MaleTickleeDC
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Okay, I'm curious to get some opinions on this. I know that it's a bad idea to **** where you eat, but there's this woman at my workplace who I find just so hot, and who is always smiling at me and glancing at me from across the room. Trouble is that I'm afraid that I already may have screwed up my chances with her. I'm a consultant at my workplace, so I'm only there for a few days, weeks, or months at a time. We're all easily replaced (they can fire us for looking at them the wrong way) so people tend to stay working and don't take long coffee breaks or what have you. That makes it hard to mingle. So I kept hoping to catch this woman by the water cooler or something, but it just didn't happen. A couple of weeks went by, and there are only so many times you can exchange glances or smiles with someone before seeming creepy. I didn't want to seem creepy so then I started ignoring her. Not sure if that was the right move but it was basically impossible to catch her on a break.
Anyway, I also noticed that her girlfriends in the office all of the sudden started giving me knowing glances and smiles as they walked past me. They had never even noticed me until that point, and all of the sudden they all started looking my way. Even the guy who sits next to her started looking at me whenever he walked by and nodding at me. So I kept waiting for a chance to get her alone but no opportunity presented itself. The only chances I had were times that she was walking down the hall or into the kitchen with her entourage of friends and I'm not enough of a suave operator to just bust into the group and start chatting with everyone, wooing her, making everyone my friend, etc. So finally after like a MONTH of all of this, I caught her by the coffee machine. She looked over at me, I found my balls and went over there, and made...some stupid comment about how cold it was outside. LOL. She remarked that it was cold inside. Then she started tending to her coffee again. She made a noise, like she was trying to think of something to say but couldn't. Then she finished stirring her coffee and left.
Okay, so at this point, I'm thinking that, okay, she's not interested. Maybe she has a boyfriend or whatever. Okay, no problem. But then today I was going to lunch and there she was waiting for the elevator with the woman who seems to be her BFF at the office. I figured I would just ignore her, since she clearly wasn't interested. But she stared at me for like 10 seconds, like she was waiting for me to come over and talk to her or something. I was confused so I didn't do anything. Then the elevator door opened. I held the door for her and her friend. She just walked past without looking at me or thanking me. Her friend made kind of a face when she did that, and smiled at me and said "thank you!" loudly, as if she thought what her friend had done was rude.
So basically my questions are:
1) WTF?
2) Why are women so difficult to understand?
3) My real question: is there any point in pursuing this woman or is this simply a situation where I should just forget the whole thing?
Anyway, I also noticed that her girlfriends in the office all of the sudden started giving me knowing glances and smiles as they walked past me. They had never even noticed me until that point, and all of the sudden they all started looking my way. Even the guy who sits next to her started looking at me whenever he walked by and nodding at me. So I kept waiting for a chance to get her alone but no opportunity presented itself. The only chances I had were times that she was walking down the hall or into the kitchen with her entourage of friends and I'm not enough of a suave operator to just bust into the group and start chatting with everyone, wooing her, making everyone my friend, etc. So finally after like a MONTH of all of this, I caught her by the coffee machine. She looked over at me, I found my balls and went over there, and made...some stupid comment about how cold it was outside. LOL. She remarked that it was cold inside. Then she started tending to her coffee again. She made a noise, like she was trying to think of something to say but couldn't. Then she finished stirring her coffee and left.
Okay, so at this point, I'm thinking that, okay, she's not interested. Maybe she has a boyfriend or whatever. Okay, no problem. But then today I was going to lunch and there she was waiting for the elevator with the woman who seems to be her BFF at the office. I figured I would just ignore her, since she clearly wasn't interested. But she stared at me for like 10 seconds, like she was waiting for me to come over and talk to her or something. I was confused so I didn't do anything. Then the elevator door opened. I held the door for her and her friend. She just walked past without looking at me or thanking me. Her friend made kind of a face when she did that, and smiled at me and said "thank you!" loudly, as if she thought what her friend had done was rude.
So basically my questions are:
1) WTF?
2) Why are women so difficult to understand?
3) My real question: is there any point in pursuing this woman or is this simply a situation where I should just forget the whole thing?