Escorts discuss a tickling request

[JoePTickle]

Really not that difficult. I've done it numerous times, with good results. Just being up front about what I want, what she can expect, and how long, even what I wanted them to wear. I don't tie them down, I give breaks when shes winded, and it has always been good experiences. I've actually had 3 different women in particular that said they were "too ticklish", and was hesitant, but after more explanation they agreed to give it a try. Every last one I've seen has said they'd do it again, that it wasn't anything like they'd expected, and they actually enjoyed it. Tickling can be done, just be up front and have fun.

Agreed, clear and considerate makes or breaks a session! Well said!

 

[matt62]

(From original poster

Glad people are finding the link interesting. Apologies if it's not working for a couple of you.

I have never met an escort for tickling purposes but sometimes have been desperate enough to start considering the pros and cons of it. Like The Internet says, I tended to think that most of them aren't ticklish - or they have to learn not to be, just like they have to learn to cut out a lot of other feelings and sensibilities to survive in their job - it could be a bit of a liability, as he says.

And then if you do find one who is truly ticklish, conscience dictates that you must let her have a safeword, and with her likely lack of experience of tickling I imagine she might use it every few seconds...frustrating!

Not sure why The Internet is so quick on the draw with Chicago. She sounds sassy enough to give as good as she gets, but how about being nice to each other. It's hard enough for some of us to get the courage to come on here and talk freely about our subject to people who know what we mean at last.

Peace. Keep the comments coming. I love hearing what people think about this.

 

[matt62]

I've been thinking a bit more about the problem of escorts and tickling since my last post.
As I said, I have never been with an escort for tickling, but I know that some people have, and report good experiences. Perhaps someone can help me to understand this puzzle:

1) I have always assumed that escorts and sex workers generally want to avoid intimacy or emotional connection with a client, whatever simulation of this they might put on professionally with him - any invitation to real intimacy from a client is a damn nuisance to them because they have to protect themselves emotionally.

2) Yet isn't it one of the incredible things about tickling that it is a potent short-cut to intimacy between two people in two seconds flat, whether the ticklee has chosen it or not? Think for example of all the teasing talk that a tickler indulges in to ramp up the intensity and intimacy of the moment, all that laser-like loving attention that he focusses on her...

Given this, I am surprised that an escort would be willing to get into this situation with a client, especially a second time, once she had realised where it took her. One of the things that we so love about tickling is that it overrides all voluntary defences and exposes the ticklee's vulnerability and she has no choice about that after it has started.

If tickling really can achieve this level of intimacy between an escort and a client, and the escort is still willing to go along with it, what an amazing tool we have at our disposal - and how easy it would be to misuse it in an exploitative way, too.

Have I understood this correctly?

 

[duderino84]

I think it's as simple as guys get intimate too easily.

 

[CapturedDoll]

1) I have always assumed that escorts and sex workers generally want to avoid intimacy or emotional connection with a client, whatever simulation of this they might put on professionally with him - any invitation to real intimacy from a client is a damn nuisance to them because they have to protect themselves emotionally.

2) Yet isn't it one of the incredible things about tickling that it is a potent short-cut to intimacy between two people in two seconds flat, whether the ticklee has chosen it or not? Think for example of all the teasing talk that a tickler indulges in to ramp up the intensity and intimacy of the moment, all that laser-like loving attention that he focusses on her...

Given this, I am surprised that an escort would be willing to get into this situation with a client, especially a second time, once she had realised where it took her. One of the things that we so love about tickling is that it overrides all voluntary defences and exposes the ticklee's vulnerability and she has no choice about that after it has started.

If tickling really can achieve this level of intimacy between an escort and a client, and the escort is still willing to go along with it, what an amazing tool we have at our disposal - and how easy it would be to misuse it in an exploitative way, too.

Have I understood this correctly?

WOW... that was put epically. I think you nailed it.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I've been thinking a bit more about the problem of escorts and tickling since my last post.
As I said, I have never been with an escort for tickling, but I know that some people have, and report good experiences. Perhaps someone can help me to understand this puzzle:

1) I have always assumed that escorts and sex workers generally want to avoid intimacy or emotional connection with a client, whatever simulation of this they might put on professionally with him - any invitation to real intimacy from a client is a damn nuisance to them because they have to protect themselves emotionally.

2) Yet isn't it one of the incredible things about tickling that it is a potent short-cut to intimacy between two people in two seconds flat, whether the ticklee has chosen it or not? Think for example of all the teasing talk that a tickler indulges in to ramp up the intensity and intimacy of the moment, all that laser-like loving attention that he focusses on her...

Given this, I am surprised that an escort would be willing to get into this situation with a client, especially a second time, once she had realised where it took her. One of the things that we so love about tickling is that it overrides all voluntary defences and exposes the ticklee's vulnerability and she has no choice about that after it has started.

If tickling really can achieve this level of intimacy between an escort and a client, and the escort is still willing to go along with it, what an amazing tool we have at our disposal - and how easy it would be to misuse it in an exploitative way, too.

Have I understood this correctly?

While I am not an escort am still a type of sex worker.

For question number one I 100% agree and I would say in my line of the work the clients can become a nuisance. Thankfully I've never had to deal with clients who've become enamored with me, but I know some pros who've had this happen. Some clients would confess their love for them and I know a poor pro-switch that dealt with an abusive Dom for way too long that would insinuate he just knew she wanted to have sex with him if the laws would allow it(I'm the one that finally told her that she needed to think about her health, safety, sanity, and less about the money. The guy was a douche and he was never going to get better.). Now the hard part is having to explain to a client that he can't see you anymore and it is also hard for the pro because you loose the money. Some take the news better then others. For instance that Dom I talked about sent really angry/awful emails and you sometimes hear of pros getting stalked, but more often then not the client will be understanding.

2. Maybe this is just me, but when I am in professional mode I don't ever have feelings of intimacy. It's a job and I treat it as such. A lot more work is put into paid sessions then regular non-paid sessions. With paid sessions I feel like I am putting more of a show on(I do my hair, I do my makeup, I make sure my pedicure looks good, and I dress up(I usually ask if they have something in particular they want me to wear.)).At the end of the day they are paying me to take care of their fetish, fantasy, or BDSM desires, so I am more focused on making them happy. That is not to say I never have fun as well, but as a rule I tend to go into work mode and focus more on the client.

 

[matt62]

That's interesting, Porcelaindoll2. I'm not surprised at your answer to point 2 - that when in professional mode you don't have feelings of intimacy - because I can see how necessary that would be - to keep up a certain barrier.

On the other hand it somewhat contradicts my own experience of the power of tickling. Maybe it is a matter of temperament. Personally I can't separate tickling and intimacy. Clearly some people can. This is what I am trying to understand better. And what I also find interesting is that I can see how for some people even sex is more easily separated from intimacy than tickling is.

 

[Amelainn]

Am I the only one who thinks that this is an unusual request?

 

[Alipiama]

Honestly, I've never even thought about it. But there is logic in your words. Tickling seems to be more intimate than sex. When we are tickled, we can't control ourselves. This even hurts some people.
Therefore, I would never mock a girl like that. I have already had the experience of ordering an escort from one site. There is even a ts escorts service there. The girls sometimes told me what strange requests they sometimes received. At such moments, you are amazed at what the human imagination can think of.