Last night was a most unfortunate incident.
I'm going to post it here, as I just feel like venting.
Please, if you dont have anything supportive to say, just pass.
I know that I've posted that my father had multiple surgeries in 2022. Since then, my support to him during his recoveries, have greatly helped our relationship.
At the same time, my Dad's brother, my uncle, came back into my life. While I dont talk to him that often, as he lives out west, when our paths have crossed, nothing but positive has occurred.
Since last year, I interacted for the first time with my uncle's son, who I'll refer to as "Sam" Sam has Asperger's syndrome.
Sam and I talk on the phone multiple times a week, and I have seen Sam several times.
Recently, Sam had a negative incident in his personal life, and decided he needed some time away from my uncle.
Sam has been staying at a hotel in NJ.
I have seen Sam a few times in the last few weeks, for lunch, and baseball games.
All seemed to be going fine, until Monday.
Suddenly, Sam started giving me harassing phone calls, when I told him I was busy.
Last night, Sam and I were supposed to attend the Mets Yankees game. Sam told me that we had "passes to an exclusive club" It turns out, we did not.
As we went back to our regular seats, Sam started verbally arging with me. Finally I got pissed off, and said. "Screw this, I'm taking the subway home."
I'm standing in the subway station, when suddenly I receive a frantic phone call from my Dad.
"Mitch, are you okay,? Sam just called and told me you had a serious seizure"
I said. "Dad, I'm, fine, please calm down, and I will call you when I get home"
Sam had left some things in lockup in the downstairs lockup room. Then Sam called me. "I lost my wallet , get X dollars, and come downstairs, and pay my fucking cab fare back to NJ"
I was like "Fine" and went to the bank, withdrew the money Sam requested from the bank, and was going to give it to him.
Sam started screaming at me downstairs The door guards were going to call the cops.
Then I made a mistake. Sam said. "I must go to the bathroom number 1" The door men said their bathroom was locked.
So I let Sam in here, he used the bathroom, and when I went to take him downstairs to give him the money to get him the Hell out of here, we started arguing again.
The verbal fighting, turned into Sam losing it completely with me, slamming me against the elevator inside
Finally I got Sam out of here, called my Dad, and I thought he was gone.
Next thing I know, the police call me, and said. "Mitchell, this is the X town police. A guy named Sam is here and wants to file assault charges against you"
I said. "Officer, I cannot say anything until I consult my attorney" and hung up,.
Next thing I know, my Dad called me this morning.
Sam is in a hospital in NJ. We dont know how he got there.
In the meantime as this was going on, I wrote my uncle a very painful but calm email detailing the incident between myself and Sam.
Last I heard, my uncle and his wife are coming in. My uncle requested that I not talk to him.
I will respect my uncle;'s wishes of course, but I made it clear to my Dad that unless Sam gets definite help, after worrying my sick 83 year old father to death intentionally for no reason, assaulting me, humiliating me, and telling lies about me, that I want nothing further to do with Sam.
A very sad, and painful incident, for Sam, my uncle, my aunt, my Dad, and myself .,
I'm going to post it here, as I just feel like venting.
Please, if you dont have anything supportive to say, just pass.
I know that I've posted that my father had multiple surgeries in 2022. Since then, my support to him during his recoveries, have greatly helped our relationship.
At the same time, my Dad's brother, my uncle, came back into my life. While I dont talk to him that often, as he lives out west, when our paths have crossed, nothing but positive has occurred.
Since last year, I interacted for the first time with my uncle's son, who I'll refer to as "Sam" Sam has Asperger's syndrome.
Sam and I talk on the phone multiple times a week, and I have seen Sam several times.
Recently, Sam had a negative incident in his personal life, and decided he needed some time away from my uncle.
Sam has been staying at a hotel in NJ.
I have seen Sam a few times in the last few weeks, for lunch, and baseball games.
All seemed to be going fine, until Monday.
Suddenly, Sam started giving me harassing phone calls, when I told him I was busy.
Last night, Sam and I were supposed to attend the Mets Yankees game. Sam told me that we had "passes to an exclusive club" It turns out, we did not.
As we went back to our regular seats, Sam started verbally arging with me. Finally I got pissed off, and said. "Screw this, I'm taking the subway home."
I'm standing in the subway station, when suddenly I receive a frantic phone call from my Dad.
"Mitch, are you okay,? Sam just called and told me you had a serious seizure"
I said. "Dad, I'm, fine, please calm down, and I will call you when I get home"
Sam had left some things in lockup in the downstairs lockup room. Then Sam called me. "I lost my wallet , get X dollars, and come downstairs, and pay my fucking cab fare back to NJ"
I was like "Fine" and went to the bank, withdrew the money Sam requested from the bank, and was going to give it to him.
Sam started screaming at me downstairs The door guards were going to call the cops.
Then I made a mistake. Sam said. "I must go to the bathroom number 1" The door men said their bathroom was locked.
So I let Sam in here, he used the bathroom, and when I went to take him downstairs to give him the money to get him the Hell out of here, we started arguing again.
The verbal fighting, turned into Sam losing it completely with me, slamming me against the elevator inside
Finally I got Sam out of here, called my Dad, and I thought he was gone.
Next thing I know, the police call me, and said. "Mitchell, this is the X town police. A guy named Sam is here and wants to file assault charges against you"
I said. "Officer, I cannot say anything until I consult my attorney" and hung up,.
Next thing I know, my Dad called me this morning.
Sam is in a hospital in NJ. We dont know how he got there.
In the meantime as this was going on, I wrote my uncle a very painful but calm email detailing the incident between myself and Sam.
Last I heard, my uncle and his wife are coming in. My uncle requested that I not talk to him.
I will respect my uncle;'s wishes of course, but I made it clear to my Dad that unless Sam gets definite help, after worrying my sick 83 year old father to death intentionally for no reason, assaulting me, humiliating me, and telling lies about me, that I want nothing further to do with Sam.
A very sad, and painful incident, for Sam, my uncle, my aunt, my Dad, and myself .,
