Here's another thought that I ponder ALL the time.
When you're looking to get into a long-term romantic relationship, possibly even marriage, what should be the foundation for your relationship?
Specifically, would you prefer to find someone who shares your sexual fantasies and desires (for example, tickling and feet in my case) though you may not connect as well in other aspects? This could set up a great physical relationship, though the emotional/intellectual interaction is adequate but less than fulfilling. Conversely, would you opt for someone whom you adore emotionally/intellectually but who is not receptive to your specific sexual desires? This may lead to a great interpersonal connection but a less than desirable sex life.
Where would you start?
Conan2995
When you're looking to get into a long-term romantic relationship, possibly even marriage, what should be the foundation for your relationship?
Specifically, would you prefer to find someone who shares your sexual fantasies and desires (for example, tickling and feet in my case) though you may not connect as well in other aspects? This could set up a great physical relationship, though the emotional/intellectual interaction is adequate but less than fulfilling. Conversely, would you opt for someone whom you adore emotionally/intellectually but who is not receptive to your specific sexual desires? This may lead to a great interpersonal connection but a less than desirable sex life.
Where would you start?
Conan2995