FlockaBaloney
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Thoughts on this?
hardly any of my friends know about my tickle fetish and im sure it would be a little embarrassing if i told them. coming out was hard enough for me but telling friends about my fetish for tickling and being tied up would be just as hard. more power to the people who can do it and dont feel ashamed about it, thats a great feeling im sure!
Why do you need to come out to your friends about what gets you off sexually? "Come out" to your significant other for sure, since that's relevant, but why involve others that are not involved with you sexually in this?
This topic comes up pretty frequently; yet, every time it always brings out different insights (maybe they are the same insights; honestly, I don't read most of the posts).
Anyway, what I've come to realize now is that it almost entirely involves our OWN anxiety over how we feel about telling others about tickling. Feeling nervous about "coming out" about your fetish is natural, since for most of us, it is our deepest, darkest secret. However, if you honestly & confidently divulge your love of tickling to people you really trust, there should NOT be an issue.
Truth is: to people you trust, they'll understand; to people you don't know well, most probably don't give a $h*t. Its the @$$holes you gotta worry about...
but I get crap from my guy friends about it. They try to use it as a form of humiliation in front of attractive women, calling me wired or strange