So this is in connection to my previous thread called "origins of tickle fetish". The previous focusing on the masculine aspect. This thread will focus on the feminine aspect based on David Deida's book "The way of the superior man" and linking it to tickling. Ticklees and women please enter your input....as I/we try to further understand you......
Dr Deida describes me as the void. Conversely women are described as life, passion, color. Pretty much the saying girls are made of sugar and spice applies. If the masculine is the empty void of the universe, then the feminine are the stars, planets and life. Radiant music, attractive women,emotions, nature and even beer are all part of the feminine. Logic, rationality, integrity strength sports are all masculine. While I may use men and masculine/ women and feminine interchangeably they are not. Men have feminine traits and women have masculine. But to be truly feminine that person has to be with their compliment...truly masculine. Girly girls like manly men. Girly men like strong women. Ect.
Ok. So for the feminine to really be feminine and give her gifts to the world she needs to be with a strong masculine. Ask any masculine man "what would you do without women?" The feminine is our muse that propels us to be better than we are. Every guy has a girl that makes them want to be better. So the masculine is best when he is around the feminine. But when is the feminine at her best? When she is around the masculine and loved my him. Read romance novels to get the idea. Women fall for guys that are logical, rational, not emotional, strong ect. It is then that the feminine can be her playful, emotional, radiant and beautiful self. But it's tough. Women that are truly feminine without a masculine guy by her side don't go far. So she must be rational, logical, not emotional ect...even though its not fully in her nature.
Think about this ladies...2 scenarios for your bday: 1) Your guy is going to take you out for your bday to an awesome pricey restaurant of your choice. You don't have a dress so you have to go shopping. He asks for you to drive because he has no car.
2)Your guy picks and awesome restaurant for the both of you. It's a surprise. On your bed is a dress picked out for you to wear. He says to be ready by 8 and he picks you up in a cab.
Which scenario best brigs out your feminine? Which scenario would make you a more beautiful, lively radiant date? Why? Because the date took care of all of the masculine stuff...allowing you to be completely feminine.
Finally sex. The feminine wants to be submissive during sex. Not to say all women want to be submissive....but the feminine does. But she has to trust that the man knows what he's doing. If she has to give direction it kills it for her as she has to bring out her masculine. The feminine will give her gift to the world "orgasm" when she is completely out of control. Ever heard of foreplay starting long before sex? Thats what they mean.
So as for tickling for the "lee". It is a moment where the feminine is completely out of control. And the feminine can laugh and spread joy. She is completely submissive. This desire to be tickled is done in place for the sex that she wants where she is completely submissive to her loving masculine partner. This is the deep dark desire of the feminine. Very few women will acknowledge it. Many would say they don't have that desire. Some don't but most do. The ticklee reenacts this by being tickled into submission. The ticklee gets their high from this. Again it's far more psychological than physical. Accepting this desire for submissive sex by the ticklee with a masculine loving partner will bring the ticklee to new sexual heights.
Let me know what you think as it helps us guys better help you!
cheers
GQguy
Dr Deida describes me as the void. Conversely women are described as life, passion, color. Pretty much the saying girls are made of sugar and spice applies. If the masculine is the empty void of the universe, then the feminine are the stars, planets and life. Radiant music, attractive women,emotions, nature and even beer are all part of the feminine. Logic, rationality, integrity strength sports are all masculine. While I may use men and masculine/ women and feminine interchangeably they are not. Men have feminine traits and women have masculine. But to be truly feminine that person has to be with their compliment...truly masculine. Girly girls like manly men. Girly men like strong women. Ect.
Ok. So for the feminine to really be feminine and give her gifts to the world she needs to be with a strong masculine. Ask any masculine man "what would you do without women?" The feminine is our muse that propels us to be better than we are. Every guy has a girl that makes them want to be better. So the masculine is best when he is around the feminine. But when is the feminine at her best? When she is around the masculine and loved my him. Read romance novels to get the idea. Women fall for guys that are logical, rational, not emotional, strong ect. It is then that the feminine can be her playful, emotional, radiant and beautiful self. But it's tough. Women that are truly feminine without a masculine guy by her side don't go far. So she must be rational, logical, not emotional ect...even though its not fully in her nature.
Think about this ladies...2 scenarios for your bday: 1) Your guy is going to take you out for your bday to an awesome pricey restaurant of your choice. You don't have a dress so you have to go shopping. He asks for you to drive because he has no car.
2)Your guy picks and awesome restaurant for the both of you. It's a surprise. On your bed is a dress picked out for you to wear. He says to be ready by 8 and he picks you up in a cab.
Which scenario best brigs out your feminine? Which scenario would make you a more beautiful, lively radiant date? Why? Because the date took care of all of the masculine stuff...allowing you to be completely feminine.
Finally sex. The feminine wants to be submissive during sex. Not to say all women want to be submissive....but the feminine does. But she has to trust that the man knows what he's doing. If she has to give direction it kills it for her as she has to bring out her masculine. The feminine will give her gift to the world "orgasm" when she is completely out of control. Ever heard of foreplay starting long before sex? Thats what they mean.
So as for tickling for the "lee". It is a moment where the feminine is completely out of control. And the feminine can laugh and spread joy. She is completely submissive. This desire to be tickled is done in place for the sex that she wants where she is completely submissive to her loving masculine partner. This is the deep dark desire of the feminine. Very few women will acknowledge it. Many would say they don't have that desire. Some don't but most do. The ticklee reenacts this by being tickled into submission. The ticklee gets their high from this. Again it's far more psychological than physical. Accepting this desire for submissive sex by the ticklee with a masculine loving partner will bring the ticklee to new sexual heights.
Let me know what you think as it helps us guys better help you!
cheers
GQguy