i don't know if this post is aimed at me but since no one was named and im the OP of it, ill assume it is, sorry if im wrong.
first off, i did not brand any single person on this forum a creep, to do so would be wrong for the reason you stated, i have no clue who they are.
what i did brand were these people's "actions"/"methods" as creepy.
also, i do not have a problem with guys messaging girls, i would be a liar to say that i haven't messaged a girl on here with out the intention of talking about tickling with them but atleast i try and get to know them first and try to see what they are like to see whether i would want to engage such a conversation with them.
like you have stated, its easy to add someone to an ignore list but a girl who i met through this site told me she would get about 30 PM's a day! now correct me if im wrong, but if you were to find yourself having to add people to an ignore list EVERY time you logged on, wouldn't it become tidieous and probably just get fed up of coming on the site altogether?
which brings me to the point of these "forward" people who do not contribute anything to the site could be annoying and driving away genuine who could bring some really productive stuff to the forum?
That is what annoys me....