YouNeverKnow175
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One thing I love to think about is how those of us who are into tickling often get into relationships with vanilla significant others - who have never thought of tickling as sexual, necessarily - but may well have been tickled quite a bit before we came along. No matter what their history - they all had some kind of relationship with tickling before entering into a relationship with us.
I'm particularly curious because my previous GF was the kind of person who people just seemed to love to tickle. She has countless stories of being tickled by her female friends before we got together, as well as during. She also had stories of being held down and tortured by guys in school, like her older brothers' friends.
My current GF claims to not have been tickled by friends ever, during high school (she went to a boarding school), college, or early-adulthood, which I just find hard to believe. She's gorgeous and I can't imagine that no guy (or girl) would playfully flirt with her by doing at least a little tickling - if not all-out torturing her. She is more reserved and has a stronger sense of boundaries, so it's possible that the vibe she gives off is more of a "don't touch me" vibe. But still.....my hope is that she's blocked some of these memories (she is unbelievably ticklish and has always hated it) and at some point they'll come flooding back. I do know she was tortured by family members quite a bit - but not sure how interested I am in hearing those, especially because she was fairly young.
So I'm curious - for those of you in relationships (or who have been in relationships) - what kind of stories did your SO have about being tickled (or tickling) before you came along? What kind of relationship did (s)he have with tickling before meeting you (and has it changed?)? Feel free to share the stories, or provide links if you already have posted them in the True Stories section.
I'm particularly curious because my previous GF was the kind of person who people just seemed to love to tickle. She has countless stories of being tickled by her female friends before we got together, as well as during. She also had stories of being held down and tortured by guys in school, like her older brothers' friends.
My current GF claims to not have been tickled by friends ever, during high school (she went to a boarding school), college, or early-adulthood, which I just find hard to believe. She's gorgeous and I can't imagine that no guy (or girl) would playfully flirt with her by doing at least a little tickling - if not all-out torturing her. She is more reserved and has a stronger sense of boundaries, so it's possible that the vibe she gives off is more of a "don't touch me" vibe. But still.....my hope is that she's blocked some of these memories (she is unbelievably ticklish and has always hated it) and at some point they'll come flooding back. I do know she was tortured by family members quite a bit - but not sure how interested I am in hearing those, especially because she was fairly young.
So I'm curious - for those of you in relationships (or who have been in relationships) - what kind of stories did your SO have about being tickled (or tickling) before you came along? What kind of relationship did (s)he have with tickling before meeting you (and has it changed?)? Feel free to share the stories, or provide links if you already have posted them in the True Stories section.
