Thank you for coming to my defense its true im a less than perfect person I just enjoy getting on this forum because I get to see that people have the same thoughts and fantasies that I do and this provides people to have dialogue on this topic in a friendly manner. Contrary to what people may think I am well educated and there probably is no excuse for poor grammar . I will try to proofread more. My only excuse is that I get so excited at some of my responses that I make mistakes. I no longer want to focus on the negatives . Thank you just the same.