You mentioned her not trusting you. This, unfortunately, I see as a huge problem. By nature, I'm a very open person. (Sometimes too open, as I have been on this forum at times, to my own detriment).
Personally, I could not remain with a girl who didnt trust me, and who I didnt trust. Certainly, after we knew each other well, and we had been emotionally and physically open with each other,. I would tell her about my foot and tickle fetishes, and my "interest" of liking to see females stand barefoot on ladders. I'm one who believes in compromise. If she wasnt into feet, tickling, or standing on a ladder, at that point I would hope she would be willing to give some. Something like "You can play with my feet sometimes, and tickle me sometimes, and I'll stand barefoot on a stepstool for you, or do a ladder every once in a while". If she absolutely shot me down with everything, and said something like "You can never, ever touch my feet, you can never tickle me, and i wont even consider standing barefoot on even a chair or stool for you". That would signify to me that she had no caring for my desires whatsoever. Certainly her sticking her feet in my face, or allowing me to kiss them lightly, isnt painful or ticklish, etc. I would have to see what compatabilities we had in other ways, and how her whole attitude was toward the fetish things. Theres a long way between a girl saying "I dont want you to tickle me or kiss my feet every day" and.. "You can never tickle me or kiss my feet". The former i would understand. The latter I would resent, and probably not be happy with someone like that.
Those are just my thoughts on this subject.
Mitch
Personally, I could not remain with a girl who didnt trust me, and who I didnt trust. Certainly, after we knew each other well, and we had been emotionally and physically open with each other,. I would tell her about my foot and tickle fetishes, and my "interest" of liking to see females stand barefoot on ladders. I'm one who believes in compromise. If she wasnt into feet, tickling, or standing on a ladder, at that point I would hope she would be willing to give some. Something like "You can play with my feet sometimes, and tickle me sometimes, and I'll stand barefoot on a stepstool for you, or do a ladder every once in a while". If she absolutely shot me down with everything, and said something like "You can never, ever touch my feet, you can never tickle me, and i wont even consider standing barefoot on even a chair or stool for you". That would signify to me that she had no caring for my desires whatsoever. Certainly her sticking her feet in my face, or allowing me to kiss them lightly, isnt painful or ticklish, etc. I would have to see what compatabilities we had in other ways, and how her whole attitude was toward the fetish things. Theres a long way between a girl saying "I dont want you to tickle me or kiss my feet every day" and.. "You can never tickle me or kiss my feet". The former i would understand. The latter I would resent, and probably not be happy with someone like that.
Those are just my thoughts on this subject.
Mitch