I understand where some moral conflicts may be coming from. I do believe it is no different. The great difference is that I also believe that "pay for sex" is not wrong or even ugly in itself, it all depends on who you are, how you behave, the kind of girl you are looking for and the way you expect to behave with her.
On my own view, and have in mind my view may be really liberal to many, I see it like this: If you wish to be with a really nice girl that happens to charge for whatever you would like to do with her, so be it! As long as you are being honest with yourself, as long as you are getting anyone else injured in the process (total NO if you are in a regular relationship). As long as you behave like you would behave with any girl you respect and care for.....then....I see no harm in it! Yeah, sure it becomes a business. But everything in life is kind of win-win situations, or at least we are allways looking for those in life. And a lot of stuff involves money because this is the world we live in.
I usually go with this kind of thought:
- think on the nice and pretty girl who asked for your help when studying for highschool exams. Then because you were nice and she kind of got interested in you, she lets you have sex with her after you help her. She may not be 100% sure you are the love of her life, but you were kind to her, you did help, you have something that she values and cares for, and that is the single starting point for everything.
- now compare this with you looking for a high profile escort. She doesnt need to be with you, she will be with you only if she likes the way you talk to her on the phone and you prove to be successfull enough to be a good customer. And when you get together, she may or may not let you do all you want and she may or may not want to see you again.
The only thing i feel wrong are those who are looking for "whores" just to have sex and to do only what they want, with a total lack of concern for the women in front of them.
So, to me, if you respect and care for the girl, then it´s ok. If you have no respect for the girl then you are just paying for something like if it was a cow or i dont know what and that is wrong!!!