don't have to be stick thin, I"ve seen some gorgeous female lers that are a bit chubby. An example is one that tickled yaqi (I think her name was Jennifer) who was a bit chubby but still beautiful.

One thing I don't like in clips, is ones who constantly look at the clock, these ones are clearly not into it. I like ones who are enjoying what they are doing, either in an intimate environment (say gf and bf) or in a bondage session. At my session ages ago we went overtime and when she was told she was over she gave me a quick tickle in my favourite spots. That showed she enjoyed what she was doing, even though she was being paid.

 

[Mike3355]

OH yeah no they gotta laugh with me and do some verbal teasing.. if there just a down to business type they'll get me going no doubt just won't be the same..

 

[leafstk]

Definitely love some playfullness and verbal teasing... makes me crazy, lol 😀

 

[No_Style]

OH yeah no they gotta laugh with me and do some verbal teasing.. if there just a down to business type they'll get me going no doubt just won't be the same..

yea...it makes it less fun if they arent playful about it

 

[Mike3355]

yea...it makes it less fun if they arent playful about it

Indeed!, i mean heck she can make fun of me of the random things that are coming outta me from my torment, it's been known to happen.. secrets can be leaked lol